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boyfriend or friend


Question Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 10:06 pm

soo i have a boy friend but i have this guy friend who just came back from california and i really like him alot.. but i dont kno what to do i love my boyfriend but i want to be with my friend from cali to...

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glossipgirl13 answered Friday August 11 2006, 1:17 am:
Like the person before me I think you should make a list of each of theirs pros and cons the one who has the most pros sounds like the better guy but if you can't decide I say just be friends with both of them until you can decide which one is the nicest and the one that is the best for you.
You never know if one is putting up an act..

If the case is that this other guy(guyfriend) has the most pros don't just break up with your boyfriend give him some time and keep adding to the list maybe about in a couple of weeks if he's still down there(cons) maybe its time for you 2 just to be friends.



Best Wishes,
B.

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charmed3fanatic answered Friday August 11 2006, 12:14 am:
you have to pick and choose. write a pros and cons list and pickkk the one that has the most pros. about them cause oviously you can't have them bothh =/ even thoughhhhh we all wish we could =]

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THA_PRiNCESZ631 answered Thursday August 10 2006, 11:47 pm:
im in the same situation as you . but one isnt my boyfriend were just like " together " for over a year & a half & me & jose just started hangin out alot recently & i started to catch feelings for him . and it all really matters on who you trust more .. and who you think wont break your heart and i hope you havnt been going out with your boyfriend for a long time just incase you want to break up with him for the kid that just came back from cali . cause it would make him think he was just a backup & cause lots & lots of drama and fighting & shit .. so just make sure you think about who would treat you right & wont fuck you over in the long run and stuff .. i hope i helped a little .. xox casper

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lilteacup answered Thursday August 10 2006, 11:06 pm:
Haven't you ever heard..."Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, they will leave you for the one they love"...well it goes something like that. Ultimately, you need to decide what you want...but that may help some.

Good Luck,
Teacup

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