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Member Since: August 9, 2006
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Last Update: August 11, 2006
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Alright, well there is this one guy that I've been hanging out with, but basically we're only friends so far. Everyone says that he likes me, and I like him, but I'm not sure about his feelings.

I'm not sure if I should make the first move and ask him out, or wait a little longer and see if he does? (link)
You should say like "have heard what people are saying? They say that you like me and that I like u is it true?" if not just invite him to a group date and see if you both click if so take a chance and ask him out...


Best Wishes,
B.


my best friends birthday is tomorrow [8/11] and shes having a pool party. im going, but theres going to be a lot of people there [boys too] and im embarrassed of going in the pool since im 14&wear a one piece. im just not comfortable in a 2 piece. I tried asking my friend to not make me go in the pool but she says I have to. Plus on top of that i look absolutley HIDEOUS in a bathing suit. My thighs are just...awful. Im a very shy person and i know ill be embarrassed beyond what i could imagine, since im not exactly skinny. what should I do?
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I have a problem similar to that except my ears poke out when my hair gets wet lol I think you should wear a 1 piece with board shorts and a shirt if your not comftorable with showing your skin. Or a 2piece with board shorts... If not just simply tell you friend that you"ll just put your feet in or just hand by the food corner (if they have one) if none of these work just be honest with her and tell her the truth if she's a friend she"ll understand


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B.


soo i have a boy friend but i have this guy friend who just came back from california and i really like him alot.. but i dont kno what to do i love my boyfriend but i want to be with my friend from cali to... (link)
Like the person before me I think you should make a list of each of theirs pros and cons the one who has the most pros sounds like the better guy but if you can't decide I say just be friends with both of them until you can decide which one is the nicest and the one that is the best for you.
You never know if one is putting up an act..

If the case is that this other guy(guyfriend) has the most pros don't just break up with your boyfriend give him some time and keep adding to the list maybe about in a couple of weeks if he's still down there(cons) maybe its time for you 2 just to be friends.



Best Wishes,
B.


14/f. i babysit A LOT for my neighbors. but whenever i babysit them i always eat sooo much. even if i'm not hungry i eat. like if i have to feed the kids, i'll eat. and even if i'm not feeding the kids and they are watching tv i will go into the kitchen and eat. whatever i eat is always junk food. like cookies, chips, candy, etc. what can i do to take my mind off of eating while i'm there? i've tried bringing gum with me to chew when i think about eating, but that doesn't work. HELP! (link)
I think that you should limit yourself like only 2 things and no more.TO keep yourself busy try bringing magazines and staying as far away as the fridge as possible lol! If you really have to eat bring some home made trail mix with healthy stuff in it and like I mentioned before only bring a couple of home food. And if you find yourself being tempted then write a note saying something like "NO! No more eating ______(insert name) and stick it on your hand or somewhere where you will see it when you try to get something....well...


Best Wishes,

B.


My boyfriend just got braces, and I don't blame him because they're really hard to clean but... His breath STINKS!!! everytime we kiss it's like *Faint*. How can I tell him he has bad breath without hurting his feelings? (link)
Maybe you should give him a lil anniversary present or just an ocassional present with maybe a shirt and socks a card some candy and you can just "happen" to drop in toothpaste toothbrush soap (so it won't be all about his breath lol) and floss and a toothbrush and maybe something else ooh mints and gum! Then just casually tell him I hope you like it and it comes in handy! Then if it doesn't work just sit with him and talk to him nicely


Best Wishes,

B.


I want to keep more things to myself. I complain about everything all the time, and I always talk about people, good or bad. I hate it, how do I learn not to tell people everything, like when to stop? thanks! (link)
I think that when you are beginning to complain stop yourself and think about(like the others below my answer) how your words are going to affect the person you are going to tell them to. If you find you can't stop simply bite something so then they won't be able to hear what you say.

Best Wishes,


B.


My stomach isn't flabby...but its too soft for my liking. does doing crunches really help tighten up your abdomen?
if so, how many should i do a day? (link)
Well I do dancing and everyday we have to do about 50 situps and crunches but what helps is when you do different variations like right left leg up reach etc. There is also the plank position that is hard but it will REALLY help your abdomens you lay like if you were going to do a push up but instead of your arms being flat on the floor supporting you lace your fingers together instead andbend your elbows and put your hands (together and laced) on the floor your abs wil immediatly start working I literally shake but after I feel like I have ushers abs haha but in a girl way.. Honestly it does help your abs and helps you to a 6 pack but it doesn't take all the "flabby" off unless you do like 1000 and I don't recommend 1000 unless u have lots of energy then go ahead! But I recommend for you to do like as many as you can like maybe 50 w/ diff. Variations Then just keep going! Well I hope my advice helped!

Best wishes,

B.


Ok well theres this guy i met about 2 or 3 months ago when i was with my best friend. Well i started talking to him and what not well we were supposed to hang out but never got the chance and he told my friend that he was disappointed that we didnt. well i was on myspace today lookin around and i seen that he put my friend on his top 8..whats the deal with that? i mean he always called me beautiful nd stuff but he put her up there? im not mad it just has me confused because it seems like he really liked me and everyone thought so.. what do you guys think?? (link)
Well I simply think he just wants ur friend to help him out get to know you better and then he can do something special to get your attention but secretly he is just waiting for you to make the first move he really does think your beautiful!!! Don't worry he still likes because if your friend was a true friend she would've told you he likes her..but she hasn't so he does like U!!!! So jst wait a lil...




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