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Remember that guy well Im not sure what to do?
Ok, im 13/f. I have a huge crush on my best guy friend. I trust him with everything except for I can't tell him that I like him. He thinks I like this one guy (all girls like him so its pretty normal) but I just can't stand it! So many people say we flirt all the time though I dont really notice it. He always smiles at me and when we talk we do like shove eachother for fun or playfully punch eachother's arm when we say something stupid. For some reason all I can think about is him lately and its killing me! I CAN'T tell him I like him, and lately he won't tell me who he likes. He used to say he was confused and usually would end up asking me who I like and I wouldnt reply. When I finnally wanted him to stop asking him that's when I told him I like the "everyone guy". He then told me he's sure he doesn't like the girl he was confused about. Soo many people say i like him and he likes me but I can't believe it. I think he likes my best girl friend (lets call her Susan). He and every other guy likes to flirt with Susan all the time. She is my best friend but it's getting annoying. There's also the fact shes really shallow and dumb becasue she cant tell you what 2+2 is and she says if a guy doesnt have nice shoes theres no reason to like him. I really want to tell him I like him but im scared he'll hate me if I do. What should I do?
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I think that he likes he is just to shy to tell you that so dont be affraid.
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he cant hate you for liking him.
i think he would take it as a
compliment. if you tell him and he
doesnt like you back; dont get too
discouraged. things may be awkward
for a while, but the awkwardness will
fade.
weelll about your friend "susan"
if him and everyother guy like to
flirt with her, he may not like her.
and i know how that feels to have every
guy want your bestfriend. it does get
annoying :/ but you just have to let it
go, its most likely not gonna change
soon so try not to let it bother you :]
Ask him again, if he doesnt telll you
who he likes, then ask him for hints
to guess. like, ask him to explain
the girl he likes. he might just
explain you =P
sorry that everything is all over
the place. inbox me if you have
anymore questions and tell me what
happens =]
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he likes you, believe me.. ive been through that before too & i agree with the person under me, that either right a letter expressing how you feel, or an e-mail .. its the easiest way to really express how you feel. pretend your wrighting it just to get it off your chest & act like your not going to give it to him .. but do give it to him, or you could have " susan " tell him or give little hints or something. because obiviously you 2 flirt constantly from what your describing . and kids your age arent on that " player " b/s .. that everyone else is on right now. and it shows that he really does care about you & like you and whatever, but yeahh i hope all goess well =)
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Okay you could try to tell him how you really feel about him. There is a chance that the girl he said he was confused about could be you because when he said he didn't like the girl that he was confused about he didn't want to say it anymore because he thinks that you like someone else. So either tell him yourself, note, email or face to face. If you don't want to do that you could have it go through a friend besides "Susan" There is a hug chance that you guys would be together soon!
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