Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? THA_PRiNCESZ631 answered Thursday August 10 2006, 11:39 pm: haha i do the same thing .. its hard but we usualy dont break up.. they try to make me not be mad at them or start shit like they`ll think they did something so they try to make up for it .. idk im the same way you are .. i do it cause i want the attention though. and like the person under me .. you have to think of their feelings first if you dont want it to lead to breakups - becase you have to think if your treating them like shit and starting with them constantly they feel like wtf are they doing in the relationship . just treat them the way you wanna be treated & it should be all good . and think before you speak if you know its gunna hurt them or make them think differently of you then DONT say it cause they`ll break up with you. dont try to seem jealous, needy, bitchy, clingy & selfish thats a huge turn off to guys especially clingy girls that wont let them go out with the guys or whatever. i hope i helped .. xox much lovee - casper [ THA_PRiNCESZ631's advice column | Ask THA_PRiNCESZ631 A Question ]
UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday August 10 2006, 11:36 pm: just think alittle clearer when you say things. like think if its going to damage anything or cause problems. i have that problem too. i usually just think before i say anything & even if you do think its the right thing to say try to say it in a nicer way just so you dont sound so mean. [ UHOHxOMFG's advice column | Ask UHOHxOMFG A Question ]
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