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Okay so my boyfriend and I were the perfect couple always g0ot along and the odd time had arguments. Now, he's been acting really differently towards me as if he loves me less and it's freaking me out. I think it might have something to do with that he found out I danced with someone at a party a long time ago but yeah:( I need help I really want too be with him but is that what's best? thank you so much :) btw, I'm 15 and he's 16 (link)
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The only way to find out whats bothering him is by asking him and telling him how you feel. Did he find out from you that you danced with another guy or somone else ? That can alter how someone feels about the situation. Were you guys together when it happend or seprate ? Best way to go in my opinion is just try and talk to him about it. Maybe he feels like you care less because you danced with another guy ?
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Alright, well, my girlfriend broke up with me, but says she wants to be friends, and that the reason she broke up with me was because she wasnt ready for a relationship yet she was the one that asked me out!!! To say the least Im confused and wondering if she is being real or if she doesnt want to let go of the single life, hooking up whenever you feel like (link)
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She wants to keep you around but still doesnt still wants to be able to do whatever she wants. Maybe she is trying to keep her options open. Or she wants to make sure youll be there when she is ready for a relationship. Youll never now unless you ask. And still after that You may never know the real reasons. My advice is dont wait around for someone who doesnt want to be with you , You might miss Out on sombody else who's great.
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So today my mom threw out all of my makeup and brushes (even the expensive stuff and the brand new stuff) because she says it could have mono germs on it from when I had mono last month (i know.. wtf?!).
It was about $90 worth of makeup that was mostly given to me as gifts. So now that I need a whole new makeup supply, I kind of need suggestions because I have never really gone shopping for makeup before. I would like a mid-range product, not quite MAC, but not the $4 foundations either...
I am fair, with dark brown almond shaped eyes and medium-a little dark brown hair.
I would like to get--
-Mascara (just to lengthen and curl)
-Eyeliner pencil
-Loose powder, or liquid foundation
-Eyeshadow
-Blush (powder)
-Concealer
and any other products you swear by.
If you have any suggestions of your favorite products, I would love you forever!
Thanks!
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Covergirl is good. They Have in both expensive n inexspensive prices. The dollar store isnt badd.
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i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me? (link)
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Well, i take it you have a fake friend. If she judges you infront of these guys shes most likely jealous of you. And if she cant accept the way you are, then she doesnt diserve to be your friend. Dont let her put you down for the person you are. Her judgeing you is only saying what kind of person she is.This probally sounds bad, but judge her right back, im sure she wont like it to much. Make good decisions about who you pick as your friends.
hope everything works outt.
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** this could go under a number of different categories...** and uhh... sorry its so long.
so well, basically, my life sucks.
and theres not really anything i can do about it.
my family is dysfunctional,
my friendships are falling apart,
the onlything good in my life is a guy who i fell in love with 3 years ago. however, he moved 2000 miles away. and i rarely get to see him (obviously) or talk to him like i would like.
im ready to end everything.
ive been a cutter for like 2 years now.
and my life is getting worse every day.
what should i do? besides go see a counselor; surround myself with people who care and who would take my mind off of it; and talk to a trusted adult; see a doctor; etc. is there anything i can do?
im female and almost 16 if that really matters. doubt it does. (link)
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I kno exactly where your comeing from. I kno how hard things get, and how it feels to be really sad. But theres something you have to realize, this is your life, and its the only one your ever going to get. You were born to live your life. You cant just expect happyness to come to you. You will never be happy if you sit around and dwell over everything. Your family is dysfunctional? Well, they ARE your family.& you should learn to love them no matter what. They arent all of a sudden going to change for you just because your sad. So there is know use being all depressed over. Your friendships are falling apart? DONT just sit there and watch them fall apart. if you cared so much, you would do something about it. no one else is going to do anything. YOU have to. The guy you fell in love with moved? well atleast you two are still together. a healthy relationship comes with happyness, and if your depressed i promise you it will ruin your relationship. guys like girls with confidence. You cut yourself. find some other way to relieve stress. write poems. go running. get a punching bag. start looking on the postive side, because when you get older your going to look back and say hey i wish i would have done things differently. and riight now you HAVE the power to change things. you just choose not too.
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I'm 13, And I have my myspace there isnt much on it, but I moved away and I like to stay in contact with alot of my old friends.
Well I recently talking a boy who is the brother of one of my new friends.. We will call him Chris. Chris is 18. And he starting getting over flirty with me on AIM so I asked him if he remember my ageand he told me he did then said he had to go. I completly ignored his 'flirts' towards me. Then he started talking to me over myspace and flirted even more.. and i told him I'm to young for him & he's to old for me. I mean he's almost the same age as my older.. thats sick. And he responded to me saying that he believes I enjoy when he flirts with me, and im to "sexy" to not flirt with. I told him him to leave me alone and I blocked him myspace & aim. Then I told my brother.. becase he's an adult who i trust. My brother thinks I did the wrong thing and should have told him right away when the flirts started happening.
And this boy chris still tries to make new aim accounts and i just block him.
Did i do the right thing? (link)
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age is just a number.thought you should know.
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thnk you so much for the advice but do u think if i were to write this in the wall (i feel so special right now you want to know why??? because of the fact that sum real immature fucksz has no life that they had to write something about me on here ...oh and thnks for the drawing choke on it bitchesz ! o01) or do u think it will cause more problemsz?? (link)
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ha i say go for it!
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i mightve already wrote in another question that im recently new at this school im in right now...well i dont know every one in my grade and no offence but i dont care im cool with a little group and thats all i need well anywaysz today at school my friend came up to me and told me if i seen what some one wrote about me in the girls bath room wall. i said no that i didnt but when i went in there to check it out i saw a drawing with my name pointing at it now i know that who ever did that really has no life but its hard ignoring it right now i mean i dont know what to do ....should i find out who did it or let it go ...if i let it go they might continue cuz im doing nothing but if i do sumthing about it its not going to solve anything.....help ? (link)
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whoever wrote it was trying to get to you. Just think you must be the center of their world, they take the time to draw something about you on a bathroom wall, what imature brats. What you do, is keep your head up, and dont show it bothers you, because that whats bugs them the most!. Hope i helped.
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Hii all my friends shop at hollister wich is wicked expensive and its not like im poor but my mom doesnt like the store do you have any idears?? (link)
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i dont shop at hollister. And i still have good clothes, because im not poor, but dont have the most money in the world. You can shop at salvation army the have hollister vlothes there for less. You can also just shop at JC pennys there clothes are just as good.
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Okay, about a year ago after my boyfriend and I had been going out for 3 month, he borke up with me for absolutly no reason. I was so sad. It took me about 3-4 months to get over it. But now, amost 1 year later, I still can't trust any of the guys who ask me out. I'm afraid they'll do what my ex-boyfriend did to me, just leave me standing there. How do I get over this feeling??? (link)
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i kno exactly how you feel. Before dateing a guy try and get to know him first.
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idiot! i just talked to my old-crush online, and i have this weird feeling now. like i hate him. im bitter, i think. ugh! i wrote him an email a while ago, and now i asked him howcome he never answered? (it was just a polite email, like "hey its been a while, how's life?") and he was really rude about it!! and then we kept talking, and got into a discussion.. nd after a while he said "you know what, im not in the mood to talk to you to be honest" and he was just.. a complete jerk. so i was like "whatever dude, bye" and he said "bye bye now" and now we're both online, not talking to eachother, and im staring at his screenname with.. anger, i think. im not sure what it is i feel but i dont like it. i hate him, i hate myself. i feel so inferior now, just help me please! what do i do? (link)
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Dont let a guy make you feel this way. If he didnt want to talk to you then thats his loss. You probally feel this way because you might still have feelings for him. Or you were hopeing he still cared. Or maybe you just hated he was a dick. Just dont let it get to you. guys are jerks.
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Right so i know a few people who were their jeans low and then their boxers show..do girls get put off/ turned on by this ? or does it dpend on the person ? (link)
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it doesnt turn me on. But i like it only because im atracted to guys who dress ghetto.
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id like opinions on this... just what does this say to you, like whats it about? --
head spinning and i go numb
you used to be the only place i could turn
everything that once was, brought down by a lie
inside, a burning feeling like my heart has bled and died
i could feel it every touch, every smile, every kiss
perfect memories now feel like false bliss
its still what i want and i want nothing more
see the light, dry my tears, and pick me off this floor
my breath is frozen in me as my heart turns cold
locked in this feeling forever while the world grows old
if i could see it in your eyes would it make it more clear?
was this for real or just the happening reality of my fears?
how could something so perfect just be ripped from my hands?
you beg me to believe but i question how i can
my perfected dream turned into a chilling nightmare
now watch as my heart breaks open and tears freefall in the air
ive lost sense of direction and i dont know where to go
was she right and is this just false hope?
well now its my turn to beg
i want to live again and i want to fly high
so save me please and dont let this die.
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Very deep. Sounds like someone is heart broken and wants someone back. I liked it though
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Alright well,
Today was an interesting day. My so-called 'best friend' has/has a huge crush on me. We went out but it didn't work out because I realized I didn't like him in that way. So later on in the month he asks me out again and I say I don't know. Thing is, I get jealous with every move he makes when it comes to talking to a different girl or something. I want all his attention on ME ME ME. It felt like I always had his attention. Ha. Well..My answer is I don't know when he asks me out, so then he's talking on the phone with another 'so-called friend' of mine and I'm asking him what he's talking about with her. All he says is, just stuff. So I believe him. But I get all out of control and start saying, 'You like her don't you?!, 'Do you think she's hot?!', 'Do you wanna date her?!', 'I swear if you date her I will never talk to you again!', 'She's so..UGH!', Then he starts saying, 'No, I have no interest in her and I don't think I will ever like her!', so I said, 'Okay, let's keep it that way!', He then said, 'Well I'm not promising anything though', and I got pretty pissed because I get jealous over him pretty easily and I don't even like him in that way but sometimes I feel like I do, I feel like he's all mine and no one else can have him, I've never been in a sitatuation like this and I started yelling at him and saying, 'Are you gonna wait for my answer?!', He says, 'Well it depends on how long it takes.' So I just starting saying weeks, months..A year and then he says, you never know. So that day had been a Sunday when I went to my grandma and grandpa's house with my family. I had been calling him all day because I was so bored, I could tell he had gotten annoyed. But he was acting really different then usuall and not wanting to talk to me. Usually when he's on the phone with someone on the other line and I call he tells that other person he's gonna talk to me. Well anyways, that didn't happen this time. I called him and he said hey can you call like later because I'm still on the phone with someone. I was wandering who he had could possibly been talking to for so long! I mean, he didn't like anyone except me that I knew of, so I asked him, 'Who are you talking to?', He said, 'A person.', God I really hated when he sad that. So I said, 'What person?', He just said, 'A person.' So I just said, 'Whatever.' So I hung up on him. I was pretty pissed off at him that day because he was totally avoiding me for no apparant reason. So the following day after that, which had been Monday, I see him at school and I give him a weird look and he raises his eyebrows at me and I wander wtf is his problem?! So I see him again and he's with one of my friends Nick and he totally ignores me when I come up to him and he just walks straight to his class and I ask him, 'Why are you ignoring me?' He says, 'I don't know..' Now I'm really ticked off. I did nothing wrong and he's acting like a total jerk to me! So then the whole day was just a blurr. Anytime I saw him he'd just give me a weird look. So then at lunch I was kind of in a bad mood and some people were wondering what was wrong with me because I couldn't get Greg off my mind. So 'Sara' asks me, 'Are you okay Jacky, what's wrong?' I swear she wouldn't leave me alone and it was just getting me more pissed off. She acts so immature and it's not like she cares about my feelings anyway, so why woder how I am?! At that point I was really pissed off and I had been having a bad day because of everything that was happening. So I walk to class in an opposite direction from the way I usually go and I see one of my best friends Courtney, she's with Greg and her bf Tommy. She comes up to me and Greg totally ignores me again! I ask him, 'Why are you mad at me?! What did I do to you?!, His response is, 'I don't know..' He never has an answer for anything and I just started getting paranoyed because when he says I don't know he thinks I already know the answer to that which I don't! Courtney was still pretty pissed at her bf because, well that's just another whole story. But by the end of the day it was still a blurr. Courtney came to my locker and we found Nick because he usually walks with us downstairs to Greg and Tommy. So Courtney, Nick and I all went to her locker and I was so pissed off I couldn't even begin. I was asking Courtney, 'Why is Greg mad at me?! Why is he ignoring me?!' She had no idea. I asked Nick and he said, 'Well he's going out with Sara and he didn't want you to know.' I was like, 'OMFG! That's it?!', At that point I was extremely furious. He said he doesn't like her and probably would never like her from what he told me on my friday. Courtney said she was really pissed at Greg but man they had no idea how fucking pissed I was. I was yelling at them because of it! I couldn't believe it! Why would Greg go out with her?! I couldn't understand. So I asked my friend for advice and she said well, when they can't have what they want sometimes they settle for less. I loved that quote because it was so true. Anyways I was yelling at them on the way downstairs and when I saw Greg with Sara I couldn't even look at them, and when I did, I laughed. I found it funny as hell for some reason. They weren't ment for each other. They're not ment to be. Greg's not right for her. Sara doesn't even like him, I know who she likes, she's just gonna end up hurting Greg. Wow was I pissed, I couldn't believe it. Courtney, Tommy and I were just talking and anytime I looked at Greg it was a horrible glare that said wtf are you looking at. Anyways I was grounded so I couldn't walk with Tommy, Greg and Courtney to Courtney's house until Thursday which sucked because I wanted to come over to see what would happen. So Courtney walked me over to Jerad and I ran into Zach. He really made my day. We walked home together. We talked and got along and stuff and I felt like I liked him and I felt like I could talk to him. So I asked, 'Would you want me to walk with you tomorrow?', And he said smiling, 'Yeah I would really like that.' So everything was horrible up until that point. God I'm just dispised and upset. I was mainly talking to Courtney, Jerad, and just all my friends about it. I know Greg asked about me because Courtney told me. Well I wonder what's ahead of me for tomorrow..Joy. What do you think I should do?
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Well, if graig was your real friend, You would be happy he was with someone who makes him happy. You are probally jealous but its understanable. But remeber you cant have him all to youself. And you gave him a reason a to ignore you so its your fault. Your threatend not to be his friend if he dated this girl. So no wonder why he didnt know. I would talk to him soon and apoligize, and tell him how you feel, before you loose a good friendship. Also, i think you should get to know this kid you were walking home with it could devlope into someting big =]. Hope your next day has less drama
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hey i really need advice, pleeeaase help me.
Im in 9th grade and there is this guy that i really like and hes in 12th grade :/. he might like me but im not sure, i danced with him at the dance and stuff and people got really jelouse. my parents said i have no chance with him cause hes a lot older and they say he just wants me for sex.it just really stinks cause i really like him. what should i do?
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14 and 18 is fine.People need to grow up and realie age is just a number, and if you guys really like eachother then someone calling him a loser shouldnt irrate him. But Get to know him first, dont listen to anyones shit. i know a 14 year old with an 18 year old they have been together for about 7 months. and there perfect. so yes go for it, just dont be easy.
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so my one "friend" pretends to cut herself.then she makes a big deal out of it when people ask to see her arms,implying that she cuts.she doesnt.she just wants people to feel bad for her.and she tells EVERYONE.from the people i know that have cut,they dont like people to know.its just really annoying because she gets all the attention for something that isnt even true.she makes tiny little marks on her arms with like paper.and then when i say that she doesnt,she gets all mad at me and says what a horrible friend i am.im not trying to be mean,but it just bugs me.how can i get her to stop being so annoying about it.oh,and another thing,whenever we get in fights,she always goes and says that she has to go because shes gonna go cut herself.how can i get her to stop?
please i need help asap.thanks. (link)
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well oviusly your friend is crying out for attention. Maybe she feels a like of attention. But tell her that its anoying and she needs to grow up, and if she thinks your horrible so be it. Or tell her parents, they will give her counciling, because ovisly she needs attention so give it to her.
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im 15 year old girl goin out with a 17 year old guy. we've been going out for 7 months and we are really close to each other and he's the first guy ive ever really been able to trust. heres the thing though, he has a seasonal job at a haunted house and the people that go to the haunted house are all like girls that hit on the guys that work there and i dont know i feel really insecure about him working there. and i mean its not obvious that those are the type of the people that go but when i visited him i saw a lot of the girls hitting on guys and he was telling me about how all these girls ask for his phone number and press up against him and flirt with him. i just feel really uncomfortable about it but he tells me he feels weird about it too and he kind of wants to quit because of it. and i totally want him to but then again he always told me about how we was looking forward to working there again because hes been working there for 3 years. so should i just trust him to do the right thing or complain about it? (link)
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i think you should trust him. For soem comfort talk to him about this, or after he gets back from work ask him how it went and stuff.
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i am 13 and the kid i like is 17 his name is will. we made out about 3 months ago. it was just a one night stand. =/ but ever scine then i can never stop thinking about him. like ill just be in class and ill day dream about him. at first i thought ill get over it. but it had been 3 months and i still havent. i only see him once every 2 weeks. whenever i see him i run up to him and hug him so tight. and some times he sleeps at my friends house with me. but latly he has been mean to me. i didnt do anything. i just want to stop thinking about him. anyone have any advice?
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to the girl two down from this age is just a number ''hunny''
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so i had this boyfriend that i met through my bestfriend. they had a fling. but it ended. and he turned to me. i really actually grew to love him. but we broke up for a week. that is when i found out that my "bestfriend" asked him back out. and he couldnt say no. i felt like it was because im terrribly ugly or something. because shes kinda sorta pretty. then he dumped her for me. and we went out for about a month. keep in mind hes 2 years older than me. i thought we were really happy. like hes really sweet. he told me that he wanted to marry me and actually proposed(with a ring from a little toy dispencer it was so effing cute!) he said that he planned on spending the rest of his life with me. and he wanted to have kids with me. but all of a sudde a couple of days ago, he said that he tought that we needed a break. but this isnt a break up. like he tells me that he loves me still. and that we will bw together again. but he keeps talking to my "bestfriend". like telling her that he loves her too. and stupid shit like that too. but he told me today that he wants me to wait for him. like wait a week for him to collect his thoughts. but i dont know if i can wait. what should i do? advice would be greatly appreciated. im 14/f
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First off,from what i read hes toying with both of your guyses heart.My opoin is if you think its worth waiting for then wait, But i know i wouldnt wait for a guy who was in ''love'' or so he tells her with my best friend.Second of all, your friend should have never asked him out that one time,if she knew you liked him, and dont get down on yourself because a stupid boy is interested in another girl.Hope i helped. Oh and heres a quote
'' If hes stupid enough to walk away, Be smart enough to let him ''
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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH (link)
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My opion People are matureing and growing up fatser. They are being pressured but they are only younge still so they dont know right from wrong. And to the people under me, if you are sick of the people aksing those questions dont bother with them you dont HAVE to answer them. People arent all perfect.
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