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figuring out what she really means
Alright, well, my girlfriend broke up with me, but says she wants to be friends, and that the reason she broke up with me was because she wasnt ready for a relationship yet she was the one that asked me out!!! To say the least Im confused and wondering if she is being real or if she doesnt want to let go of the single life, hooking up whenever you feel like
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She wants to keep you around but still doesnt still wants to be able to do whatever she wants. Maybe she is trying to keep her options open. Or she wants to make sure youll be there when she is ready for a relationship. Youll never now unless you ask. And still after that You may never know the real reasons. My advice is dont wait around for someone who doesnt want to be with you , You might miss Out on sombody else who's great.
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If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, then it doesn't matter what her reasons are hun.
If you want to be her friend, you might learn more. If you don't want to be her friend, that's okay too.
Anything anyone says here is just guessing. The important part is the part where - for whatever reason, even silly or stupid reasons - she no longer wants to be in a relationship with you.
It's always confusing, and you'll rarely understand completely why a relationship ends. But you still have to let them end. You owe her the respect of accepting her as 'real' even if it's not what you want, or understand. Even if it's silly or selfish. It's still real.
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