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is a 14 year old dating a 18 year old bad?
hey i really need advice, pleeeaase help me.
Im in 9th grade and there is this guy that i really like and hes in 12th grade :/. he might like me but im not sure, i danced with him at the dance and stuff and people got really jelouse. my parents said i have no chance with him cause hes a lot older and they say he just wants me for sex.it just really stinks cause i really like him. what should i do?
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14 and 18 is fine.People need to grow up and realie age is just a number, and if you guys really like eachother then someone calling him a loser shouldnt irrate him. But Get to know him first, dont listen to anyones shit. i know a 14 year old with an 18 year old they have been together for about 7 months. and there perfect. so yes go for it, just dont be easy.
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He may just want you for sex, he may not. But either way, he is a loser. Before giving me a 1, listen to what I'm telling you. When you're 18, if you see a guy in your class going out with a 14 year old you will think "what a loser!". It's not that there's anything wrong with you, its that you're 14 and he's 18. It isn't meant to be.
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I say give it a chance. Not all 18 year old guys want to get with a girl just for sex, some actually want to get a good relationship out of it. So just take a chance, and see what happens. A four year difference is a LITTLE apart, but it's really not that bad.
If he does start asking about you two having sex and everything, just tell him no. No matter how much you think he'll like you after it, or how much he wants to, just say no unless you're 100% ready pyshically and mentally. And if he keep insiting it, he obviously doesn't then respect your decision, which in then, you can always leave the relationship.
I hope I helped.
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You dont know if he likes you though.
You have to know him really well before you try to get with him. Usually guys go after the younger girls for sex because they know they will believe them if they say they love them and stuff.
Maybe it would be wise to back off and forget the idea.
You could also flirt with him or something. Try talking to him but if you actually get with him, your parents will find out sooner or later..
Trust issues will come up.
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