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life
** this could go under a number of different categories...** and uhh... sorry its so long.
so well, basically, my life sucks.
and theres not really anything i can do about it.
my family is dysfunctional,
my friendships are falling apart,
the onlything good in my life is a guy who i fell in love with 3 years ago. however, he moved 2000 miles away. and i rarely get to see him (obviously) or talk to him like i would like.
im ready to end everything.
ive been a cutter for like 2 years now.
and my life is getting worse every day.
what should i do? besides go see a counselor; surround myself with people who care and who would take my mind off of it; and talk to a trusted adult; see a doctor; etc. is there anything i can do?
im female and almost 16 if that really matters. doubt it does.
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This may not be what you want to hear, and you may not even be a Christian or believe in God. But honey, prayer changes things. I am 10 years older than you, and if you think life is hard at your age....you have alot to look forward to. It keeps better hon, it really does. There are other friends and other guys. You just gotta be strong enough to get outta this valley you are in. Parents have mid-life crisis, sounds like you are ina m id-teens crisis, but it does get better. SO you gotta make sure you stick around to see it!
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thats my life and im only 13 3 months ago. just try to stop cutting. it took me forever. stopping cutting is the hardest ever i no. just think how much people your hurting. when i was i thought absolutly nobody. but so many people in my life now died mainly from cancer and suicide. my cousins who died from cancer loved their life and they died they loved everyone and everything in it. but my other cousins and friends who died from suicide hated life killed theirself and hurt everyone. because they didnt care. stop cutting even if its hard i no it is but life will get better alot of people told me that and i got so mad i thought they had no idea but i do ive done it all and been through it all. i rated everyone one who told me that but now it starting to get better life still sucks but i found 3 people who care for me. i rated ones to everyone who said go to a counselor. i say dont go to a counselor their just annoying and i hated it sooo much i just left walked home. what you can do is scream the livin daylight out. right a journal. scream with music i like evanescence. the song tourniquet is about cutting i was listening to it when i started i thought shes just singing because shes depressed. but shes singin because she was cutting and bleeding to death and praying to god. a line is my god my tourniquet return to me salvation. a line is i tried to kill the pain but only brought more. dieing praying bleeding and sreaming. i noticed that and i started trying to stop. because at that time i cut deep and i regreted it soooo much. i even posted the question on here search for tourniquet or cutting in the search questions it will help the answers i got. people will miss you if you die the next day people you didnt even really know or thought cared. let it all out scream along with evanescence. draw death i saw how bad it was after(stupid i no but it really helped). cry your eyes out till you cry no more. im gothic even and people cared for me i thought everyone hated me and all goths but its no true. hope i helped
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I kno exactly where your comeing from. I kno how hard things get, and how it feels to be really sad. But theres something you have to realize, this is your life, and its the only one your ever going to get. You were born to live your life. You cant just expect happyness to come to you. You will never be happy if you sit around and dwell over everything. Your family is dysfunctional? Well, they ARE your family.& you should learn to love them no matter what. They arent all of a sudden going to change for you just because your sad. So there is know use being all depressed over. Your friendships are falling apart? DONT just sit there and watch them fall apart. if you cared so much, you would do something about it. no one else is going to do anything. YOU have to. The guy you fell in love with moved? well atleast you two are still together. a healthy relationship comes with happyness, and if your depressed i promise you it will ruin your relationship. guys like girls with confidence. You cut yourself. find some other way to relieve stress. write poems. go running. get a punching bag. start looking on the postive side, because when you get older your going to look back and say hey i wish i would have done things differently. and riight now you HAVE the power to change things. you just choose not too.
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Have you tried writing? You could get a online journal on greatest journal. I have one and I write in it all the time. You can also join communities about whatever you are interested in. I've found that it has really helped me because I can safely let all my emotions out.
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