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How do ii know if he`s being faithful
Hello, I`m 14 years old && 5 months pregnant, && my boyfriend is 15. && I haven`t seen him for over 2 weeks && I`m starting to get worried I talk to him once && awhile but we always argue but then we make up by the end && we always fight because hes always fucked up && doesn`t get or understand what i`m sayin. But for the past frew weeks hes been hanging out with all these`s girls && I`ve been hearing that they`ve been doing stuff together I talked to him about it lastnight && finally he wasn`t fucked up he had a good excuse && told me it was all bullshit. But how do I know if he`s faithful or not.
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oh my god, forget about homework.
and DON'T GIVE UP BABY:(
I'm 14 too, and I would be terrified. But having my boyfriend around would make me feel a lot better.
I wouldn't trust him.
I don't know, maybe it's just me and my issues. But two weeks is a long time.
My ex boyfriend once said to me "if I ever got you pregnant, you'd have to get an abortion because I can't handle that." and we never had sex or anything. but it made me sad when he said that because your boyfriend and my ex boyfriend don't understand most of the pains you have to go through.
I'm so sorry, I hope you and your boyfriend work things out. and you should ask him to be around more. good luck with everything, seriously.
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not to be rude or anything but sweetie, you should be doing your homework and not your boyfriend!
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to the first person who said give the baby up . you cant have an abortion after 3 months & i know because im 2 1/2 mo. preg. and getting one and putting it up for adoption would be heartbreaking to the fullest.
an im 14 too and im 2 1/2 i know how it feels once the kid that got me pregnant he hasnt talked to me . he says its someone elses when it aint and i dont know my situation is all fucked up too . but seriously talk to your boyfriend .. cause thats really really fucked up your only 14 seriously we shouldnt even really be having sex but oh well ;] lol but yeah . cause leaving you alone with a baby is hard . believe me i live with my little cousin & ive basically been rasing him since sept. 05 when my uncle died and my autn whent to rehab & he was 1 1/2 ish and it was hard - and its even harder when their younger like first born because everyone stuck me babysitting and its not fun and i doubt you dont live with your parents/gardians .. and their going to be helping you . so that means when your like 15 /16 & want to get a job you prob. cant because you have to take care of the baby. so just explain everything to him about money & diapers .. diapers arent cheap . neither is forumla or any of that stuff . so explain to him that if he isnt going to be there for you he HAS TO pay for child support or do something , i dont know if this is anything to help you but im just trying to help out cause im scared & your further then me and like i cant take the pains now .. but yeah if you need someone to talk to talk to me on AIM - thal0ve0fyalife
xoxo good luck <33 much lovee
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There's real no way of finding out if he's being faithful or not unless you see it with your own eyes, and I'm not suggesting following him or anything here. You'll just either have to trust him, or trust what the other people are saying. But I think you should consider breaking up with him. I mean, if you two are always arguing and fighting and he's always messed up and hanging out with other girls, that's not a very good start at fatherhood, and whenever the baby's born, it shouldn't be around a fighting, yelling enviroment. Your boyfriend should be with you while you're pregnant, not hanging out with all these other girls. Even though you say he had a good excuse, that could be just a real good lie. You just have to decide who you're going to trust, him or other people. But faithful or no, like I said, I think you should kick him to the curb before the baby is born. I hope I helped.
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Give the baby up.
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