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Sometimes when my boyfriend gives me hickeys, they turn people at first, right? Then they turn a yellowish color.. Is that normal? Why is it turning that color? (link)
It's a bruise, so the changing of colors is natural. It'll change colors and get lighter, and eventually disappear.


I am going into 8th grade. The first and last time my mom actually bought me a bra was in the beginning of 6th grade. That bra is a 34 A and i'm sorry it's old, sweaty and my boobs got way bigger from then. I'm not exagerrating. I know what you are thinking: ask your mom to get you a new one, stupid. My mom is SOO IMMATURE when it comes to stuff like that. Today we were in old navy and OH MY GOSH! PRAISE THE LORD! MOM ASKED IF I NEEDED A BRA. I was about to say yes but she was like giggling and gesturing to her boobs and smiling. So I said no and turned red and walked away. I know I should buy my own, but I buy alot of my other stuff that my mom won't buy. It takes me a while to even earn 60 dollars from babysitting, and I don't want to buy a bra because it gets me really mad that my mom could buy one for me if she was a little more mature. Everytime I try to get myself to buy my own, I picture how much money i'm losing. Don't think my mom buys all my other stuff, she doesn't. I do. And i'm NOT COMPLAINING, because I think that teaches me well when I buy my own stuff. But A BRA. THE LAST time she bought me one was when I was 11. I'm realy embarrased to ask her. Should I get up the courage and ask, and have the next few days be awkward, or go to the mall this week and use my own 20 dollars? (link)
Go without your mom. Tell her you're going to the mall, and then ask if you can have money to buy some things, if she asks, tell her a bra, and a shirt and a headband or something. Word it carefully and I highly doubt she'll make anything of it. That way you won't have to pay for it yourself and your mom won't be there to embarass you.


Ok i am SO SO SO SO UBER BORED


Barely any of my friends can han gbut yeah idk what to do and my mom is out of country and my dad works all day.

What should i do?

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anything please help me!!


rater (link)
Make new friends! Get a job!


I'm very shy. I'm so shy that I don't even want to get up to go turn in my paper because people stare at me. I don't even raise my hand to answer questions in class because I'm scared that I will get the wrong answer and people will make fun of me. If a person is shy (like me), are they always going to be shy for their whole life or do you eventually stop being shy? If so, how? (link)
People, dispite what you may think, don't actually care that much about you. They don't stare at you, you're just being paranoid. You need to learn to be more open and expressive. Take an acting class!


I don't do very well on tests and so I need help on studying...and don't say, Take Good Notes...be more specific...life crisis!

my tests are normally a C or under...not good and I do fine with homework...it's just the tests!
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Make lists, organize your notes, rewrite them, make acronyms.


I've been questioning my gender identity(whether i am male or female)(i'm physically male, 15) I'm wondering how to tell my parents, if i decide I want a sex change. (link)
You're 15, give it a few more years time. Don't jump to conclusions, just make your parents aware that you may be transgendered. Let them know you have given it lots of thought and a sex change may be possible in the future.


i have a LITTLE fuzz between my eyebrows but you can still see it. The problem is my mom won't let me get rid of it. I don't understand why. She told me that she'll kill me if I do it. I asked her why she wouldn't let me do it but she didn't say anything. I want to get rid of it. Any ideas would be really helpful. Oh by the way i'm 14/f. (link)
Bleach it.


There's a little bump on top of my mouth and it hurts whenever I swallow or eat what can this bump be caused by? (link)
It could be a canker sore.


I have been on my birth control pill for about two months now and me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex many times but he doesn't cum inside me he always pulls it out. well my stomach has been hurting alot for like the past two days and today i took a pregnancy test and it was negative. my question is why do you guys thing my stomach has been hurting? yesterday it hurt alot and today it doesnt really hurt that much only when i think about it and then i feel like it is hurting. thank you in advance (link)
Depending on the strength of your pill, you could be getting period cramps.


I just met a girl online at espinthebottle.com and she is 13. I gave her my phone number and she called me and we talked for like 30 minutes. Is it possible that this could be an online predator trying to get to me?

signed,

cluelessCPU (link)
Yes.
How old does she sound?


Hello, I`m 14 years old && 5 months pregnant, && my boyfriend is 15. && I haven`t seen him for over 2 weeks && I`m starting to get worried I talk to him once && awhile but we always argue but then we make up by the end && we always fight because hes always fucked up && doesn`t get or understand what i`m sayin. But for the past frew weeks hes been hanging out with all these`s girls && I`ve been hearing that they`ve been doing stuff together I talked to him about it lastnight && finally he wasn`t fucked up he had a good excuse && told me it was all bullshit. But how do I know if he`s faithful or not. (link)
Give the baby up.


I started my period back in June. This month I got it on October 10-16. Then I got it again October 19-21. It stopped for a few more days and came back again on 24th ( It only lasted a day ) Is there a reason for gettin it 3 times in one month? I know they will be irregular for a while but is this normal? (link)
Its normal, dont worry, after about a year they will be regular.


heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg (link)
Well its either that you have ingrown hairs or razor burn. Use a conditioner and shaving lotion (not together mind you)


What are some good ways to keep a cat from scratching you??? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW! it's on a test tomorrow...! Thanks (link)
Get it declawed


I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either) (link)
Im in EXACTLY the same position... well if you like him, go out with him, height dosent matter and shouldnt stand in the way if you really like him


OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's! (link)
Talk to her, see why she's doing that and ask her to stop. Ask what you've done wrong and try and make up


would it be considered taboo.. or incest for me to date my brothers fiances sister? i mean there is no blood connection.. hmm please help.. i dont knwo what to do (link)
Shouldnt be.. maybe ask him first


i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt (link)
go to a movie.. maybe a comedy, so there wont be any awkward silences, where what you'd normally wear and talk about things that'd interest him!


i just got my hair cut.. and i can't find anything to do with it, except straightening it. my hair goes past my shoulders a little bit, and i have short layers.. it kinda looks like ashlee simpsons, but my hair isn't as long. does anyone have any cute ideas how to do my hair? if you need an idea of what it looks like.. go to my myspace.. www.myspace.com/jmacx16

oh yeah, i have bangs too. i cut them so i could do the side angle bang thing, but it doesn't stay. is there any good kind of hair product that could train them to stay on the side? if u have an idea, please tell me the name and the cost. thanks so much! (link)
put your hair in a pony tail but leave a really small bit of the shorter hair that frames your face when its down out. To train them the easiest way is to put a bobby pin in it when you sleep


im going out to a party tonight. i have hair down to my shoulders and side bangs. im need a cute hairstyle. i usually just straighten it but im getting bored of it. any tips or ideas? or websites with details would help. thanks! (link)
flip out the ends and put a sparkely clip in it?




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