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i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt<333
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Well wat you wear depends on where you go.And what you wear depends on where you go, because if you want to be comfortable go to the movies. If you want to be more dressy go out to eat, but it also depends where your going to.(If you go to Mc.Donalds dress casual/If you go to Applebees dress up more.)EX.If you go to the mall where a jean skirt and I nice shirt to match.Also what you talk about depends on what you are doing but only to start off the conversation. The it will all just flow together if its meant to be.
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go to a movie.. maybe a comedy, so there wont be any awkward silences, where what you'd normally wear and talk about things that'd interest him!
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Well first off i'm VERY flattered you came to me to help you out with your problem. Awwww gosh i remember my first date. I was so scared, i kept fixing my hair during the movie and when my boyfriend tried to kiss me i ended up hitting him with my elbow. haha yeah it sucked but he loved the attention i was giving him after i had hit him. LOL well sorry back to your probelm. Honestly i hate going to the movies on a first date because you hardly get to talk to each other and have hardly anytime to get to know each other better. Although this is your first date and going to the movies might be the best choice for you. It would be alot easier and less stressful. I would suggest going for a walk after the movies. Maybe a local park? Go take a nice walk while talking to each other. Or perhaps after the movie go out to eat somewhere near by. About what to wear, well it shouldn't really matter. I mean i'm sure whatever you wear you'll look great! And for the heads up most guys dont even CARE! lol Most of them don't even notice a single thing about what you wear. But then again some do. what i would wear is Blue jeans with a cute belt, and tank top. If it's not that warm out anymore just bring a sweater with you. Something that matchs with your top. About the shoes, i would say wearing flip flops matching your top would look great! or some cute high heels. I would go with the flip flops. Also to make your outfit super cute try wearing big sunglasses if it's sunny, if not just bring a cute little hand bag to put them in once you go into the movies. Otherwise keep them on top of your head. About what to talk about , you should try talking about EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that comes to mind. Just talk about the things you talk about online. If he enjoys a sport try talking about that. You could always ask him questions about his interests. I'm sure whatever you wear, talk about and where ever you guys go you'll have a WONDERFUL TIME! Just be yourself.
And if he doesn't like that then he's not worth your time.
Hope i helped
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The movies would be fun, but you also have to consider that it'll be 2 hours of not talking to each other- probably filled with awkward silence. I think the best idea for a date is going out to dinner. If neither one of you have a license you could just have your parents or an older friend drop you guys off at a fun restaurant. For what to wear, just make sure you feel cute. I'd recommend on jeans and high heels with a pretty top. But it also depends on your style. You guys can talk about anything, just talk to him like you would with your friends. But make sure you try not to dwell on the past. Sitting around talking about your previous relationships with him will get boring. Just be sure to have fun!
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well you could definatly go to the movies.. thats always an easy spot... um if you were to go there wear somethin casual like jeans and a cute tee... mybe halter top depending on the weather... umm and you wouldnt really have to talk about anything because yall would be waitchin the movie...
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you could go grab somethin to eat.. like at corner bakery or somethin easy... there just wear somethin casual too... i sugest the same thing youd wear to the moveis... yall could talk about like sports, or if he drives you could talk about his car... guys always seem to like a girl that knows about the same stuff they do...
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if you go somewhere fancy for dinner or somethin, doesnt sound like thats somethin youre gonna be doin though, make sure you wear a nice skirt with a shirt that covers you up most of the way... its kinda wierd walkin into a wierd resturaunt with you stomach showin adn your boobs hangin out... so just a skirt and a nice shirt.. and talk about the same stuff i mentioned up there ^^ just talk about things hes interested in... if you like him like that.. that way he knows your interested... otherwise if its just a friend kinda thing (and youre not thinkin about gettin together with him) talk to him like you would one of your girlfriends...
sorry this isnt of much help!! but feel free to ask me any questions...
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The movie theater is an awesome place for first dates, and if you go there with him, wear something comfortable and not too fancy. Jean caprees and a nice t-shirt with matching sandles would look cute (Don't spend a lot of money. You can find good clothes just at Walmart or even Fashion Bug). If you're going out to eat to a nice resturaunt, a cute skirt and a button-up, short-sleeve shirt would be fancy enough. Whatever you're comfy in is what you should wear. Honestly, guys don't care if you dress up like a model, they will like you for just keeping yourself nice. The mall, the zoo, even just hanging out in your house and watching a movie will be a good date.
Talk about things you're interested in. Don't talk about boring things like school, because that conversation will end up being boring. If you like sports, talk about which teams you like. Talk about your fave celebrity or singer, and just tell your opinions.
Hope I helped,
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You could go to the movies, like you said. Thats always a really great place for a first date. If you do that, maybe you can go out to eat somewhere afterwards that way you guys can talk. Another good place to go on a first date is bowling. I know it sounds corny, but its a lot of fun & you're more relaxed since you're having a good time.
About what to wear - its really up to you. Dress cute, but comfortable. Jeans & tank top/ cute shirt. Just about anything! You could even wear a cute jean skirt & a tank top or a cute shirt. It's really up to you. I don't really know what your style is like...but just make sure you feel comfortable.
What to talk about - just be yourself! Talk about things you would normally talk about with your friends. Talk about movies, music, or just anything that you're interested in. Chances are, he's nervous too.
Just relax & have a good time!
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You could dress up in a skirt with nice designs on it like butterflies,or flowers or stripes make it look fancy or if you prefer shorts get on that is new or off the hook you could get a baby blue one,light pink,tan color with a shirt that has diamonds or bright colored or sparkles.You could go shopping at Rainbow,Necessary clothing,Walmart,Jazz,Brooklyn,Mandee,Tommy Hilfigher,Macy's,Levi's,other stores you could go to.Match your outfit.Wear your hair loose either curly or straight.Wear some lipgloss or lipstick that matches you.Talk about things he enjoys,about his childhood,and growing up.Have fun with your guy!Write to me whenever you like!
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