Hey ;; I'm 14 years old & I'm a freshman. I love music. I like to hang out with friends, shop, play softball, give advice, & just have a good time! My friends told me that my advice always helps them, so I thought I would give this a try & try my best to help out other people too. If you want to know anything else just leave it in my inbox! =]
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To know how to have an OBE, here is the definition so you know what will be happening to you:
An out-of-body experience (OBE) is characterized by a feeling of departing from one’s physical body and observing both one’s self and the world from outside of one’s body. The experience is quite common in dreams, daydreams, and memories, where we quite often take the external perspective. Some people experience an OBE while under the influence of an anesthetic or while semi-conscious due to trauma. Some people have an OBE while under the influence of drugs. OBEs have been induced by electrically stimulating the right angular gyrus (located at the juncture of the temporal and parietal lobes).*
This is best at night time usually after 7:30 p.m. and make sure you don't get disturbed.
Step 1
First roll up your eyes until they are fixed on a point on the forehead between the eyebrows. This will put a strain on your eyes, but it is very effective. Now with your eyes open, put your finger between your eyebrows, now move it straight out 3 inches. Now look at the tip of your finger, keep your eyes there and close them. Just keep them there the whole time, while focusing on putting vibrations in your body, this should work very well.
Step 2: After you have gotton any kind of vibrations to stay, just lay there and wait until you start to see colors/pictures in your eyelids. This will be another stage, that will get you closer to OBE. After you have reached this stage, Imagine being on top of a very high building, imagine the stars, the other buildings surrounding it, faint hum of the traffic below, the nice warm breeze on you as you walk to the edge of the building. Now keep imagining everything (this may be very hard at first, but with practice it will get alot better) as you look down, now JUMP! keep it in great detail, don't go slow, go extreamally fast! Keep repeating this exercise until the vibrations are stronger, and the colors in your eyes go away.
Step 3: Now, you should have some pretty strong vibrations. What you have to do is smooth them out by pulsating them. How you do this is you just imagine being hit in the eye, and have the surge go down to your legs, just keep doing that for every heartbeat.
Step 4: After they get smoothed. You should feel your whole body vibrating. This is the time when you say "I am floating up." You should keep reapeating that very many times. Then, imagine your self rushing in an upward motion, for example: Imagine being on an elevator, then the floor breaks through, and all you can hang on to is a rope. The elevator starts going extreamally fast upward (Make sure you keep this as frigtening as possible, but DO NOT tense yourself, if you do it will be IMPOSSIBLE to separate!)If the vibrations go away before you reach this stage, or just aren't very strong, go back and do step 2 and 3 again (this can get very frustrating at times if you have to keep going back).
If you have done everything correctly, their are many things that can happen now, but for most people, you will be beside your bed, you might not beable to see very well so affirm "Clarity Now," and your vision will improve.
Here are some things you can do, to go somewhere, you can either fly or picture in your mind where you want to go. You can meet your spirit guide by saying "I meet my spirit guide." You can go to the next level (I'm not exactly sure what this does, but you say "I move to the next level." There are many other things that you can do, expirement and try out some of your own.
Hope this helps ya.
And it will take many many times to do this before you get it right. It took me a month of practice before I actually had an OBE.
And when you do have one it is pretty awesome, you can actually see yourself laying down, it's like looking down on yourself. (link)
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Thanx so much babe! I've always wanted to try it, but I didn't think it was actually real!
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Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in? (link)
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That sounds kind of dangerous and if you're scared that you could become posessed, you might want to stop. I didn't think that out of body experiences were actually real. How do they work? Just leave your answer in my feedback comment I guess.
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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
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First of all, if you think you might be gay but you aren't sure, I would try hanging out with some girls and see if you are attracted to any of them. Could you see yourself doing anything with a guy? Or could you see yourself doing stuff with a girl? If the answer is both, then you are bisexual - not gay.
I think you should find out if your friend is gay or straight first. I know its hard to keep your feelings bottled in, but if hes straight...he might take it the wrong way if you tell him that you have feelings for him.
Eventually, if you're positive that you're gay, you could try going to a support group to meet other gays and get the support that you need. You can't keep it a secret forever.
Just remember -- there is nothing wrong with being gay. Its not something that you have any control over. The people that truly love and care about you will accept it. It might be hard at first, but eventually - they'll get used to it and accept it.
If you need anything else, don't hesitate to leave it in my inbox. Or if you want to talk to me personally, just leave your e-mail or your AIM screen name in my inbox and I will contact you. I'm trying to stay anonymous on here...which is why I don't give mine out. Good luck with everything and I hope I helped.
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so i have this friend....
shes a great person and all but she doesnt take very good care of herself...for example...
*she has body odar but she doesnt seem to know
*she doesnt brush her teeth, only mouth washes..
*she will wear the same pair of pants for 2 weeks in a row (but she has like 10 pairs of pants)
*she weill go and work out than come home and eat ice cream....
how do i tell her that thease arent healthy for her and she should change her routine? (link)
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This is what I would do.
About the body odor: go shopping with her. Buy deodorant and say something like "I love this kind. It makes your skin really smooth! You should try it!" - that way you aren't coming out and telling her that she has body odor.
About the teeth: invite her to spend the night at your house. When you're getting ready for bed, you'll see that she isnt brushing her teeth and that shes only using mouthwash. Say something like "If I were you, I would start brushing my teeth. Mouthwash is okay but when I went to the dentist I learned that it isnt very good for your teeth if you just use mouthwash because you need to completely clean your teeth."
About the jeans: while she is at your house, let her try on some of your clothes and when she trys on your jeans, say something like "You can borrow them. You should wear them to school tomorrow. You have a lot of jeans but you don't wear all of them. You should mix it up a bit!"
About working out: work out with her, then get a healthy snack and offer her some. Say "I used to eat icecream and other stuff after excercising but it sort of cancels out all of the progress I made that day with excercising."
Hope I helped. If you need anything else, leave it in my inbox.
x33 ;; Always,
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Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?
Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note
its nothing personal i just want to know what you think. (link)
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Your best bet would be to talk to him in person. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you could hand hime a note in the hallway. I wouldn't try calling or e-mailing because if you call, you won't always get ahold of the person. He could be out of town or out with friends and you wouldn't be able to talk to him. If you e-mailed him, he might not get it right away and you would be all anxious wondering whether or not you got it. So I say do it in person. =]
x33 ;; Always,
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Okay this song goes like this " im wanted and im needed im addicted to you but im trying to forget that im addicted to you" it is called heart breaker and all i need to know is who sings it i rate 5's (link)
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*Simple Plan- Addicted
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laguna beach this past weeks episode there was a song while jessiaca and jason were having dinner
the words i remember are
everybodys saying that im crazy....
he loves me he hates me doesnt really matter i know who we are who we are
what is it?
also there was another song in that episode i just remember the words were just breathe just breathe
do you know these songs thanks (link)
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The song that goes "just breathe" is called Breathe (2 A.M.) by Anna Nalick. I searched everywhere for the other one but I can't find it. I'm so sorry =[ - I'll keep looking and if I find it, I'll edit my answer. Sorry hun!
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okay i have a friend and i am on the phone with her and she wants me to come over and i dont know if i want to go bacause i dont really like her sisters and i dont want to go what are some good excuses you can think of that I can get out of this i really need this help my mom said i could but i dont want to so she asks me and i say i dont know but i need a excuse but i dont want it to be mean so please give me some good excuses
love brittany
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Things you can say:
-I don't really feel that good today.
-My parents are going somewhere tonight.
-I'm grounded.
-We have family from out of town coming over.
After you say your excuse, you should say something like "Thanks for asking though. Maybe we can do something next weekend instead?" that way she doesn't feel as bad about it. Hope I helped!
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A few years back I had this friend who was really nice. But then after a while she started acting strange. If she saw me talking with another person she'd get all mad and butt in and tell them I was her best friend, and her only best friend. And then she started getting weird and always wanted me over, and if I couldn't come she'd start yelling at my Mom.
So my Mom made me break off the friendship with her in fear of my own health. I did. And she was devistated at the time, but when I changed schools and moved across town, I stopped hearing from her.
But now, three years later, she's sending me threatening mail, she's calling my house, and she won't stop IMing me on different accounts after I block her. I'm pretty creeped out, and I would go to the police, but she hasn't said anything too threatening. She's just calling me bad names and all that.
I really, really want her to stop. What should I do?
Thanks. Sorry this was so long!
~KaT (link)
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Even if she hasn't said anything too threatening, that doesn't mean that she won't say or do something. I would contact the police. What she's doing is harassment & if its scaring you, it needs to stop before it gets any worse. She sounds like she needs counseling if shes going to act like this. Good luck with everything & if you need anything else, don't hesitate to leave it in my inbox. I hope everything works out for you.
x33 ;; Always,
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Does anyone know that T.I song that was on wild n out ? what is it called? (link)
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It's called Bring 'Em Out. You can listen to it for free at http://cdzinc.com/K/16/urban/S_Z/ti.html
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I'm not relaying my whole story, but why do girls have to be such whores and bitches in junior high and high school? (link)
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I think they just want to fit in. They want to be popular & they want the "cool kids" to like them, so they treat other people badly. For example, if the popular kids don't like someone, they'll treat them badly, so then other people follow that example in hopes of becoming popular.
I think it's horrible that people have to act like that. Just be yourself & ignore the people who act like that because they aren't worth your time. & always remember, if you're with your friends, then you're -always- with the cool kids.
x33 ;; Always,
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I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, and he was 17. I'm 17 now, and he's 20. We always talk about getting married when I'm like 19-20, and I know it's what we both want, but I feel like my family would say I'm too young and that they'd be disappointed in me. But it's really what both of us want, we really love eachother. We know his family is cool with it, but why do I feel like mine wont be? (link)
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I would just talk to your family about it & explain to them that you really love him & you want to spend the rest of your life with him. If it's what you want, I'm sure they will understand.
I don't think 19 or 20 is too young to get married as long as you truly love each other. Anything is possible when you're in love!
Good luck with everything hun & if you need anything else just leave it in my inbox!
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Hey I dont have a question I just wanted to tell you how everything went with the senior and everything.I would send you something in your inbox but I dont know how.Haha I called him but it was busy so Ill try again later.I wanted to tell you your advice really helped and I added you on my favorite columnists list.Im new at this advice thing so if you want to help me out that would be great!! Thanks
~Ariel~ (link)
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Aw, thanks! I hope everything works out with him! I'll add you back. Good luck with everything sweetie & if you need help with anything let me know & I'll leave my email in your inbox (I'm trying to say anonymous!)
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I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that? (link)
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I would just write him a note & slip it in his locker. Guys aren't really into roses. Girls like getting them, but guys get embarassed about stuff like that. Just write him a note & let him know that you like him & see if he's interested! Good luck! If you need anything else leave it in my inbox!
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Ok there is this senior in my art class and I know him from our mothers because they work together.By the way I am a senior.I told my mom I think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and she said dont even try it.I wouldnt anyway because I only like him as a friend.Then on Friday he gave me his number and said call me if you want to hang out.I dont want to be mean but I want to hang out with him but I am afraid he will ask me out and I dont want to so does anyone know what I should if he does??Ill rate high for any answer (link)
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If you want to hang out with him, go ahead! I would just call him & say "Maybe we can hang out with a group of friends this weekend" that way he'll understand that you don't want to hang out with him alone. I'm sure he'll understand, but if he seems like he doesn't, just say something like "I'm glad we're hanging out. You're such a great friend". He should get the picture after that. Good luck hun!
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There this new guy in Early childhood class and he is the only guy in it and he lives next to me.I REALLY like him and I told my friend that and she is all over him.Then I asked her if she liked him and she said ewww no!!! I cant get my mind off of him.I think he likes my friend because no doubt she is really pretty.But everytime we see each at home he says hi in a really hot way and smiles and then he goes hola to me.He is soo hot.Should I make the first move or should I try to forget about him.I rate high!!! (link)
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I would go for it! If your friend doesn't like him, then I don't see why not. Plus, you live right next door to each other so it would be easier for you two to hang out. Just ask him if he wants to come over and watch a movie or something! Good luck sweetie! ;]
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Hey.I love food, i cant get enough of it. But, my question is...how do i stop eating every second, and only eat during meal times.
XOX,
FOOD-LOVER (link)
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Hey. I used to have the same exact problem. I would be so bored & I would just eat for something to do. To stop this, I started chewing gum & keeping busy, that way I would only eat during meals. Good luck!
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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks! (link)
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Well, I'm sure by the time you get my answer, your friend will have already been over & stuff, but I have some ideas in case you need them for another time!
-Listen to music
-Watch a movie
-Go on a walk
-Go shopping
-Paint nails/toenails
I would have more, but I'm not sure what you or your friend are interested in but I'm sure you'll have fun no matter what you're doing. Good luck hun! Hope I helped. =]
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hey is there any where i can go to talk to people my age from around where i live in massachusettes.anything would be great. (link)
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Myspace is a really good place to meet people. I have met a lot of people from my school on there. You just choose what school you go to in your profile & it makes it a lot easier to find other people that live in that area.
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can anyone recommend a good reliable music download site? One that is easy to access and I won't have to install a whole bunch of stuff, because I want to be able to access from work or at home. And what is the price range per tune? I'd heard it's roughly $ .99 to $2.50 each?
Thanks :) I'll rate (link)
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There is a website that you can go to that has a lot of artists & it has all the songs from each of their cds. The website is www.cdzinc.com & it's free! All you have to do is search for the artist that you're looking for & then click on them when it comes up & then pick the song you want to listen to & it will come up in your windows media player. You don't even have to download anything! It plays automatically. Hope I helped!
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