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Just a question


Question Posted Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:15 pm

Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?

Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note

its nothing personal i just want to know what you think.


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SilentOne answered Saturday September 17 2005, 5:35 am:
Depends heavily on the guy. Is he shy? Is he confident?
If he's shy, email and notes are probably a better way to start, but make him curious, then make him meet you (if you don't know him outside of that, be careful with the meeting) but eventually you must meet, because otherwise it's not the same.
If he's confident, and thinks he can "have" anyone, then make him phone you. Don't bother calling him, but let him know you're interested. If he's interested enough, he'll chat with you, and get your phone or email. He has to WANT it.
If you do write notes, write them on nice paper, with neat writing (You wouldn't believe how long I spent trying to make mine neater, but that was for classes also). Typed notes are absolute romance killers. As in dead relationship, not "killer!".

-K

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Mackenzie answered Thursday September 8 2005, 1:43 pm:
Well, any contact is great contact. The telephone is a great form of communication, because it allows you to physically speak when one if too far to be visited. However, I say in person is the best way. It allows you to see facial expressions, laughter, smiles, tears, and really creates an element of it's own, ya know; where as... email.. is good... but lacks emotion. Same goes for notes. [:

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geminic17 answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 12:37 am:
All Of The ABOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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seriouslyteenangel answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 8:14 pm:
Depending on what you're telling the guy, you might want to see his reaction. So in person would be the best. But if you just don't know how to get the words out, pass him a note but stay to watch him read it and let him reply. Then you are probably able to start a conversation. That's my opinion, anyway.

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Karen answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:20 pm:
Getting in touch with a guy in person is the best way.

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SpartanDancer985 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:02 pm:
I would say the best way would be to call him or in person.




~Kristy~

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:47 pm:
♥ IN MY 0PINiON I SAY TALKiNG IN PERSON IS THE BEST WAY. ITS JUST MORE MATURE. THAT WAY YOUR FACE TO FACE & YOU CAN SEE HIS REACTIONS. ♥ LAUREN

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karenR answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:43 pm:
I think in person. I think you really get to know someone that way. You can read their feelings about what you say, and you can better tell if they like you. The other things are great too...but in person is still the best. :)

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xhAlx12 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:41 pm:
I think you should just talk to him in person and be urself because guys are just growing older and they are sumthimes stupid and if they dont like you for hoo you are then he is stupid because who ever you are im sure that you are a very preety girl thats my way even though its not a love question
i hope i have answered your question ok
~xhAlx12

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thinkpink03 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:33 pm:
def. in person. that way you can read his expressions and have a "real" conversation with him and know more about him from just an email or im or phone call! but thats just my opinion! just as long as do you get in touch thats all that really matters!!

♥// H0PE I HELPED

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ADViCEx4xY0U answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:33 pm:
Your best bet would be to talk to him in person. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you could hand hime a note in the hallway. I wouldn't try calling or e-mailing because if you call, you won't always get ahold of the person. He could be out of town or out with friends and you wouldn't be able to talk to him. If you e-mailed him, he might not get it right away and you would be all anxious wondering whether or not you got it. So I say do it in person. =]

x33 ;; Always,
ADViCEx4xY0U =]

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guitargirl answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:32 pm:
mm i'd definatly have to say in person and if you pass him a note then it's very flirty.
you don't rly describe the question (as in do you LIKE the guy or is just some plain old guy you think of as a friend or less)
so..

friend or less: in person or on the phone.

more: in person, phone and hand written notes given to him the halls.

Guitargirl/Katie**

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Serendipity answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:30 pm:
Just talk to the guy in person... if you call someone you can't really tell what they're thinking (body language) and e-mail is kind of impersonal. A note is okay too, but I think talking to them in person is the best way.

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honeyJ17 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:28 pm:
I personally think its in person. Take care

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andhearts answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:27 pm:
id say in person. but phone is good too. i just think that email is like too fake. i mean i talk on aim to this guy...but still. and passing notes it good too! thats a good way. thats just my opinion...haha so there, now you know what i think . hahahaha

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