I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this???
krazy648 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:45 pm: If they are in all of your classes, just talk to them about it. Just tell them how you feel, or you can hang out with them less, like every other day or every two days. Then hang out with your other friends when you're not with the 'smart friends.' I know the answers a little short, it's my first answer. Hope it helps. [ krazy648's advice column | Ask krazy648 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:30 pm: i think i might know how you feel. you feel like you don't really fit in with them? that's normal, so what you can do is try to slide away from them. maybe not hang out as much. don't worry about it though, because when you graduate & go to college & stuff, no1 will even remember what 'class' er 'group' you're in now.
Azngangsta answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:17 pm: Hey I'm the same way. And this is how I deal with it.... I don't think about it. Simple as that. Its good to have a large variety of friends. Just stay the way you are. You'll never know, one of you're geek friends could be the next Bill Gates or one of you're ghetto friends could be the next Nelly. So, just don't think so much about this. [ Azngangsta's advice column | Ask Azngangsta A Question ]
guitargirl answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:37 pm: well...
first off this doesn't TOTALLY make sence i know the what your asking and i know how you feel but you said "i have a variety of freinds" and then later you want to be with "people in my own boat" which you are doing. you have a variety of friends and basically, knowa days, your friends make you who you are so rly who ever you talk to is part of your boat... do you know what i mean? but feel good about having this variety by think about how you HAVE friends and that so many ppl like you that, like, fifty groups are claiming you. nice thought isn't it?
hope this helps!
Vendetta answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 4:26 pm: In my opinion, it is good to have a variety of friends. It hardly ever gets boring that way. If everyone acted the same in your clique, you would all be clones and shit. There is no fun in that, now is there? However, it is always good to be friends with people who are into the same things as you. Talk to new people who have common intrests, join clubs, go to parties where you can potentially meet people. [ Vendetta's advice column | Ask Vendetta A Question ]
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