ok so yooooo. this is Kay-Tee (for you slow ppl i mean Katie) and i love giving out advice to friends and family and i'm pretty darn good at it to (if i do say so myself...) so ask away i'd love to help you!
E-mail: jolly_rancher002@yahoo.com
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Location: MI
Age: 17
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Hello. My name is Ali and I am running for President of my Freshmen class. I am having a lot of trouble with making the speech. I dont know what to say and it has to be 2 minutes long. Can someone help me? (link)
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ok i got some adivse (ok duh obviously) we just voted for class reps and here's what i liked about speeches:
-how long you've been at your school (does your school have a middle school too? grade school? if so than add them up like "i've been here for ten years so i know what needs to change" or something like that)
-add something that you're going to try to do that will be a crowd pleaser (like long lunch periods, maybe some changes in the dress code if you have one, leaving school grounds if you can't, ect. but don't PROMISE this say some thing along the lines of "I will try my best to make a few adjustments to make the day go by easier for all of us like talking with the teachers and princple about *you're choice here*"
-give background but don't make them fall asleep! tell them something that will show you have experience or are well suited for the job.
-and lastly tell them WHY you're running for rep. why you want to represent them, why you're perfect for this, and WHY THEY SHOULD VOTE FOR YOU.
i hope i helped and i'm sorry it's soooo long
*kt
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I got my belly button pierced two months ago n its stil red its healed it doesnt hurt the only thing that is wrong is it is still red why is it still red and what can i do to make the redness go away (link)
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ask a doctor what's wrong and for a while only use pure metal rings because cheap metal (like a metal mix that you could find at claire's or something) would prolly irratate it keep it clean and make an appointment soon with your doctor.
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i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me too but somtimes i feel as though he s lying to about little simple things like why he couldn't come over , y he couldnt call back just little things, i trust him and i love him,sometimes i feel like his love for me is fading away he said he still cares and he loves me but he makes things so difficult between us, hes changed a lot but not in a way that i would want him to change i talked to him about it, and he said he was going to make things better and that was days ago. but there hasnt been a change yet. what should i do? please help i dont want to lose him (link)
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you might want to try to tell him but like memorize everything you want to say. because you don't want to be like "do you love me or not?" or "why haven't you called? *he answers* I DONT BELIEVE YOU" but i honsetly can't give advice for what you SHOULD say because i'm not you, i dont know what you're like, how old you are, and what type of boyfriend you have. but i do know that you should NOT act like you're clinging on to him but you should act slightly conserned and maybe hurt because... well... i'm assuming you are from they way you put it and most of all DONT BE FAKY BE SUPER SINCERE AND ACCEPT HIS RESPONSE!!!! most of all-you don;t have to follow my advice. i just suggest. so don't be like "i think i should do this.... but evertone on advicenators said to do that...hmmm" cause it's all what you think is right
...wow that sounds corny
that's all (for now anyways...dundundunnnn)
*Kt
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OMGG I realllllly wanna go to the Fall Out Boy concert and my sister just told me that she was going...FOR FREE..How can I get my mom/dad to bring me?????
PLEASE HELP I'LL RATE 5''S FOR almost ANYTHING!!
THANKS IN ADVACNE
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One thing to consider is if YOU can also go for free? if not it might get pricy and have you ASKED your parents to go yet? if so i seriously hope you didn't get whinny cause they won't appreciat it and it DEFINATLY won't get them to let you go. one way is to say you'll be with your sister, you know the music, you love the band, how many times does this oppurtuinity really happen? because i cannot imagine how the hell your sister got FREE tickets to a fall out boy concert, and that you're very responsible, and what could happen? your sister is obviously old enough to drive or has a friend coming with her that can meaning she's old enough to make sure you don't get in trouble (hehe suuure). anywaz i hope i helped and that's basically it that i can think of.
Katie
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im like 4'11 or 5'' and im soo tired of everyone telling me how short i am and today someone came up to me today and told me i was shorter than this guy at my school who is like, really short and i thought i was taller than hIM! what do i do to get taller its bugging me pllease help me! (link)
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HIGH HEELS!!!!!! gotta love then *winkwink* i saw some very nice ones at Nodrstoms that are high and made me like three or four inches taller so if you have a uniform for school those would be perfect because they were super comfy (waaay expensive but Nordstoms has lots of sales and about a bigginlion shoes to try on) i highly recomend them!
hope i helped...
kT
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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
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my advise (my not be the best because i have ZERO experience with this so this is my opinion) i think you should first tell him that you're gay becasue you said you were good friends so it would make sence. see what he says. does he reply by saying he is also gay? or something to imply it? or not? If not than maybe i would back off for a while. If he also says he's gay than wait for a while than tell him a few days later... or hours... or minutes... as long as you can wait and tell him you like him.
I HIGHLY advise you not to keep things (expecaily very emotional things) bottled up inside.
i hope this helps!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
Katie**
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im almost 14 years old and i weigh 130ish n im almost 5'6, i have stretch marks all over my thighs , and on my ass, i get looked at weird all the time, am i over weight?is there something wrong with me, last year i got called fat like 500 times plzz help me i rate high, 13-fm
&heartsl; Michaele ♥ (link)
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NO WAY you are NOT over weight (repeat this to yourself as nessisary). according to my doctor he said there's a rule for women called the five foot rule-for ever inch about five feet you add five pounds to one hundred so if your five feet you should be exactly one hundered (or somewhere close to there) and on and on so for you are EXACTLY what the rule is saying. good job and when those people tell you you're fat just tell them that you're NOT and that you're way healthier then those anorexic thin people!
hope i help (and please don't take this the wrong way if you ARE rly thin and you read this because peopl have diferent needs with diferent body shapes, same for the girls who are larger than the five foot rule for the same reason above)
Katie / Guitargirl**
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I need serious help fast. I have a job, and I didn't tell my bf(for what reason I don't know), but anyways when he would call me I would be at work I would just tell him I was in town, so now he thinks I am cheating. He thinks I am cheating because we haven't had sex in like forever and he thinks that I am getting it from someone else. Y'all I love him and he knows that he just thinks this, he like he trust me but not like he used to because I am never home and always in the other location. Help ASAP how can I get him to believe me? (link)
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well the obvious and the best way rly is to tell him that you work and if he doesn't believe you or somehting take him to where you work and show him! and ask yourself why you haven't had sex in ages. is it because you're not ready for it dont be ashamed if that's your answer!!!)? or is it that you work so much? or something else? than tell him why and say that you love him and tell him that you rly hope he believes you and that you'd never cheat on him!!!!!!!
hope i'm helpfull,
K to the atie
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whats the difference between foundation and concealer (link)
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ok so concealer is what you use on small stuff (like blemishes-zits/pinples-under eye rings-or any other TINY marks you to cover up)
and foundation is for the big picture, the whole face for uneaven skin tones, redness in areas (though i DO NOT recomend you use it on sun burns because they will inflame and it's big awful mess so basically DON'T) ect.
hope this helps & didn't bore you to death with my lenghty discription!
Katie**
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Hey!
I have straight thin hair. Its about 3 inches past my shoulders. How long do you think it would take to grow hair to a little longer than the middle of my back? Thanks! (link)
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depends on if you get your hair "trimmed" for split ends (bang cuts if you have bangs, layer touch ups if you have layers ect. becasue they ALWAYS cut for split ends with that) but generally i think it will take around mid winter because i've done that to my hair so i know from past experience. but don't look for drastic changes becasue it tends to go graduelly then all of a sudden ur like "woah my hair grew..." after a few months
i hope i'm helpfull
Katie**
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My girlfriend and i have gone back out recently and there is a dace coming up when i asked her out she said no to me and told her ex that she still has some feelings for that she would go with him. She in the past hasn't given me a reason to trust her. But for some reason she sees nothing wrong with what do i do. (link)
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ok (gentelly) tell your girlfriend that YOU are her boyfriend that her ex isn't (anymore) and apparently they (she and her ex) still have feelings for each other and that you want to know where you stand with her affections.
be clear in what you're asking but don't be harsh or you could scare her away. if she says she still likes her ex but she doesn't know how her ex feels than GIVE HER SPACE. tell her that you like her but you're willing to wait for her disision (only if you rly are).
hope this makes sence and GOOD LUCK and if you need more help ask me a question directly in my advice column!
Katie**
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I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this??? (link)
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first off this doesn't TOTALLY make sence i know the what your asking and i know how you feel but you said "i have a variety of freinds" and then later you want to be with "people in my own boat" which you are doing. you have a variety of friends and basically, knowa days, your friends make you who you are so rly who ever you talk to is part of your boat... do you know what i mean? but feel good about having this variety by think about how you HAVE friends and that so many ppl like you that, like, fifty groups are claiming you. nice thought isn't it?
hope this helps!
kt**
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Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?
Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note
its nothing personal i just want to know what you think. (link)
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mm i'd definatly have to say in person and if you pass him a note then it's very flirty.
you don't rly describe the question (as in do you LIKE the guy or is just some plain old guy you think of as a friend or less)
so..
friend or less: in person or on the phone.
more: in person, phone and hand written notes given to him the halls.
Guitargirl/Katie**
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All I ask is that you don't critisize me in this. Well, I made myself throw up a few minutes ago. I did it to help somebody, and I'll never do it again. The thing is, I got a really sore throat after. Does anybody know how to cure that? (link)
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ok so you were helping someone?!?!? ok that's not the point your question was how to cure a sore throat. answer: ice chips!!!! and your favorite fizzy drink (i recomend diet coke but that's just because i'm obsessed with the flavor) anything that's cold rly and i warn you- the fizzy drink can either make your throught feel rllllllly good or rllllllly bad it makes mine feel good but i've heard tales of like some icky burning sensation so.... ewww.
anywaz i hope this helps (idk if it makes sence though...) and i hope you rly don't make yourself throw up again.
KATIE** aka guitargirl
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does anyone know where i could put one of my poems online? ill rate 5's! (link)
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Blogs:
www.xanga.com
www.livejournal.com
www.myspace.com
&other bloging web sites that i may not know about...
Also try:
www.poetry.com
www.quizilla.com
www.fictionpress.com
hope i'm helpful!
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The kid I like has a girlfriend, which hes told me he doesnt really like her anymore. And he wants to go out with me, but hes afraid if he breaks up with her, she'll get the whole school and all her dumb friends after him. He said hes going to hug me, thats hes not afraid to show that he likes me too. But I don't even compare to his girlfriend! Soo....should I ask him to break up with her? Should I just wait? Someone please help me! I'm going crazy! (link)
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most DEFFINATLY ask him to break up with her. tell him it's either you or her. Becasue, hon, 3's a crowd applies in this case. If he's not afraid to show he likes you than he'll break up with this other girl and it seems more likely this girl and her friends would go after him if he was caught hugging you (two-timing her) than a gentel but firm break-up.
good luck and much luv,
Katie**
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I was on here like a month ago saying that the baby of my ex's could and couldnt be his child, well it is. I mean I am happy but it's like a feelingof insercurity. He tells me he is not going to leave me and he loves me, I don't want the baby to break us up, can someone please help me. I think about it every minute of the hour and when I think we are going to break up I start eating like a pig. Should I just break it off and suffer a longtime hurt or stay with him and see how things go please help. If you need more info or facts to help me say so. Thank you in advance. (link)
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according to you he said he loves you and he won't leave you, yet you worry about it constantly. TRUST HIM!!!! Why would you want to break up with him if all your worried about is HIM breaking up with you? Obviously you're worried about if he will or wont break up with you, but by breaking up with him you're doing what you're afraid he will do to you. So honestly, dearie, i would stick with him and if something happens where you break up than so be it but don't hurt yourself becasue your afraid he would do that to you.
hope this makes scence and helps!!! good luck!!!
**katie
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Hey...I have this problem...I like to make up screennames and use my creativity to annoy the hell out of strangers with my best friend Katie. Is this good? -david walker/AKA george christ (link)
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sounds like fun! IM me and i'll do it with ya *winkwink*. and hell no it's not a problem
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