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i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me too but somtimes i feel as though he s lying to about little simple things like why he couldn't come over , y he couldnt call back just little things, i trust him and i love him,sometimes i feel like his love for me is fading away he said he still cares and he loves me but he makes things so difficult between us, hes changed a lot but not in a way that i would want him to change i talked to him about it, and he said he was going to make things better and that was days ago. but there hasnt been a change yet. what should i do? please help i dont want to lose him
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try talking to him again and saying that if there isn't a change, you will take control of the situation and that may not be to his advantage. if he really loves and cares about you, he won't want to loose you. or find a time where u can sit down in person and talk about everything that's been going on with both him and you and try to identify what could've changed. :)
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You're both most likely young teens. With that I can tell you the truth. The truth you dont want to hear, but upon hearing it will probably realise as truth.
Your boyfriend most likely has lost interest in you. Teen relationships just dont last. How many people going out have you seen last for a year? A very small percentage. A couple months is the average. He was probably feeling infatutaion, as you most likely are too.
Soon you'll realise this relationship is dying and will go nowhere. It will end and you'll find another guy who breaks up with you a couple months into the relationship.
Those are the facts.
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First of all you must understand, all too often people don’t change in a relationships (unless there is something drastic to change it), it is most likely you are see the real him. All too often when we date we put on are best front, and there is nothing wrong with that but that is why one should start slow and work your way up; in other words you are not going to marry someone who you’ve only dated once or twice {or you shouldn’t}. You are most likely seeing the real him, it appears different but he has become more comfortable around you.
Now whether that means you should stick with it or not, I can’t say. That is yours and only yours decision.
I hope this helps you in your dilemma. Let me know if it does.
Best of luck
~Teen Guru~
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you might want to try to tell him but like memorize everything you want to say. because you don't want to be like "do you love me or not?" or "why haven't you called? *he answers* I DONT BELIEVE YOU" but i honsetly can't give advice for what you SHOULD say because i'm not you, i dont know what you're like, how old you are, and what type of boyfriend you have. but i do know that you should NOT act like you're clinging on to him but you should act slightly conserned and maybe hurt because... well... i'm assuming you are from they way you put it and most of all DONT BE FAKY BE SUPER SINCERE AND ACCEPT HIS RESPONSE!!!! most of all-you don;t have to follow my advice. i just suggest. so don't be like "i think i should do this.... but evertone on advicenators said to do that...hmmm" cause it's all what you think is right
...wow that sounds corny
that's all (for now anyways...dundundunnnn)
*Kt
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