Hey y'all! Im Erica. I'm a varsity baskettball cheerleader for Chattahoochee High. (Go Cougars!) I like starbucks, rain (acually just water in general), shopping, going to movies, hanging out with friends, strawberries, the wind, summer vacation, and traveling! :D
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im a guy and my friend thats a girl hasn't been talking to me much, but then about a day ago she just randomly got all mad at me about this thing i had with another girl and she called me and yelled at me for like 10 minutes. shes really mad about something i did with this girl, which isnt even that bad, and isnt talkingto me at all now. first of all, do you know whats wrong with my friend? second, is there anything i should do to get my friend back... id rather have her than the girl and i dont know whether i should apologize or what. any ideas? (link)
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its pretty obveous what's wrong with your friend...shes really jealous. she probably has feelings for you that you may or may not have known about and when she found out you had something with another girl, it probably hit her really hard. i could be wrong, but that's the way it seems.
there are alot of things you could do to get your friend bad. including calling her and apoligizing, asking her how she feels and why she got upset, telling her you wouled rather have her than the other girl (but maybe didn't know she was an option?)
good luck :)
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joe is a badass i love him. does he have a big... lead singer, if you know what i mean? (link)
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haha why does it matter? thats what i thought. it doesnt. some questions have answers that won't be given. thats confidential. and anyway...how would i know. O=)
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alright well i dont relly like n e one right now, but this really nice guy likes me a lot and he seems like he cares. hes decent looking and all, do you think i should go out with him? what do u think i shud do? (link)
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if you don't really like him dont go out with him. that would be leading him on and thats never a good thing to do. don't even go out with him in the mindset "i don't like him now, maybe with time i will" stay friends for now and if and when you start having more feelings for him, then go ahead and date him. :)
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hey i think your the most beautiful girl ive ever met, and im starting to like you, what do you think i should do? lol (link)
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i think you should def. let me know who you are and then we'll see. ;)
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Now that you are single, who is the next lucky guy? (link)
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haha that is a good question. but i dont yet have an answer. i'll get back to you on that.
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do you believe that if you try hard enough you can get someone to like you or do you think that people just like eachother and if not, too bad? (link)
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I think thats its possible to get people to like you. you can't try too hard...but just by being yourself, maybe the other person will grow to like you in time. :)
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building on that last guys question, whats the biggest turn on that drives you crazy? (link)
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haha ummm...when a guy isnt afraid to be a little affectionate in public. like if im standing there and he comes and puts his arms around me from behind or picks me up and hugs me... lol. little things like that.
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what kind of things would sweep a girl off her feet without being stalkerish; just something to get her attention if you dont know her really well (link)
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be nice, make your presense known. make sure she can't miss you. be really nice, go and talk to her. be a little flirty. offer up your jacket if she's cold, and when she tries to refuse it, don't let her. let her catch you watching her, and when she does catch you, smile. you have to stand out in the crowd. set yourself apart by being really nice and sweet to her. hope it works out :)
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Do you know how early or late in age you can get dislexia?
and what are some signs that come with it becides words getting scrambled? (link)
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Dyslexia is not something you just "get". Dyslexics are born with it, however some are diagnosed at a later age. Most dyslexics will eventually hit a brick wall (figuratively speaking) and not be able to get any farther.
Some signs are reversed letters, lack of organizational skills, possible add or adhd or anxiety disorders, problems with spacing (example: the dog ran fast may be written or seen as th edogr anfas t)
There are new technologies that can determine if one is dyslexic. the newest involves a cheek swab to see if one carries the gene for it. :)
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(guy) i just met this girl right before xmas break and she is the most amazing person ive ever met. she plays the same sport as me and shes hardcore christian (me 2) and shes funny and cool and extremely beautiful and everything. right now were just friends but everyone likes her and is going for her but she always tells me shes not into those kids cause theyre all full of themselves...and advice on when/how i could get her to go out? (link)
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Try asking her to do something that both of y'all would enjoy. I dont know if your church has a youth group that meets regularily, but maybe try inviting her to go with you sometime or if your youth group does outings, invite her on one of those. Let her know that you're intereseted by dropping small hints and see how she responds to them. Be yourself and show her how you feel and ask her to do something both of y'all are interested in. Another thing you could try is find tickets to the sport both of y'all do (if that's an option, i dont know what y'all do) If you're ready to ask her out now, go for it because if you wait too long she may think y'all are "just friends" and go out with someone else. good luck. :)
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hi im just wondering, i seriously think im kindof on the pudgy side, but my friends always tell me not (but i mean theyre friends, come on!)
but im 5'8 and i weigh 110 or so and i just constantly wish i were skinnier. am i? (link)
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you're actually underweight. your bmi is 16.7, the minimum for "healthy weight" is 18.5.
here's the link if you want to check yourself
http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
:)
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What are some signs of anorexia, or signs of going in the path of anorexia? also if your heading in the path to anorexia what are way you can stop yourself? thanks. ill rate 5s for good anwers (link)
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some of the basic signs are
not eating or eating minimally
lack of energy/always tired
dizzyness, especially after working out
obsessing over weight and worrying about how certian foods will affect it
constantly counting calories
depression
easily upset
feelings of helplessness
loss of color in face
weight lost of 15% or more below the "normal weight"
bmi of under 18.5
loss of period
low blood pressure which can lead to heart attack
fear of weight gain
distorted self-image
the only way to stop it is to tell someone and hope they help. parents are the best because they care about you the most. friends can help, but not to the extent needed because they will be afraid of making you mad, whereas parents won't care if your mad at them as long as you're getting help. :)
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Well I'm a 16 year old girl.
I usually have a huge appetite and I would eat enough for about two or three people my age but for the last month I have had no appetite at all. My friends think I'm going anorexic but I'm not. I want to eat like I used to but I'm never hungry. It has been 5 weeks since I lost my appaetite and I see no signs of it coming back soon. My friends and I are getting worried because I have now lost almost 7 pounds and I was originally at the healthy weight of 124. I don't know what to do. I talked to my counselor and she told me to go to the docotr but I just went to the docotr about three weeks ago because my throat was looking really bad and hurting. She also told me to eat healthy when I do eat and for the most part I do. When I eat I usually eat like a few bites of a sandwich or a small amount of pasta or a piece of fruit. I just don't know what to do. My friends think I might be developing an eating disorder but I don't think so. (link)
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try to figure out why you've lost your appetite. like have you started taking a new medicine or stopped doing a sport or something? your not as hungry because your metabolism probably isn't running as fast as it used to. you could try taking green tea pills, drinking green tea or lemon juice to get your metabolism back up and then being able to eat as much as you used to and keep your friends from worrying. :)
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k this summer i was slightly anorexic and now i keep getting really moody when i have to eat fattening food
also i get hungry at ten in the morning, 4 in the afternoon, and ten at night, even though i have to eat every mori=ning at 6:30, 11:50 for lunch, and 7 ish for dinner.
how can i fix this? i dont really eat that much at meals and then snack or go hungry between.
please any help at all? (link)
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If you cant emotionally handle eating fatty foods, try to find healthy alternatives. like dried fruits with natural sugars instead of chocolate. etc.
and try eating at the times you have to, and not when your hungry and you may be able to alter your eating schedule.
if you start relapsing into anorexia, which is not hard to do, try talking to someone who can help. :)
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I have a few questions, here. Thanks in advance!
I've tried eating fruits for a meal (Like apples), but minutes later, I'm hungry again! This doesn't make sense to me. Why does this happen?
Also, I don't like many veggies. Are there any vegetables that actually TASTE GOOD? I can't stand broccoli.
Last question! If you want to lose weight, is it REQUIRED to decrease the intake of carbs? I'm a very picky eater, and most of the food I eat has carbs. (link)
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some fruits and vegetables are negative calories. meaning the calories in the apple or whatever are all burned off by the time you have digested.
try eating some veggies with something else. like celery or carrots and ranch dressing or broccoli or cauliflower with cheese sauce. or salad with different types of dressings and toppings like cheese or meats.
its not required to decrease the carbs to loose weight, you just need to eat healthy meals and not eat alot of sugars or fats. :)
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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try thinking about the reasons y'all broke up or the negatives of y'alls relationship. it might help you get over him. when you only remember the good things, you start missing him but by reminscing on the more negative things, you will remember why y'all broke up and why it may not have worked out. :)
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i know it's early to be worrying about this, but having an idea will help me sleep at night. really. haha.
i've been with my boyfriend for two months now. i've never had a boyfriend for valentine's day. do i give him anything? if so, what?
also, what would you expect to get FROM a guy?
thanks so much. (link)
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if y'all are still going out, you should give him something. but it doesnt need to be anything expensive. make him a build-a-bear or something like that if theres something like that around where you live. another good idea is to make one of those no-sew fleece blankets. :)
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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x (link)
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If he smokes, you will most definetly taste cigarette when y'all kiss but thats about it, you won't get any type of cancer from it, thats only if he smokes around you. :)
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little under a year. i love him so much and care about him and i found out that he's been doing something i dont really approve of. but its not what hes doing that upsets and worries me, its that he's been lying to me about it, and then said he's never lied to me. i dont know if i can trust him anymore. i dont want him doing what hes doing, but if he's going to i want to know about it because i dont like being lied to. i want to talk to him but i have no idea what to say? any ideas? i really care about him and love him and don't want anything to happen to him. :-\ (link)
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tell him you don't like what he's doing, and if he care about you and loves you too, he should respect that. the trust thing is hard because you trusted him and he lied to you and betrayed that trust and he will probably get mad at you if you tell him you're having a hard time trusting him, if you tell him. If y'all can talk and work this out, the trust will have to be reestablished and that could take time but if you really love and care about each other you will take the time to do that. :)
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this is my second computer that i have and my dad will not buy me another. okay so heres the deal. my computer probably has spyware and i dont know how to get rid of it. i have ad-aware SE and i use it ALL the time but yet it still doesnt get the junk away. im getting scared cause i dont want to lose computer. does anyone no what i can do to have my computer work better and that i dont have a messed up internet?
ill rate high if you truly help me (link)
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go to google and search spy bot. there are alot of free adware/spyware eliminating programs. the ad-aware SE Personal works well. :)
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