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dealing with love
okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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you seem confused about what you want. maybe you should take a break from having b/fs for a while. until your sure of what you want.
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that same thing happens to me.
it means that you truly love with all your heart
and you never really stopped loving your ex.
its going to be hard, i know.
but in time, you eventually forget about him.
if there was a short period of time between your current boyfriend & your ex, its even harder.
this is what you do -
look at the pictures until you cry.
just let it all out.
let go of the memories .. throw away
all ticket stubs, pictures of you two,
notes, articles of clothing from him ..
and make new memories with your current boyfriend.
take more pictures.
see more movies & save the ticket stubs
save the notes ..
the lipgloss you had on when you first madeout
everything.
soon- the words "i love you"
will just come out.
yeah, your ex probably doesn't like you.
you probably don't like your ex.
its not him your in love with, its probably
just the memories.
so cut all ties, and make new ones with your current boyfriend
soon you'll realize -
that your new memories
are so much better than the old ones
i seriously hope that helped
&
good luck ♥
[sorry if its sorta long!]
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try thinking about the reasons y'all broke up or the negatives of y'alls relationship. it might help you get over him. when you only remember the good things, you start missing him but by reminscing on the more negative things, you will remember why y'all broke up and why it may not have worked out. :)
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Well, first of all, you should think about ending your relationship with your current boyfriend. It sounds like you are just dating him to get your mind off your ex-boyfriend. Breaking up with someone, and still caring about them afterwards (knowing they don't feel the same way), is one of the toughest situations to be in. Know that your feelings for him will not go away the more you date other boys and try to push your pain away. You have to deal with this, fight against your pain every single day. It will be very hard, but what makes it so much better is knowing that it will end, and that you will be a much stronger person having been through that. Just persevere, and know that the harder you fight, the faster this will pass. Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you!
Jenny
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I went through the same thing....kinda. Just try not to have a bf right now...boys...you cant live with them and you cant live without them. Lol..just forget about guys, and start hanging out with your girls. They are there for a reason...when you are sick of bf's you hang out with your girls to shop...blah blah. Dont try to get back together with your ex, because you've already tried it 3 times..somethings not right, and then since you keep on wanting to go back , it's just going to hurt you more. I just forgot about guys for awhiel...and I was over my ex...so that worked for me
Good Luck!
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i think you should take some time out for yourself. dont worry about having a b/f right now. just try to figure out how to get past all of this and maybe spend some time with your friends and try to have fun.
<3jerica
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well seems like youre in a pretty hard situation...well mabe you shouldnt have a boyfriend... i dont think you'd like it if your boyfriend had feelings for an ex...well im not here to judge you ... im here to try and help...maybe you should give it more time until you are over your ex to get a new boyfriend...if you really love you new boyfriend..then maybe its that you dont like your ex...but you miss whatyou two had and/or could've had?? hmm i hope i have the right idea on this!!! just give it time...and if you continue to see intrest in your ex...its time to call a break on the new boyfriend...
boys come and go... so dont put too much stress on your self..
<3 kelly
xo
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Okay so you still like your ex but you have a bf. Well I can't really make you do anything so what I would do is just try and not to think about him that much and pay alot more attention on your current bf. Plus I think that you can never really get over anyone so its kinda normal to keep liking your ex but sooner or later the feeling will go away.
~Liza~
Hope I helped.
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