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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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I think that was rude. Maybe you can ask her to watch a movie with you. Tell her that you havent seen those, and you were about to watch them and maybe she would like to stay. I think she might want something more from borrowing ? or maybe she is PMSing...idk..you have to talk to her...
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Ok my girlfriend who i have been dating for 3 months tells me she loves me all the time on the computer and when we talk on the phone. I can tell her I LOVE HER on the computer with ease, but when it comes to saying it on the phone i tense up and can't seem to say it to her unless she says it first I really want to tell her first. What is wrong with me? HELP (link)
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The reason is probably because when you are on the computer, you're just looking at a screen. I have the same problem. I always say I love you on the computer with my bf...but then when we are at school, it's like I get tounge tied. The reason I found is, because I'm not looking at him when I'm on the computer so I can whateverI want, and then sometimes when you are on the comptuer it's easier to say stuff. It could be you just dont love this girl as much as you think you do. I love you is 2 special words, but you cant just say it in front of just ANYONE...it's fine, just try to mix it up a little maybe, try saying Luv Ya, or come up with some secret love thing only you 2 understand.
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i have a boyfriend right now for a month [in 3 days] and i feel like i like him a lot more than he likes me. the other day he broke up with me and i was like 'fine you never liked me anyway' and he said 'yes i did and i still do but whatever' after talking for like 2 seconds he called it off and we are still together. I hate being the one to like give-in in a relationship. I dont want to always worry that hes going to break up with me. I dont want to wrry about it all the time i want him to like me more than i like him!
any advice? i mena i know i/you cant change how he thinks but i dont know. thank you! (link)
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I think you and you bf just need to sit down and talk...you guys need to work things out. because maybe someof the reason he didnt break up at the end was because you were really sad, and he still cares for you and he doesnt watn to hurt you. so you doing this, maybe he doesnt really love you the way you love him. I think you 2 just need to sit and talk...
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ok. this is my new years resolution
i will not, under any circumstance, try to contact him. i wont IM him, i wont EMAIL him, i wont call him, comment him or anything. he is still a friend but our friendship lies in his hands now. he wanted "space" so im giving it to him. ok so theres this guy and we hadnt talked in like several days and i was completely in love with him. ok so thats why thats my resolution cause i just want to be over him. so today my friend calls me and says brian wants me to call him. and of course im excited. but then at the same time. im like wtcrap why do i have to call him? if he cared he would call me. but in a way i want soo bad to call him. but i dont want to get hurt again. ok so heres the question. i dont want to break my new years resolutionbut i also want so bad to call him. and i know if i call him it will proably just leave to another heartbreak. but if i dont, i know what ill be missing out on. so what should i do? (link)
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My New Years resolution is ALMOST exactaly the same as yours. What I would do is dont call him RIGHT away...because then you'll let him know that you have been waiting for his call. Like you are soo depressed without him. But trust me...from what I've learned soo far...this guy, for some reason if he keeps on breaking your heart, he's not loving you for the right reason. Move on from him, meet new guys. and this phone call...wiat like a day or 2 and then when you call him be like, sorry I couldnt call you back right away, I was really busy. and if it is really important then he will call back within the 2 days. like you said...why should you call him.
I went through this...I guess still am. This guy and I were the best of friends...no seperation whatsoever...if you wanted to know his daily schedule..I knew it. vise versa...and then we went out liek 3 times...and I broke up with him each time. but I didnt know why...i loved him... and then for the longest time we didnt speak to each other, and he knew I was still in love with him, and he just kept telling me to get over him, and he just kept blowing me off, he wouldnt speak to me...we lost our friendship. and then now, he's telling that things are ok again. we are back to being friends, and we are again slowing becoming the best of friends. and I am also afriad taht I'm scared I'll get hurt. but I think about the feeling I went through, about how many friends I brought into my situation. My friends didnt want us to hate each other. So I thought to myself...I can work on one strong relationship that might bring me back to misery....and then lose about 5 of my other best friends.
SO now, I just keep on telling me that.
OK..I know that's a bit long..I hoped my story kinda sorta helped you...lol
Good Luck!
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ok well i told blake that i loved him and idk im anxious to get the reply (i sent an email) like i really want the email to see what he has to say. but i havent gottin it yet. its only been like a day since i sent it. but i mean i know he checks his email like everyday. could he be avoiding the email because hes scared that it says something. i dont know, but i really want the email. is there anyway i can hint to him to check his email with out having me sound like im desperate for him to check his email? (link)
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Dont make him check his email...I think that just makes you sound wayy to deperate. Just give him a little bit of space, like tlak to him and everything, but dont bring up anything about emails...because maybe he's just changing the way he's on the computer. and then if it's been a couple of days, and he still hasnt replied, then ask him, so have you been on your computer lately? Checked your emails? and then ask him if he got yours, and just see how it goes from there. To know if he is avoiding you, see if you guys can talk without any weird feelings. Maybe he acts different, if he does dont jump to conclusion that he is avoiding you, MAYBE he does have feelings for you and doesnt know how to act.
GOOD LUCK!
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My last relationship didn't end well. My ex broke my heart and it was just horrible. Since then, I haven't had a boyfriend because I never let my feelings show and push any potential relationship away. I'm so scared of falling for someone and having them not catch me. A certain boy has come along and he's very interested in me. He says it's not fair I compare him to my ex and assume he's going to hurt me too. I can't help it though and I'm scared I'm going to push away this great guy, who I actually like. How do I let go of this fear and take a chance? (link)
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I think you need to take a chance,because you never know whats going to happen. No all guys are like the other guy before. Every guy is different in there own way. That's how you find the guy that is PERFECT for you.
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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I went through the same thing....kinda. Just try not to have a bf right now...boys...you cant live with them and you cant live without them. Lol..just forget about guys, and start hanging out with your girls. They are there for a reason...when you are sick of bf's you hang out with your girls to shop...blah blah. Dont try to get back together with your ex, because you've already tried it 3 times..somethings not right, and then since you keep on wanting to go back , it's just going to hurt you more. I just forgot about guys for awhiel...and I was over my ex...so that worked for me
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Okay so yesterday I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go to the movies with me on Monday. He said he didnt know. Well, I should fill you in on the background. Every since we have been going out and before there's been this girl he met this last summer on a cruise. She always leaves him comments about how much she misses him and she's constantly talking to him and leaving really weird comments. Yesterday I looked at her away message and it said "*my boyfriends name*-Call me." But anyways Back to the movies..lol. So I asked him to go to the movies and he said maybe. So then today I was like "Are you coming?" and he said he didnt know it depended on whether or not his friend (the girl from the cruise) could do something since he hadnt seen her since august. My questions is: Should I be jealous? I mean I TOTALLY trust him but its this girl i dont trust. I wouldnt put it past her to try something with him.And plus i really wanted to do something with him since i havent seen him in a week. So do i have a reason to be jealous? Should I talk to him about it? Please help me I need to know quickly. Thanks so much =) Happy New Year! (link)
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Well, I think you should talk to him.Dont make it sound like you dont trust him, because he might get take it as that so you have to choose your words really carfully. and then also suggest doing something all together, therefor, when the girl does something IF she does something, you'll be there. Ask him if he wants to do soemthing all together, make it sound like you dont care that he has these extra girl friends.
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I talk to a guy online who used to go to my school, then moved to another state, when he went to my school we werent really friends, and never spoke to eachother.
Then a friend gave me his email. So I added him and started talking to him, this was about a year ago. He had a girlfriend back then, and I, also, was with someone. We only spoke about once a week, and always ended up having an arguement over silly things.
Then about 3 months ago, we started talking normally. I fell inlove with him. He always called me things like beautiful, just flirting. Then he started liking some girl, and he stopped calling me nice things, I was heartbroken.
After that we didnt speak as often, but then one day he said "Hey beautiful, thats what I'm gonna call you from now on" I was happy, then we started talking more regulary again.
I always told him I loved him, I think he thought I meant as a friend. Christmas day I sent him a really sweet text message saying:
Hey Mike!
Merry Christmas...
I don't even know if you're awake yet, but you should be.
Nearly a year since I met you!
I didnt want to add you on MSN when Abel told me to, but I'm glad I did.
You're really awesome, and sweet. And I'm glad you're in my life.
I love you, xxx.
That night he said sorry I didnt reply, I didnt have any credit, but your message was really nice. He was being so nice to me.
Then lastnight he kept calling me beautiful and being really sweet to me, saying he wishes we could meet up, knowing it would be impossible, me being allowed to leave my state alone and all.
We stayed up till 3 talking to eachother online. He said he was going to bed, and kept like putting the love heart sign thing [ (link)
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I think he does like you. Maybe you should just be brave and tell him your feelings. I did with my boyfriend. I just told him flat out that I liked him. He responded in the same way. I think you should...but not a lot of girls can
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i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? if you were in this situation would you ask?thanks! (link)
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If I were in your situation I would ask her- Just wondering, where's your real mom- and then add in something really quick like-you dont have to tell me if you dont want to- You have to give her space. Maybe you turst her a lot,but maybe she hasnt trust your enough to let you know what happened...and then if she does tell you what happened...say something comforting afterwards if it's neccesary. Be supportive. But it might be a touchy situation, so dont forve her to say it. And then when......I think you should ask her whenever you guys are like just sitting down to watch T.V or when you guys are shopping. Like during a time where you can ask her, and then get her mind off it right away. becuase you wouldnt want her to be sad all day.
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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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I think you can flirt around when you think you are ready. Like when you see a really cute guy walking buy, dont think that it's still tooo quick. Just do it, because the cute guy is there. Um....ask your friends to introduce you to some guy friends that you dont know....ask them to set you up.
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i know people are prob getting sick of these kinda questions but w/e
how would you react/do if you found out that your 16 year old daughter that you had alot of trust with told you she was pregnant.you guys were not really that close but didnt really fight or anything. (please be realistic!)
** only answers this if you are acually old enough to have a child aka like 25 or older (it can be a guy or girl) (link)
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I think you need to stay calm. Don't get really mad really quick, even though something she says will get on your nerves really easiily. Remember, she has a lot of things going on in her mind too. You just need to talk to her, I think you might try to mix in some other conversation things. like school, and stuff. because if you go full on about pregnacy, she might get a little irrated, because she learned about this stuff in school and it's like you are lecturing her with the same thing. Just talk to her like you 2 are the best of friends and you 2 are the same age...or close
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I have this boyfriend. He always says he lovesme but i cant say it to him. I dated this one guy and he said he loved me to and my heart naver beated and i never felf uncomfortable with him. But my new boyfriend i always fell uncomfortable and my heart always beats REALLY fast. He has tried to kiss me but i always move away. but i always kissed my old bf. do i have feelings for my new bf? I NEED HELP REALLY BAD! an i rate high for any decent awnser. (link)
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I think you just need to ask yourself why you like your new bf, and get your old bf off your head. I know it seems like an obvious advice, but it really will help.just forget about your old bf completely, because there is always something about the old bf's. they are always better than the new ones. but you need to move on from your old bf, and realize someone else that care deeply about you, that is right in front of you.
good luck!
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Ok, so I've known this guy about 4-5 years; we met through a friend. We've always had a flirtaious kind of relationship, but never really anything more until recently when I've approached the idea. We both went to different schools and hes 2 1/2 years older soo group of friends were different. He always seemed to have a girlfriend back in the day or I always seemed to be friends with the girl he wanted. Until recently he had this evil bitch girlfriend who cheated on him and abused him emotionally, but because he was so in love he couldnt see it. He eventually woke up and realized what he was doing to himself and got out of it, promising me and himself not to go back to her. We started getting closer, but then hes been getting shady lately. Picking fights, getting extremely moody over little things I say, just isnt acting himself. Ive asked him plenty of times if he wants more than friends or just benefits, he says more but wont go farther than that. He tells me he loves me and says he thinks about me and cares for me, but he wont take the next step. I don't think I should have to, because I've layed myself out several times telling him how I feel yet he tells ppl I'm the one who is confused... What should I do?? Is he getting moody maybe b/c of the ex is back in the view?? I'm not a guy, I can't read their signals so help me please!!!! (link)
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I think he likes you and he really want to be with you, and he's not perpously hurting. It's just him. I think that he doesnt want to hurt you, also maybe because since he just got out of a really strong relationship, and his mind is telling him that everyone is like that. Just back off liking him soo much for a little bit. Try to help him get over this stage, he'll get over it sooner or later. Just try to put up with him, and then when you think that he is back to normal, start acting like you like him a whole bunch again, start giving him singals again. and if he goes back to this stage...maybe it means that he just doenst want to get farther...
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hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
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I went through the same thing as you...I couldnt get the guy I liked soo much out of my head. So, my friends saw that I was like going through a really depressed moment, so they took me to the mall..and we would dress up really cute and everything, and then we would like flirt around with guys that were around our age...and that helped me get my mind off of that one guy...it made me feel like that guy was missing out on waht a lot of guys that was cool.
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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time? (link)
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If this guy truly loves you and cares about you as much as you care about him, then if you tell him that you like to cuddle more than kissing, he shouldnt care. He should understand if he really cares for you.
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