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resolution
ok. this is my new years resolution
i will not, under any circumstance, try to contact him. i wont IM him, i wont EMAIL him, i wont call him, comment him or anything. he is still a friend but our friendship lies in his hands now. he wanted "space" so im giving it to him. ok so theres this guy and we hadnt talked in like several days and i was completely in love with him. ok so thats why thats my resolution cause i just want to be over him. so today my friend calls me and says brian wants me to call him. and of course im excited. but then at the same time. im like wtcrap why do i have to call him? if he cared he would call me. but in a way i want soo bad to call him. but i dont want to get hurt again. ok so heres the question. i dont want to break my new years resolutionbut i also want so bad to call him. and i know if i call him it will proably just leave to another heartbreak. but if i dont, i know what ill be missing out on. so what should i do?
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well dont call him be strong and commit to yourself not him. you promised yourself you wouldnt follow through with it and prove to yourself and him what a strong woman you are dont give in i have in the past and it was heartache over and over hang in there i hope you havent already called
well thats great that you havent called im proud of you what a great feeling huh to know he waits for you not the other way around
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Call him -- see what happeneds. it might just come out to be a positive thing.
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you know what i like you if he really cared he would call you don't call him that way the truth would come out and that way you wouldn't break your new years resolution. if he don't call thow it up and keep on goin' youll make it with out him i know you can do it!!!!
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My New Years resolution is ALMOST exactaly the same as yours. What I would do is dont call him RIGHT away...because then you'll let him know that you have been waiting for his call. Like you are soo depressed without him. But trust me...from what I've learned soo far...this guy, for some reason if he keeps on breaking your heart, he's not loving you for the right reason. Move on from him, meet new guys. and this phone call...wiat like a day or 2 and then when you call him be like, sorry I couldnt call you back right away, I was really busy. and if it is really important then he will call back within the 2 days. like you said...why should you call him.
I went through this...I guess still am. This guy and I were the best of friends...no seperation whatsoever...if you wanted to know his daily schedule..I knew it. vise versa...and then we went out liek 3 times...and I broke up with him each time. but I didnt know why...i loved him... and then for the longest time we didnt speak to each other, and he knew I was still in love with him, and he just kept telling me to get over him, and he just kept blowing me off, he wouldnt speak to me...we lost our friendship. and then now, he's telling that things are ok again. we are back to being friends, and we are again slowing becoming the best of friends. and I am also afriad taht I'm scared I'll get hurt. but I think about the feeling I went through, about how many friends I brought into my situation. My friends didnt want us to hate each other. So I thought to myself...I can work on one strong relationship that might bring me back to misery....and then lose about 5 of my other best friends.
SO now, I just keep on telling me that.
OK..I know that's a bit long..I hoped my story kinda sorta helped you...lol
Good Luck!
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i would call him.. its just a phone call and even if you dont end up going out with him, youll still have your friendship which could always turn into something more
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