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I recently met someone while playing a game. We been talking for a week now, yeah such a short period of time, anyway, I feel like I am starting to really like this woman. It's weird though, I've never felt this way before. I felt the need of looking into it, and I ended up here, can you help me with some advice? (link)
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I think that that isn't impossible. Many people meet over the Internet nowadays. What is it that is drawing you in....is it the interest in the game or the conversation? Just relax and enjoy your online time and take things slow:) friendships can always turn to more. It's best to fall in love like that I believe because you actually get to fall in love with the persons mind n heart before the physical
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My daughter is 15 months old. She's off her bottle now, but I can't seem to get her off of her pacifier. Does anyone have ideas to get her off her pacifier?
I wouldn't mind her keeping it, except that it is starting to pull her teeth forward. (link)
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have a puppy or dog chew it up my daughter was mad at the dog but i never got her another she just held the chewed up pacifier in her hand till she lost interest
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i heard that you can get carpal tunnel from masturbating. is this true? (link)
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i would think any repetitive motion could cause it not sure if thats one unless its extreme repition
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last time i had sex with my girlfriend, i came really fast, how can i prevent from cumming so fast? (link)
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more foreplay and slow down
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k, I spent a good chunk of last month at the multinational training center doing gunnery and other army activities. it mostly involved firing the fifty cal machine gun, and vietnam-style wargames against live opposing forces. last weekend, I did this extremely hot lithuanian girl. here's the problem: I got a bigger rush and had a better time running around the german forest wildly firing at anything that moved than having my way with this girl. I'm thinking that's a little messed up. I don't really leave post much, spend a lot of time training, and don't really see many girls (the lunchladies are starting to look hot). is it just an environmental factor showing itself after eight months of nonstop hooah army stuff, or is this a more deep seated psychological issue? And no, I'm not gay. (link)
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it could be all the pressure you are constantly under. you have such high expectations from yourself that you maybe arent impressed with stuff easily. maybe you arent into her. you have a tough job . im sure you dont have sex trouble. probaly just the wrong woman for you. good luck
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I am glad these kids have a place to go where they may get some logical advice about sex (and some bad advice too which is sad)
I am just wondering how many of you "adults" think that too many are having sex too early? To me, they know very little about the consequences--most questions are asked after the fact. Perhaps this shows that sex education is not done early enough and it is not effective enough. What do you think? (link)
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oh my god i know it really scares me to see all the 13 year olds asking if they should have sex and asking about oral sex and stuff. what concerns me is the will i get my period and questions like that oh my god i have a 6 year old and to know in 7 years my kid could be sexually active scares me. seems that the kids are under educated with high hormones. its reallllly sad that they cant talk openly with thier parents on these topics so they can be educated and protect themselves against disease and pregnacy. just reallly really scary
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I'm 15 years old and I'm madly in love with this guy that I've known for quite a while now. I've liked him for 3 yrs and he's 3 yrs older than me.It's not the age that bothers me, it's the fact that I haven't seen him for 1 yr and I'm seeing him again soon. Our parents were friends before but aren't as close anymore. I don't know how to act around him and I'm afraid about how much he could of changed and should i be full on or what and how can i make him like me more? And is it possible to like someone so much at such a young age. I don't even know why I like him so much, it's not looks or personality because i don't know him all that well. But I feel so madly in love with him that no matter what I do, all i think about is him. Thanks (link)
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Blah real love comes later in life I hope you wait on all this junk. Puppy dog love is great but don't wrap your head around this guy yet
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So im a 15 year old sophomore and my dream has always been to be a competiton cheerleader. I am soo dedicated to cheerleading and would do anything to do this. I found a cheerleading place that im going to go to 2morrow to tryout and some people are telling me theres no way i can do it. People are really starting to make me feel down about this. So is competition cheerleading really hard to get into?
Do you have to be a really pretty skinny girl to get in? Im 15...5'6 and weigh 115...and i wanna be a flyer but do i weigh to much to do this or what? this means soo much to me!! (link)
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well i was a flyer and at the time i was 110. i know that the base weighs like 117 and up. im sure if you are good they may make an exception. but with competition its harder.go to cheer camps to get started and id say go anyplace that you can get in. id say go for it hun make your dreams happen screwwwww other people
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Do those free giveaways on the net really work, like, you answer 1 little survey and they give you a free iPod? Has anyone done this? What do you actually have to do after you give them your shipping information- promote adds or try out products? Is this bad to do? Do people actually do it? (link)
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hell no they get your email address and start mailing you junk mail and it gets really annoying. my advice is skip it
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i need some contriversal (spelling?) topics that are school apropriate. 5's to anyone that can name a few. thanks so much (: (link)
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should people that take care of the mentally handicapped make higher wages than they do. currently they make minimum wage and anything after that is fund raised. i feel they will have better care if the caretakers made a lil more money
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 there's this boy named chad and he's 17 years old to,but he's autistic and in special education I was wondering How do I get him to stop touching me on the shoulder I've tried telling him to stop and he just dosn't seem to understand what the word no means and he follows me everywhere one time he actually waited outside the girls bathroom door for me How do I get him to leave me alone and understand once and for all what the word no means? (link)
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i work with people with disabilities and many of them are autistic. what he is doing he can not help. they have ritualistic behaviors. maybe the material you wear is providing sensory input. people with this disability are doing what is normal for them. you shouldnt treat him unfairly because he doesnt realize what other peoples rights are and therefore cannot be held accountable for his actions. speak to one of his special ed instructers. i agree with violet they are trained to understand and deal with thier behaviors. please dont be mean to him he has no control over his disability
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what are some songs that represent self-worth, breaking gender stereotypes, or progression in american media? i need some songs like this for a school project, but i cant think of any. thanks! (link)
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that michael jackson song comes to mind i think its called "black or white"
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ohkay so i have naturally wavy hair, the only thing i can do with my hair is straighten it, i really want to be able to like scrunch it or curl it, does anyone have any ideas on like a mouse or spray i can put in my hair as to where it will scrunch or curl easier (( please not expensive!!))
thanksss bunchesss (link)
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buy some stuff at the drug store caled infusium and use a diffuser on it with your head held upside down while scrunching and aussie sprunch spray is good
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does anyone know where i can get the acrylic stuff and all the supplies they use at like profession nail places. i love getting my nails done but i hate playing $30 a set and i know how to do it and would like to be able to find a kit and do it myself!
please dont tell me to google it because ive tried but i dont know what to trust and what is real or whatever and what isnt! (link)
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you can get it at a beauty supply. i went to beauty school and its a practice thing. it is hard to get them right if you have little practice its actually cheaper to pay the 30 bucks for a full set then pay for the fills in between cause the supplys will be costly besides its hard to get them off if you mess up. but if you really want to try go to a beauty supply and buy the powder and liquid you will also need the brushes. hope i helped
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Today I went to the salon and I wanted to dye my hair into a brown color. My hair was orginally black but after the stylist was done, it still looks black. The stylist said that since right now there is no sun and itz cloudy I wouldn't notice the color until itz sunny. The thing is I sort of notice that in the light itz a little lighter at the roots but the rest still looks black. So my parents are really pissed off at me cause they are telling me that I wasted their money and they said that it still looks the same. Will it look lighter when itz sunny? (link)
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i use to be a hairdresser and what happened is she put the dye on the roots too soon . when this is donre then the heat from your head processes the dye closest to the scalp faster making it lighter in the roots. she should have applied it to the ends first then to the roots because hair is naturally lighter on the ends. next time if you want to go lighter try highlights in carmel and honey hues or maybe a light chocolate mixed in with it it will have a nice effect if they do the strands nice and thin . do not get them wide or it will look unnatural. some small baby blond highlights by the face also have a nice effect. i am a big highlight fan. the roots are less noticable when they grow out.please take that route next time it is costly like 120 if you have med hair but it last 3 to 4 months so it is worth it. if u want it to lighten up right now till you decide what to do next just use a harsh shampoo like pert plus on it with real hot water it will open up the hair shaft and fade the ends to a lighter shade
repeat this a few times and it will match the roots. i hope i helped ya hun
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What is the advantage of having a Chi hair straightener over a ceramic straightener you could get from Target for example? (link)
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oh my god the chi is soooooooooo good. the hair gets smooth and nice. it gets really hot though so you need to use a spray to protect your hair from the heat. matrix has a great spray for that. the irons made by conair and all from target snag the hair and you have to keep running it over the hair over and over again. i know people with some of the biggest curliest hair that use the chi and let me tell ya it is worth everyyyyyyyyyyy dollar you spend. i think they are like 100 bucks or more. mine was 140 with tax included. chi wins hands down .get one and let me know if ya like it
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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed (link)
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heck nooooooooo you are to youngggggggggggggg
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i have , i dont know if its a gas disorder, its really embarssing , and i end up just accidently farting in class, but when im at home i accident shart myself, its wicked embarrasing..people call me the fart machine , i dont know what to do ..please help ASAP...ill rate high (link)
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maybe you need to see a doctor or take gas x
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so, a random question bout sex. i was just wondering, since statistics show that the average teen loses their virginity by the age of 17. well.. is it possible to have sex (when the guy uses a condom) and NOT get pregnant? cuz like, other teens have done it and they havent got pregnant riight? but what im scared of is that my sister had an unplanned pregnancy and she already had a baby. she said she used a condom and i guessed it broke.
questions:
is it common for a condom to break?
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?
thanks in advance. (link)
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i think the answer is yes because i have a 6 year old daughter
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Hi, this is going to make me sound really messed up. Sometimes I laugh uncontrollably when a situation doesn't call for it. Today for example my parents were fighting, and I just started laughing. I didn't find it funny at all and I was really upset about it, but I couldn't stop it. It also happened once when my friend told me her mother died.. I laughed as I told other people, even though i felt awful about what happened..
Is there something wrong with me? I hate not having control over my reactions like this. (link)
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wow i do that too. i was talking to my dad about his will and stuff and i burst into laughter. i told him it sounded like he was planning a trip isnt that aweful! well what happens is when a situation is emotionally to hard to handle we tend to laugh out of protecting ourselves. at least i finally realized it now that im 33 and have done it at a handful of funerals. i hope i helped a little bit or at least you know other people do it to and you are not alone or strange.
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