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I got off more with a fifty cal.......
k, I spent a good chunk of last month at the multinational training center doing gunnery and other army activities. it mostly involved firing the fifty cal machine gun, and vietnam-style wargames against live opposing forces. last weekend, I did this extremely hot lithuanian girl. here's the problem: I got a bigger rush and had a better time running around the german forest wildly firing at anything that moved than having my way with this girl. I'm thinking that's a little messed up. I don't really leave post much, spend a lot of time training, and don't really see many girls (the lunchladies are starting to look hot). is it just an environmental factor showing itself after eight months of nonstop hooah army stuff, or is this a more deep seated psychological issue? And no, I'm not gay.
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Hey, i dont think anything at all is wrong. I think what it is, is that your more mature than a one night stand. Sounds like you might want something more. I think some of it might be that your so hopped up from training you dont think about how nice it would be to have someone there to be with and laugh with.
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it could be all the pressure you are constantly under. you have such high expectations from yourself that you maybe arent impressed with stuff easily. maybe you arent into her. you have a tough job . im sure you dont have sex trouble. probaly just the wrong woman for you. good luck
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Throwing yourself whole head and heart into something is nothing to worry about, at least not at this stage. I often find when I'm really enjoying my work that I'm either happy without any sort of relationship or sex, or that I'm irritated by the time my partner expects me to take away from the job I love and spend with them.
You are in a highly controlled environment where you don't have the time to think about the opposite sex unless you make the time. If you are enjoying what you are doing and thinking about, why would you bother to make time?
Maybe you are just not that into her. That's not crime. Just make sure to take some R and R when you need it and you sound a-okay to me.
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You're just more into the training thing right now. Don't worry about it! That's where your head is the majority of the time so of course it is going to be the bigger rush. :)
P.S Good to see/hear you are doing well! Miss seeing your advice. Stay safe :)
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It's a crazy environment and it is bound to affect you psychologically, but just because this girl doesn't do it for you doesn't mean you should be concerned at all that something is wrong. She just isn't your thing.
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well,more the 85% of the males in my family have been in the armed forces,its jus a huge rush.unless yah like get a boner from blowing shit up,i have a huge rush doing the same stuff,its nothing strange ,u jus like shooting at shit better then u like doing this chick
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