hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me?
Join a club,make an effort to hang out or atleast try to get to know the people they met,so on.
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I already have a mini ipod and i'm planning on giving it to my sister because i just got a video ipod. I opened my video ipod package and it didnt have a cd so can i just plug it into my computer and it will connect with the itunes i already have? Will the music from my mini come onto my video? Later on should i plug in my mini ipod and delete all of my music so then it will be blank for my sister? Will this effect my video ipod?
Yeah Itunes will lead you through the process,you can click reset on ur ipod mini to wipe it.cus some ipods like mine,is formatted to where it can go onto any computer without downloading the whole library and erasing yours and u can pick and chose from others music,unlike factory settings.
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Okay, I have this guy who says he loves me but really hates me, [ or so i think] but ive been with his best friend for a while, so i could be closer to him, but he still ignores me, is their anything i can do to prove my love to him without hurting his friend?
-thanks
truthfully,no,you cant,his friend will be hurt and there is no way to avoid it hun,i know it sucks to hear it but its the truth.and why would u think this guy hates you if he says he love you?
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im really confused about this. When your about ot have sex, like he starts taking off your clothes and you start taking off his when would you put the condom on. I'm really confused
thankss =]
well id say after the cloths are off and beafore penetration *nods* put it on for him,if not he can put it on himself,just make sure its secure.
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http://photos.pe.facebook.com/v54/19/6/509094788/n509094788_10058_8944.jpg
where do they sell bathing suits like this one (BOTTOM PIECE)
that looks more like lingerie,try victoria secret.
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http://picnic.ciao.com/uk/41094.jpg
please look at her eyes .
do you know what i can do to have small eyes like dat? like really small cute eyes like all you can see is black lol thanx
To get that look,youll have to practice,the way it looks is that its just alot of black eyeliner.black eyeliner makes your eyes look smaller,keep in mind she has pros do hers,just play around and see what you can do.
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I know your all probally wonderring im crazy but how can you stop yourself from liking someone? Theres this guy ive liked for months now and alot of the time he's the nicest guy ever: funny,caring,nice,cute smile,hot,accent,respectful,a lil flirty, and just great to be around but other times hes a jerk. My friends hate him because he bugs them and I think he likes my best friend. They all say im obbsessed with him because i talk about him all the time and about things we did together. We used to be best friends but sometimes he does stuff that makes me want to hate him. And I want to stop liking him. If there anyway at all I can teach mself not to like him maybe make me like someone else i dunno but I hate not eing able to think of anyone else.
13/F
Well,the answer is,you cant stop the way you feel hun,you can wait eventualy itll go away but,your emotions are not like a light switch,their is no on or off switch.your friends,if you went out with him,if they are your real friends,theyll get over it and treat him atleast decent.
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OK so, all of a sudden I feel hated by like everyone. I can't stand it, I feel like I'm not wanted [anywhere] anymore. Not even at home! Does anybody have a reason to this? .. Some comforting advice? ...
-Thanks
ok well i think alot of the columnist would agree with me when i say,theres ALWAYS someone atleast one person who loves you unconditionaly,friend,family,something.i know it seems that way sometimes but god shows you bad in order for you to apreciate the good then he brings back those good feelings,i hope everything turns out good for you.
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i been getting advice everyday because of me and my ex-boyfriend i broke up with him and i still have feelings for him i dont know what to do can somebody help me cause i dont know if he still likes me so what now please help
you really need to sit down and talk to him about how you feel and why yahll broke up and how you both could help to make it better if yahll do get back together.
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can someone please explain jeffrey star to me?? lol just like who he is and what he is i guess lol oh and like what he does
http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/index.php/Jeffree_Star
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Okk,well i didnt really know how too work this.And i didnt know were too putt it...But
ok,so my brother finger me ...I'm not sure if he touched his penis..were he could have touch cum//I have missed my period i'm 2 weeks late.Is it just me stressing..Or my period has skipped this month///Or am i pregnet.. i do have a the flue..Does this have anything to do with it..I keep stresing to make sure my tummy isent growing please helpp..Please...I jsut don't know what tood doo...
Thanks xxx
erm,well im not even guna ask about the brother thing,thats your business,but no your not pregnant,your probly just irregular.
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I had sex with my gf with a condom, there were no splits or breaks in the condom at all, there was no slip at all and there was semen in the condom.
But there was a white fluid in my gf's vagina, it was whiter than normal semen, had a different texture (more like a cream) and smelt of condom lubrication but i wasn't sure what exactly it could be: there isnt that much lubrication on a normal condom, and it couldnt have been semen because the condom was perefectly secure with no breaks or slips.
Could it be a mix of vaginal fluids and condom lubrication? Or is this something i should be worried about?
I dont think you have anything to worry about,its natural when a female is aroused.unless something else starts coming out like not normal fluids youll know what i mean if she sees them.but that is perfectly normal if your sure the condom was working fine.
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my friend told me that whem she lost her virginity she cried it hurt her so bad. and some people say the bigger/fatter the girl is the less it hurts. so im 14 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend and we might do it new years eve. but i wanna know how badly it hurts. he has fingered me before and it felt like he was pushing up aginst something. can u tell whet that thing is? it didn't hurt when he fingered me but will it hurt when he goes in? he is pretty big and im pretty small. i have felt him before and he's a lil too big for me i think. can anybody answer me?
I recomend lubed condom and take it reall slow.It will hurt you like a bitch.When me and this girl had sex for the first time i thought she was about to die ,she said it felt like she was spliting in 2,after about the 3 or 4th time it wont hurt anymore and will start feeling good and most likely the thing your feeling is your hymen.
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I've been dating one of my really good guy friends for a few weeks and we have a really tyte realtionship. So he told my friend that hes buying me like $20 worth of stuff for Christmas. My mom thinks we should've waited a little longer to start going out.. so she doesn't know we are. So therefore, I couldn't get him anything more than a "just friends gift". Which is some cookies and a little novelty thing (a whiteboard that hangs from your doorknob?!--mom bought it).
I feel really bad because I really really really really like him and I feel bad that he's spending so much on me and I'm being Miss Cheap-o.
Should I get him something after break (when my mom knows that were going out) as a "Make-Up Christmas"?
If yes, then what should I get him??
I'm so confused.
---14/f
Ok first i think you really need to tell your mom,she is your mom and she will understand or get over it eventually.about the gifts,i wouldnt worry too much about it,hell love anything you get him.just make it special.
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I love my sister... sooooooo much..
But there is a teensy weensy problem:
She is EXTREMELY flirtatious. I have a loyal boyfriend, thank God, but my best friend, Layne, and her boyfriend, Connor, came over... and...things got a little heated up between my Connor and my sister. Layne and I were watching a movie, but Connor went into the kitchen to make popcorn or something and my sister was there so...
And when Layne and Connor were leaving my house, myy sister came and kissed him good-bye! On the lips! Right in front of Layne!
Is Connor loyal? Or did my sister do this against Connor's will?? Layne is so upset and Connor is mad at ME for some reason. They're both my friends and I don't know what to do.
I replaced my sister's skin cream with mayo... but what other solution is there??
well A.gold star for cream switch..A+ lol that made me smile.B.you need to talk to your sister about that.and most likely if connor is pissed off then she did it against his will,i think you friend needs to make sure and talk that out with him too.
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My dad has yelled and cussed since I was born. For example, last night his sister called and I went over to him and I had the phone in my hand. I said, "Dad? Do you want to talk to your sister? Here's the phone." And he ignored me, so I put it down and was walking up the stairs, and he heard his sister leaving a message. He ran over to the phone, turned to me, and yelled, "YOU IDIOT! WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER IT?" And I didn't know what to say because I had asked him if he wanted to talk to her, but he didn't answer. I coudn't cry in front of him. I did once and he started screaming at me for it. Do I even have a reason to be upset for him saying that to me? I don't know. Sometimes I feel so stupid for getting upset over things like that and I don't think I have a reason to. I was trying to tell my mom something earlier and he walked by, glared at me, and said, "SHUT UP!" For no reason. He yells and cusses at me and my brother almost every day for no reason at all. I've talked to my mom before and she didn't do anything. The only time she's tried talking to my dad about it, he simply started cussing at me and her. He's okay one minute, then the next he's yelling like a maniac. I can't take this anymore. I'm still crying over something he said to me LAST year. Do I have a reason to be upset? What am I supposed to do?
Ah,this is something I can relate to.Crying is one thing you never want to do ,atleast infront of him.He has anger issues,or mayby hes bi polar.But crying and being upset and letting him know by emotions is just empowering him and hell do it more.but dont let him think its ok either,talk to him,tell him.He WILL yell but if you have to ,yell back.But dont ever think he doesnt love you,you are his child.i really do hope things get better for you.Sometimes its best to just talk to someone either older or more experienced to help you.Freinds,school counsler,or mayby even god.God can help when even the brightest of lights seem to dim sometimes.everything will be ok eventually,god never lets your prayers go unanswered for long.
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl
Well i know how this is like,been there and done that from his point of veiw.Dont try to change him if you do try,let him do it on his own but encourage him ,hell realize it on his own.something like this shouldnt hold you back from something that could possibly be great,try it,pray for him,help him,expose him to difrent then what hes use to .
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(sorry,not sure if this is right catagory!)
Me and my bf have been going out since December 5th, but we are planning on making it last. I want to give him something special that he'll actually like and not like shove in his closet.
(I am in addition baking him choc. chip cookies)
I'm 14 and he's 15 if it helps
Does anyone have any good present ideas?
Money doesnt matter, but i want it to be reasonable.
make it something from your heart,even though its not manly,guys do like a small stuffed animal to look at sometimes by the one they love when the person is away.mixed cd mayby.cologne,if its something youd think hed like,chances are,he will.
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15/f.
i've never been in a relationship before..and honestly..i'm not pretty AT ALL. and yet, this guy likes me. he asked me out before, back in like..march. but i said no to him..because i was going through a lot of issues with this other kid who i liked. well now..i hate that other kid and i really like this guy again. apparently, he still likes me too. we can talk a whole lot about pretty much everything..but we never bring up our feelings for eachother. i kind of want to say SOMETHING to him..anything really. i just..don't want to sound like an idiot when i do say something to him.. how can i prevent myself from making a complete idiot out of myself? i don't really want to bring it up out of the blue..and i don't want it to turn out this was all a game or something and end up being hurt. please help.
Ok well first let me say,if you think there may be a possiblility dont let the oprotunity pass you by,you might miss out on something great.And from the way it sounds even if he didnt feel the same way about you he wouldnt make you feel stupid or anything.life is about taking chances,take yours.
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ok.....i like this guy in my grade. i sit near himin a couple classes. We talk every day hes there, and are friendly.
Well.....hes really cute. in 5th grade i also liked him (im in 8th now, and i started liking him again) and i wrote him a note telling him and everyoen found out, and im afraid ill be humiliated again if i try and do something similar. i have seen hints that just maybe he considers me more than a friend....but im not sure
please help me
p.s. i also don't think i could have a friend ask him for me, im just too shy and since i see him constantly. his locker is also three down from mine!! hes really nice...:(
The easiest ways ive found to do something like this is either,A.phone or B.online people seem to be braver in the way they think on either.
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