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scared to death of being humiliated AGAIN
ok.....i like this guy in my grade. i sit near himin a couple classes. We talk every day hes there, and are friendly.
Well.....hes really cute. in 5th grade i also liked him (im in 8th now, and i started liking him again) and i wrote him a note telling him and everyoen found out, and im afraid ill be humiliated again if i try and do something similar. i have seen hints that just maybe he considers me more than a friend....but im not sure
please help me
p.s. i also don't think i could have a friend ask him for me, im just too shy and since i see him constantly. his locker is also three down from mine!! hes really nice...:(
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The easiest ways ive found to do something like this is either,A.phone or B.online people seem to be braver in the way they think on either.
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I would call him up over the phone or maybe pull him aside and talk to him. When you guys are talking as just friends you don't slur you speech or mess anything up all the time. Just pretend he is one of you best friends and tell him, look I don't really know how you feel about me but I kind of still like you so if you want to and you feel the same way, then I was wondering if we could give it a shot. And see what happens!
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First: Don't start conversations with him. Wait for him to start one with you. If he doesn't... well, he just doesn't like you and you're going to have to accept that. But if he does, that's a tiny sign that he considers you as something (like a friend, maybe)
Then: Smile at him everytime he looks at you. If he's a basketball player or something, cheer for him at every game he has at school. If he notices you and waves at you or something, be happy!! If he doesn't, don't really take it as a bad thing because he'sprobably concentrated in the game... If he's not a sports player, just hang out with him after school or something.
See what sparks between you guys. Tell me everything!
-Jenny C
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