Location: Illinois
Age: 15
Member Since: December 20, 2006
Answers: 4
Last Update: December 20, 2006
Visitors: 684
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15/f.
i've never been in a relationship before..and honestly..i'm not pretty AT ALL. and yet, this guy likes me. he asked me out before, back in like..march. but i said no to him..because i was going through a lot of issues with this other kid who i liked. well now..i hate that other kid and i really like this guy again. apparently, he still likes me too. we can talk a whole lot about pretty much everything..but we never bring up our feelings for eachother. i kind of want to say SOMETHING to him..anything really. i just..don't want to sound like an idiot when i do say something to him.. how can i prevent myself from making a complete idiot out of myself? i don't really want to bring it up out of the blue..and i don't want it to turn out this was all a game or something and end up being hurt. please help. (link)
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I would honestly start out the convo as normal as can be get close to a time where you can sqeeze it in. Just say, "hey I was actually kind of wondering something. I was wondering how you feel about me cause I kind of like you in a bf/ gf kind of way" And then see what he says!
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ok.....i like this guy in my grade. i sit near himin a couple classes. We talk every day hes there, and are friendly.
Well.....hes really cute. in 5th grade i also liked him (im in 8th now, and i started liking him again) and i wrote him a note telling him and everyoen found out, and im afraid ill be humiliated again if i try and do something similar. i have seen hints that just maybe he considers me more than a friend....but im not sure
please help me
p.s. i also don't think i could have a friend ask him for me, im just too shy and since i see him constantly. his locker is also three down from mine!! hes really nice...:( (link)
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I would call him up over the phone or maybe pull him aside and talk to him. When you guys are talking as just friends you don't slur you speech or mess anything up all the time. Just pretend he is one of you best friends and tell him, look I don't really know how you feel about me but I kind of still like you so if you want to and you feel the same way, then I was wondering if we could give it a shot. And see what happens!
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Ok, so heres the deal. I got the Depo shot on about the 21st of november. Then next day me and my boyfriend had sex. My last period was on halloween and today I had some brown spotting. And lately I've been having cramps and my womb seems like its cramping.. sometimes it hurts a little. Then about a week ago my boyfriend came in me for the first time ever.So i'm freaking out. It was about a week ago when he came in me and now I have brown spotting in my underwear. I also have backache and my boobs hurt.BUT I usually have tender breasts on days before my period and my period should come on the 24th. So I don't know if its the period, the depo, or even that I may be pregnant.Some one have input please.. (link)
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Well, first I think you should talk to your mom about taking you to the doctor and maybe getting checked to see what it is....I just recently had the same experience although I wasn't on anything so I didn't know what to think but. You should talk to you mom about taking you to the doctor or even go by yourself but the only way to tell is by going and getting a test. Normally women who are pregnant normally don't have their period and mostly women don't show signs until they are normally at least 3 months pregnant so If you have missed your period I would go and check it out plus, If you are spotting brown blood then that may also indicate a miscarrage?
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My dad has yelled and cussed since I was born. For example, last night his sister called and I went over to him and I had the phone in my hand. I said, "Dad? Do you want to talk to your sister? Here's the phone." And he ignored me, so I put it down and was walking up the stairs, and he heard his sister leaving a message. He ran over to the phone, turned to me, and yelled, "YOU IDIOT! WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER IT?" And I didn't know what to say because I had asked him if he wanted to talk to her, but he didn't answer. I coudn't cry in front of him. I did once and he started screaming at me for it. Do I even have a reason to be upset for him saying that to me? I don't know. Sometimes I feel so stupid for getting upset over things like that and I don't think I have a reason to. I was trying to tell my mom something earlier and he walked by, glared at me, and said, "SHUT UP!" For no reason. He yells and cusses at me and my brother almost every day for no reason at all. I've talked to my mom before and she didn't do anything. The only time she's tried talking to my dad about it, he simply started cussing at me and her. He's okay one minute, then the next he's yelling like a maniac. I can't take this anymore. I'm still crying over something he said to me LAST year. Do I have a reason to be upset? What am I supposed to do? (link)
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I think you should talk to you dad. And try to talk things through with him and tell him how you feel about him acting like a jerk. See what he does and then message me back..Later and I'll help you as best as I can with your troubles.
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