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he likes me?
15/f.
i've never been in a relationship before..and honestly..i'm not pretty AT ALL. and yet, this guy likes me. he asked me out before, back in like..march. but i said no to him..because i was going through a lot of issues with this other kid who i liked. well now..i hate that other kid and i really like this guy again. apparently, he still likes me too. we can talk a whole lot about pretty much everything..but we never bring up our feelings for eachother. i kind of want to say SOMETHING to him..anything really. i just..don't want to sound like an idiot when i do say something to him.. how can i prevent myself from making a complete idiot out of myself? i don't really want to bring it up out of the blue..and i don't want it to turn out this was all a game or something and end up being hurt. please help.
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Ok well first let me say,if you think there may be a possiblility dont let the oprotunity pass you by,you might miss out on something great.And from the way it sounds even if he didnt feel the same way about you he wouldnt make you feel stupid or anything.life is about taking chances,take yours.
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I would honestly start out the convo as normal as can be get close to a time where you can sqeeze it in. Just say, "hey I was actually kind of wondering something. I was wondering how you feel about me cause I kind of like you in a bf/ gf kind of way" And then see what he says!
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Flirting is a GREAT way to get started. But slowly and surely bring up the fact that you like someone. Ask him what HE would do in your situation. Be like " If you liked someone and werent sure how to tell them how you felt, what would you do?" (This will show him that you trust him)
Dont hold back and be shy. Act as if you guys have been friends forever. When he thinks you trust him he can trust you. You have to let him in and be your self 110% around him.
Bring up your feelings for him through a conversation that is deep and really reveals your true feelings. He will not think that you are an idiot, but someone who is brave enough to tell him the truth.
Hope I Helped
-Linsay
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Start by flirting with him... just a little. Don't get carried away. Be affectionate and really sweet to him. Ask your most trustful friends to ask that guy if he likes you. If he's a basketball player or whatever, cheer him on the loudest at his games and everything. Start by being his best friend and slowly work your way up. If he doesn't return your feelings for him, don't worry! You seem like a sweet girl that a guy would want. There'll be the right guy for you some day. =)
Good luck
-Jenny C
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