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i`m not sure if i like my boyfriend still ... because right now, i feel nothin`... but then yet... i feel emotionless.. O.o lik`.. i havent had enough sleep and i dont know how i feel right now. i`m not sure if i like him, or he lost my trust, or i feel like he doesn't love me anymore by the way he acts... sometimes i think that he doesn't love me by the way he acts, but yet when i think about it he does and he acts the same as he usually does. i js dont notice it.. maybe i`m the one that has changed.. i`m not sure if he lost my trust because today he was throwin` a party because his mom wasn't home.. we were textin` back and forth, and he got me mad because he said "my friend bought over 5 chicks.. i think hes drunk O.o" and then he said "omg.. my friends wants me to play spin the bottle ... and they know im taken -_-" ..... and when i said "ic" he didn't text back for a while until i said "sigh" i`m not so sure about anythin` now... once and a while i keep thinking that hes cheating on me.. cause my friends always says "you cant always trust a guy.. because then they`ll let you down." so now.. i don't know if i lost feelings for him, or i dont trust him anymore, or if he lost feelings for me .. or maybe not.. idkk >.< but yet i dont want to loose him either. help me?
mary
Whoa. I was once in the exact same situation
It sounds to me like hes either cheating or trying to make you jealous. He could be noticing that you dont seem to care so hes trying to make you jealous, but still.
What you need to do is think of how you will feel after you end it. Will you feel fine, happy, regretful ? Try going a day or 2 without talking to him. Do you miss talking to him ? Do you not notice a differance ?
Once you figure that out, go with your instincs. If you really think your completely over him, end it. You'll be leading him on if you dont, and thats not good. im still not so sure if you can trust him, so just take a day or two and look at the relationship & how well it is & how good the trust it.
Hope I helped && good luck =]
xoxoxo >>>Linsay
ok well the people that live across the street from us are having this party and they have a band and what not and i invited my friend but if there's any guys there she's gonna totaly ignore me and what not so should i just tell her the party was cancele or what
Well you probably dont want to lie to her and tell the party was cancelled, because she might end up finding out that you lied to her.
There are a couple routes you can take here:
1.) Tell her you dont feel like going and are going to stay home [[unless she wants to go without you]]
2.) You could suggest you guys do something else. ex: go to the movies [[unless you still wanna go]]
3.) this is deff. the best route. You can tell her the truth. Just be like "hey, i really wanna go to the party with you but it seems when we go places you ignore me for guys" Just be gentle and nice about it, dont yell, just try to make her understand.
The third is deff. the best choice because if you dont tell her how she does that stuff shes gonna keep doing it && you will end up missing out on alot of things you could do with her.
Hello Everyone!!! My first track meet is tomorrow, can anyone give me any tips about what I should tonight and tomorrow while at the track meet. THanks in advance
Omg track is so fun. I use to run, well heres a couple tips
-Drink room temperature water(not cold)
-Strech your legs & arms
-Get a good nights sleep
-Go to the bathroom before you run(or you could always wait that might make you run faster lol)
-Take a warm up lap by jogging, running, or power walking
Hope I helped & good luck tomorrow!
-Linsay
ok well i am head over heels for my ex. i really and truly love him. but i broke up with him cuz i thought i liked another guy. im going out with him now, but after the dance last night, im pretty sure im not gonna like the relationship. my ex is completely in love with me still. what should i do? the new guy would be crushed. i havent even told my ex i had a new boyfriend. im such a stupid loser! argh!
I had the same problem. I broke up with a guy, he still loved me, I changed my mind && we went back out, ya well that happened 3 times to me. Well heres the thing: You hurt your ex, then your gonna hurt this new guy. Im not saying not to do it. I mean, it seems to me either way you should break up with your new guy. If you know you dont like him, then it has to end. You cant stay with him just so you wont hurt him! So first, think about this from your exs point of view. Think about how you hurt him. You have to understand that if he really loves you, he was crushed when you broke up with him. Next think about how you will feel when you are with him again. Will you feel happy & be in love, or will you change your mind again? Once you have got all this figured out, go for it! You said you dont like your new guy, so break up with (gently of course) and then talk to your ex. And do this before your ex moves on && finds someone who wont hurt him. Im telling you this because I have personal experience with this. from not to long ago in fact!
-Hope I helped!
Linsay!
who here plays volleyball??? well does your spandex sometimes rid up your butt?
it does to me!
well i know that theres this stuff called "tuf skin" and its for gymnasts to make their leotards not rid up... is there anything like that for spandex?
if not... what can i do to prevent my spandex from riding up?
another question-
do you wear underwear under your spandex???
one of my friends (who plays volleyball) told me that she doens't wear underwear under her spandex and she just wears a panyliner.. unless she has her period.
Yes, I play volleyball, & yes I wear spandex. Well I never really had a problem with them riding up me butt, mine were so tight & clingy they couldnt go anywhere, lol. So I dont what to tell you about your first question, but about your 2nd question, yes I always wear underwear with my spandex. If you do you have panty lines but if you dont they could ride up, like you said before, and show too much. && sometimes they are so tight they show stuff through them.... you know what I mean? So ya everyone I knew always wore underwear under them.... including me.
i'm trying to loose weight by not eating. im not going anarexic but im just like eat a LOT less.. how long is it going to take for me to be VISIBLY skinnier?
Ok sorry, but that is the stupidest way to loose weight. You could be become anerexic in time. Plus its just not healthy. Also, you will start to seriously crave foods like chocolate. What you need to do is just eat healthy and exercise. Cut back on junk foods && stuff like that. It really depends on what kind of exercises you do && stuff to start being able to see your progress. All I can tell you is it wont happen in a week, or a day. I know that probably wasnt what you wanted to hear but sorry. Inbox me if you have anymore questions.
i'd like people's opinions- do you believe that it's possible for two teenagers to fall in love? i'm 16/f and he's 17/m. this is our relationship in (very small) nutshell:
we talk about everything. we care about each other to the deepest, most loving extent possible. i don't see other guys [friends, random guys] in the same way i used to. neither of us would ever do anything to hurt the other [emotionally & physically, for that matter.] and anytime either of us even suspects something is wrong [which has only happened twice], we bring it up and talk through it. he makes me genuinely happy- the happiest i've ever been in my life. i'm constantly in a state of bliss when i'm with him, no matter what we're doing or what's going on. we've been dating a year and almost seven months. i can honestly see marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him. no words can describe how much i love him.
i'm sure i'm forgetting other things. but anyway- in love? or just a "teenage love"? [in your opinion. of course, my opinion is the former, haha.] thanks in advance (:
I honestly dont think you have to be a certain age to fall in love. I mean, theres no limits to your feelings. Love isnt a maybe thing, if your in love you will know it, you will be able to say im in love without any doubts
-Hope I helped
Linsay
I usually HATE questions like this on advicenators so I'm really sorry! But, this is driving me INSANE. Yes, I've googled it...plenty of times, changed my wording, etc--many different results, but not the one I want. I was in Forever 21 yesterday, and this song came on. It was like "..why don't they understand..." and the voice was kind of like Hilary Duff. Weird thing is, I googled it, and nothing matched up. Can anyone please help me before I lose my mind over this song?
I think you might be talking about Sticks and Stones by Aly & AJ
I've heard this song a few times,and I think it's pretty cool.It's usually on classic rock stations and the like,and it goes something like "goodbye sunshine...goodbye Mary...goodbye Janey".I know that doesn't really help,but I don't know what the lyrics are exactly.
Any idea what it is?
Yes!! I love that song! It is called goodbye Stranger by Supertramp
how do you play "hard to get"
Playing hard to get is basicly putting a guy on the chase to get a girl, but the girl still likes him. This is usually used to get a guy hooked on a girl.
Its kind of hard to explain how to play hard to get, because every girl has her own way of doing it, but they all follow the same guidelines. To play hard to get, you just make the guy want more. When you flirt, say things that make him wonder what your thinking, like smile mischeviously & stuff. Also, if he asks you to call him, meet him somewhere, etc, at a certain time, be a few minutes late & say "I just forgot," or something.
Hope I helped!
-Linsay
My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do.
O.K. no offense, but your best friend sounds like a witch. I mean she wants you to do drugs & get tattoos?? omg! My advice would be to make some new friends. Its not really that hard. Just star a conversation with somebody and smile and stuff. Just be nice. And its ok if you dont have a best friend, I dont, I just have alot of really really good really close friends. You'll be fine on your own for a little while. Just get away from that girl! Think about this: if it werent for her you would have other friends! Im not saying you can't be friends anymore, Im just saying to stop acting like her slave.
Hope I helped
-Linsay
ok so my friend likes this guy a lot! she thinks about him 24/7, and she really really wants to go out with him. I tell her that me or one of her other friends, should tell him that he likes her, so he will know, but she says hshe wants him to ask her out without any interference. I respect that.. but he will never know that he likes her, without her giving him any hints, or somebody telling him.. Ive givin her ideas on an easy way to ask him out, but she is just too embarissed, I want her to stop dreaming of her fantisy and start living in it ya know?? i know that sounds corny.. but.. i really want to help her get him.. what should I do??
Many many many Many thanks in advance!!!~
I totally agree with you 100%. He will never know that he likes her if she doesnt drop a hint. If she really likes this guy, she needs to get off her butt and do something about it instead of just waiting for him to make the first move. Does she flirt with him? If she doesnt she should. That will definantly make him think. She just needs to give him some kind of sign. He wont ask her out if he has no idea shes interested!
Hope I helped
-Linsay
okay, well. i started a new school back in like, September. and I still dont' have many friends. I have a group of people i talk too and stuff, but i kind of want to make friends with other people too. I'm normally really shy and hate to start conversations. and i'm always afraid of messing up or embarrasing myself.
any tips on how not be shy?
I am experienced with this kind of stuff. I use to be super shy. But now Im like super outgoing! Heres what I did to get over it:
Start by talking alot at home. If you get use to talking outloud, atleast you will know how to do it! Also, in conversations, when somebody says something, make a small comment on it or something. That is how you get use talking in a crowed. Don't be afraid to speak your mind.
And also remember this: Who cares if you embarass yourself? Its really hard to do that, It seems easy to say something stupid, buts its not! I mean, if I or one of my friends say something stupid we just laugh at ourselfs! Im a bit dizty, I wont lie, so Im use to being on the stupid side. In fact, people call me "blonde in diguise" because Im brunnette but ya know. The bottom line is that embarassing yourself is pretty hard to do, but saying something stupid[[in the right time]] is pretty hard to do.
Hope I helped!
-Linsay
okayy. i need help on flirting. i like to talk to this one guy online, and i want this boy soooooo bad. he's really shy though, but if i talked to him, i think it would go pretty good.. but the thing is, i'm shy too. so how do i get the guts to go up to him and talk to him???
O.K. you are very lucky because I happen to be an expert on flirting. But, just like you, I use to be shy too. You just need to "prepare" what you are going to say to get a conversation started. Once you get him talking, smile alot and look him in the eyes! Yes it will be kind of hard to get it started but once you got good vibes going flirting is a piece of cake! [[trust me on this one]] So just try to be relaxed, calm and cool!
Hope I helped!
-Linsay
Ok, so I really really really like this guy at my school. and the other day i went to my friends house and she had his number so we called him 2 times. i kept his number, just in case i wanted to call him and ever talk to him, since i have a huge crush on him haha! anyways, i really want to call him again, just to talk but i am sooooo scared to. when my friend was there, it was no big problem. so, should i call him? or just talk to him at school, which i do all of the time. idk what to do!! because, when my friend and i called him, i think he was kinda in shock because we called, he wasn't expecting it. and today he asked " why were you guys calling me?" and i was just like idk, we just thought we would. so..what should i do?? oh yeah, by the way, he doesn't know i like him. thanks guys!!
I think you should call him. I mean, whats he gonna do? Hate you because you called him? I mean.... if you talk to him at school and hes your friend, then it shouldn't really matter. Just call and if he asks why be like "Im bored and I need someone to talk to" or something like that. If he likes you, he will probably be happy because you called him. Also, it would be alot easier for you guys to have a personal conversation if its just you guys without your friend there. Good Luck!
Hope I helped.
-Linsay
I recently got a baby kitten & I know I need to take him to the vet to get his check-up and vaccines, he's 7weeks? Does anyone know the proper age to take him or if he's still too young?
Hes never to young to get a check up. I would say the sooner the better. As far as getting him fixed Im not sure so sure about. We got ours fixed at 6 months... but I think you can get him fixed before that.
But like I said before, its safe to take him to the vet to get his shots. Some kittens even receive diseases from their mothers, or something in their mothers milk, so taking him to the vet wouldn't be a bad idea at all.
Hope I helped
-Linsay
15/f
I was decorating the Christmas tree last year when suddenly it fell over. All of my ornaments (from generations and generations.. and the ones I had been collecting since I was born) were suddenly broken.
Just now I was decorating the tree this year thinking I have so much good in my life but I am not happy and I should try harder (I am constantly trying to improve my life.) But then I dropped an ornament and it reminded me of last year.
I work so hard for everything, but I know how easily it all falls apart and how disappointed I am. Should I see the omen of the falling ornament and stop trying to avoid disappointment? Or do I keep trying to improve my life and self?
I fear disappointment and know it will happen eventually, no matter how hard I try. Maybe I should just give up.
Any words of advice would make a huge difference in my decision.
Thanks so much
Dissapoinment is normal, no one can avoid it, so don't try. But you shouldn't give up on trying to be happier. You just to relax and chill a bit. Don't obsess over every little thing. Try to shake some things off. I'm not saying don't care, Im saying try not to care as much as you have been.
Also look at it this way: Where would we all be if nothing bad ever happened? If we never took a wrong turn? Bored to death is where we would be!
So just try to take a deep breath and relax. And try doing some things for your self. Go get a manicure and pedicure or something to help you loosten up a bit.
Hope I helped.
-Linsay
okay so there is this guy i have liked for 2 years and i would do anything for him ANYTHING. i think about him constantly and whenever he looks at me i get all excited. I talk about him all the time and I know exaclty where to sit at lunch so he can see me and i can see him. He has had a lot of recent problems with family,drugs ,gangs, and freinds and i balled my eyes out when one of his REALLY close familly memebers got sick. I care for him a lotand like i said i would do anything for him. and a lot of the times i see him i just want to run and give him a huge hug and kiss him. Do I like him or is this something more.....or am i just obsesed
You just REALLY like him. Its fine. Your not weird or anything, you just have a HUGE crush on him. I find it really sweet. Its sorta like the Cascada song, "Cause everytime we touch I get this feeling and everytime we kiss I swear I can fly." He makes you feel like, well there really is no way to say how he makes you feel, is there? So what Im saying is you really like him, you might be a little obsessed, but theres nothing wrong with that!
So I think you should tell him that you like him too. I know its hard but if he just knows what harm could it do? And if he doens't like you ask him to keep it quiet for you or something.
Hope I helped, and good luck!
-Linsay!
OK- I've went out with this guy a thousand times, and he is a great guy, but lately he has been acting really jealous. Yesterday, he got really jealous about me giving one of my bestfriends Frank (who just so happens to be my cousins boyfriend) hugs. I mean I understand getting jealous because believe me, I am defenetly the jealous type and I know that, but he has never been the jealous type, or at least he has never showed it. Anyway, this is getting kind of long, so just please help me out here.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
LeeAnna
Just talk to him. He is probably just jealous because he wants to make sure that hes your only guy. Just tell him that no matter who you hug it could never equal up to how you feel when he hugs you. Just make sure he knows hes your #1
Hope I helped
-Linsay =)
hey so i just heard this song on the radio...and its country and then only line i can remmeber is "a little more life..."
i've tried looking on google and i just can't find it.
its kind of an up beat country song if that helps...any one know what it is?
Ummm is it by a boy or girl? I.M. me or email me I will probably know it I listen to coutry my aim, msn, yim, and email address is on my column!