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playing hard to get
how do you play "hard to get"
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umm flirt and make them want more be some what mysterious idk...
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AH, I've tried to master this game
time and time again. Unfortunatley, I have
no paitence, so its very hard for me.
Playing hard to get baiscally means
you have to leave him wanting more. For example:
When he calls, let it ring several times.
When he asks you to hang out, you can
say you're busy. When he texts you, wait
several minutes before texting him.
Hang out with other guys infront
of him (Use this sparingly, if you do it
too much he'll give up) that way he'll
think you're not just falling for him at
his feet.
Always think about what you do before
you do it. Think to yourself "Will that
make me seem clingy, or a challenge"
After a while, if you really fall for him
let up a bit, and let yourself fall for him.
Good Luck <3
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don't be easy. just act like you're interested, but make it really subtle. make him chase you.
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Don't "be home" when he calls.
When he asks to get together, tell him you already have a date. If he asks about a later day, say you'll have to get back to him.
No kissing on the first date.
Flirt with other guys when he's around. Flirt with him, too, but only after he has seen you do it with others.
Don't let on that you like him. Keep him guessing.
In my opinion, it's a dangerous game to play if you're really serious about liking a guy. Just think if the shoe were on the other foot, and he was acting that way around you. "Hard to get" made more sense back when girls were divided into "good girls" and "bad girls", and they really didn't have guy friends.
If you really like a guy, please don't "play" him! gigi
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Playing hard to get is basicly putting a guy on the chase to get a girl, but the girl still likes him. This is usually used to get a guy hooked on a girl.
Its kind of hard to explain how to play hard to get, because every girl has her own way of doing it, but they all follow the same guidelines. To play hard to get, you just make the guy want more. When you flirt, say things that make him wonder what your thinking, like smile mischeviously & stuff. Also, if he asks you to call him, meet him somewhere, etc, at a certain time, be a few minutes late & say "I just forgot," or something.
Hope I helped!
-Linsay
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okay well there are many different versins that work for different people. FOr instance when he says hi to you for a second ignore him hten look up and be like " oh hey whats up" or whne your talking and hes saying sometihng be lkie " wait can you repeat that ?" or " ah im sorry i just got distudrbed what were you saying" ( but not in a mean way) and if you on aim dont IM him right away..maybe wait about 3 or 4 minutes. Im not sure if this will work for you, but it worked for me..hope i helped..peacee (:
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