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Im a Sophmore. i laugh allll the time. no lie. everything makes me laugh. i tend to fall for people to easy. i hate drama. i dont give a sh*t about your oppinion, say all you want behind my back but i would rather for you to say it in my face. im not own person and i do my things. i get really really hyper and will get on your nerves. everybody knows when im around the place. i am not stuck up. i talk to everybody and dont care if you hate me. i know how to have fun and i can be boring too. people always tell me that i make them laugh. im not smart but im not dumb either. i am a huge blonde and i will be stupid some times. my phone is my life. my family & friends come first in my life. im a really big family person. i listen to music more then i listen to anybody. i love school but not the work. if i dont like you then i wont talk to you but i wont stab you in the back. i love to take pictures. im not scared to do something. tell me what to do and ill do it. i am very very different. i am very boy crazy and everybody will tell you. i know people from all around but i dont know everybody. im not a whore or a slut.i love giving advice (: so dont listent to that rumor. i think that im a good friend because i will do anything that anybody asks me to do. i can be the worst child ever or the best. dont use me as a friend because.i love being with my friends because we always have fun. i will do the stupidest stuff that you will see. wanna know anything else? text/comment/message/im/call me(:
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THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.
He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.
This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.
The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.
And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon
He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.
Please help, I'm so scared right now.
He needs help.
If your to scared that he is going to find out because he follows you everywhere in school or something, go when your in class that you dont have with him, he wont see you go and he wont know. if you ask the counselor to NOT say anything, he/she wont. that's the only way for this that i can think of and i would do it if i didn't want him to kill himself and to stop following me and be a stalker.
My boyfriend and I are wanting to have sex but we can't really afford to buy birth control pills or condoms because neither of us have jobs. I know condoms are suppose to be cheaper but when I looked at the store it really seems like they're going to get costly in a hurry with the way we're feeling about having sex. I just cannot get pregnant so going without protection is really not an option, even if it's just in the beginning.
Is there a way I can get free condoms or free birth control? I can't tell my mom either so please don't suggest I ask her to buy them for me!
you can get both at the health department.
i live in Oklahoma and i get both for free.
i dont pay one cent on anything there and your parents dont have to know aabout it because its without parental permission. just ask a friend to take you or your boyfriend and do it. or just ask a friend for condoms or ask them to buy some. :)
I recentely started on the pill. I know that for the very first week EVER of taking the pill your not protected. But does that apply to every first week of every new pack even after the first month?
I hope this makes sense....
no it does not.
but my birth control person told me that its for the first month, so if you really wanted to be sure then dont have sex or anything for the first month.
ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.
well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored :/" iv asked about hobbies, her job, the people im freinds with who she works with, and a couple of other things. i want to start a conversation or at least get a few good questions going to spark one... i want to get to know her because shes been showing interest more and more and i dont want to seem like an uncaring ass.
you'v not failed me before i look forward to your answer's
i will submit feedback as allways. thanks
tell her that you want to hang out sometime. maybe go out to eat. you will get to know her better and youll have fun. thats my oppinion. if i was the girl then i would want you to ask me out to eat or atleast hang out somewhere fun or where ever.
ok so i took a pregnancy test out of its wrapper (which it says to do immediately before use) and took the cap off and started to pee on it but it turns out i didnt really have to pee that much and only like a drop or two came out and i dont even know if any got on the test... so i put the cap back on.. nothing showed up on the screen or anything... than i used it a few hours later and it says negative... do you think this is accurate or should i get a new one?
for your own safety, i would get another one. just in case. because it could be screwed with the first time when it didnt show up, so if i was you i would go buy another one to be sure(:
Ummm I'm 15 f and I have a bf and he wants to know when I'm going to kiss him and I told him he has to earn it first...I dont know why I told him that I guess its because I'm shy and I didnt know what else to say at the time but now he wants to know how can he earn it and to tell the truth I'm kinda nervous because if we do kiss it will be my first kiss but what do I tell him??? And where do I kiss him??? and how do I kiss him??? sorry if some of these questions sound dumb but I need to know.
i totaly understand..
i was very scared with mine too. i made up an excuse to the guy that i waited always like 3 months after we date to kiss. but now i got tired of lying and i just wanted to kiss him so bad. by me, we just stood there hugging and then he raised my head up and he leaned in so i leaned in too and i just tilted my head to the left and kissed him. its actually realy easy. it wasnt as bad as i thought. and now i actually want to kiss all the time:P.
and if you want to french kiss, then just do the same only look at his mouth when you lean in and see what he does and then do the same. thats how i do it. its really easy. i promise(:
Im am 15/f. I have had an acne problem since i was 12. i have tried almost all the products i could find.Clearasil, Proactive, cetaphil, skin id, this aveno thing, and im currently using clean and clear. ive used countless others i cant remember. my skin breaks out on my forehead, but my cheaks, nose, and chin are always so dry! what can i use to help? thank you in advance!
somewhere around last year i had really bad acne. i wore sooo much base and i just felt really ugly. ive tried proactive and neutrogena or however you spell it.. they both didnt work for me, so i got on birth control... it helps ALOT! i dont have one pimple on my face. my sister even got on birth control because she had it too and her face is clear now too. i dont wear base at all. the only thing i use is eyeliner. so you might want to try birthcontrol(:
hope i helped.
I've been trying to get birth control pills for a few days but I don't want to tell my grandma (my mom passed away and my dad lives somewhere else so I live with my grandma) I tried calling planned parenthood but they never answer. I'm allowed to stay one hour after school and I was planning on going to planned parenthood then but it's always packed. I don't know anything about my medical insurance or anything like that and I'm broke so what do I have to do to get them free? Is there any other way I can make an appointment? I tried doing it online too but it wouldn't let me make an account.
if you dont want your grandma to find out, then you could call at say lunch time in school and make an appointment. ask one of your friends to give you a ride or something. the people that work there wont say anything that you dont want them to say. its free. i have no idea what the person 2 down from me is talking about. i dont pay for mine at all. condoms are free too. when i go to get more pills, they ask if i need more condoms and if i say yes then they give me a bag. if you think your pregnant or anything and you want to take a pregnant test, they dont tell. my friend went without her parents knowing because they are very strict and she is having sex and they still dont know about it. (:
hope i helped(:
What is the age limit to buy condoms? Is it different for boys and girls or anything? Does it matter which state I live in for how old do I have to be to buy condoms?
anybody can buy condoms. but i doubt that kids around 10 will buy them. but where i live (Oklahoma) they are one dollar for one.
sorry if this is long ..
to start with there is a guy i like called jared. i have known him for months now and we have just been flirtin and hanging out together .. anyways we had a fall out last month and although we have kinda made up .. things r still rocky between us .. im not sure how to take things he says and i dont know if he likes me anymore (just after we made up he said sorry and that he really liked me) we dont talk much anymore .. he will text me and ask how am i then i reply and he doesnt respond .. but whenever i see him he is always like "laurennnn" and will try hugging and kissing me. i dont know what to do, is he thinking we should just be friends now?
Guys are confusing....but the best thing for you to do is ask him flat out. Tell him you need to know so that if he doesnt you can move on. If you dont feel like you can ask him face to face ask him through texting or online.
okay so im getin an lg cookie an i was just wundering if you could get the internet on it ??
Yes.
i had one a few months ago.
and i got internet on minee.
(:
so im a freshman at a large university in a small town 3 hours from home. i only know 1 person down here so im trying to make friends but it seems like almost everybody ALREADY has friends. i guess it's the ones who rushed, they got that instant bond or whatever. anyway. im not really shy, i'll talk to anyone anytime, but i guess i always get uneasy about approaching someone or a group because i dont want to impose on the conversation. you know those people that, when you're with your friends, it's like they just butt in and no one wants them there? yeah, that's the person i don't want to be. so a couple nights ago i met this group of guys right outside my dorm, they go out there several times a day to chill and smoke and whatever. they yelled heyy and started talkin to me on my way back in so i went and talked to them. they said i was one of the few cool/nice ppl who actually stopped to talk. a couple of them got my number and we've texted once or twice, just small talk, and another one of them stopped me outside yesterday to talk and they've called me over once more when i was with my friends. they seem pretty cool to chill with, and one is really cute and i'd love to get to know him more. he's told me we should meet up at the bar and stuff sometime [they're like 5 feet from the dorms so that's where everyone goes]. anyway, there's been a couple times where they've been sittin outside and ill walk in/out of the dorm and they dont say anything. i see them they see me and i always look at them and smile to see if they'll say anything but they dont. should i just walk over? i dont wanna be annoying or like a gnat, and it seems like everytime i see them there's more and more people, mostly guys, so idk. i guess it's just awkward. what should i do here?
Well if you see them standing in a group, dont be scared to walk to them. I would just walk up to them and sayy heeeyy. lol. If you stay out and dont bother them and never go up to them then you wont ever be real good friends with them and you wont be in the group. when i see a group of new people then i just walk up to them and start a conversation, i dont care what they think about me. Maybe they werent even talking about something important. so i would just suggest to go for it.
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Im thirteen and i have really long hair (like down to my butt!)and i've had it that way since forever, i've never had a real hair cut. Now im thinkingabout cutting it to about my shoulders but im not sure if i should
Well i have this hair cut and EVERYBODY always tells me that they love my hair and that they want the same.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_30PRmkOl4ro/SY8cBCQA7zI/AAAAAAAAJ64/w1kMKMMIfRg/s400/asian-hairstyle1.jpg
(:
im 14/male and ive been with my gf for just over 5 months and she wants to see my penis im a bit nervous my penis is almost 5 inches long is that a normal size? do girls care?
I would say that it is a normal size.
Since your 14 years old, you sould have around that size. and if your not ready for her to see it or do anything with her then you should tell her and wait. (:
why are you never on myspace anymore?oh ya i promise this is the last time im gonnna ask but will you pleazzzzzz go ou with sunny???just kidding ttyl
SNICKERS
(DAVA)
haha.
i just read this question.
it was 2 years ago when you sent me that.
lmao.
sorry.
I am a 19 year old guy who has fallen for a 16 year old girl. It is a bit strange of a situation but I really do love her. She is amazing and beautiful. I would do anything on earth to help her or to make her happy. We are not officially BF/GF, I think we are both holding ourselves back, for fear of what it would mean. I know she loves me, I don't know to what extent. I can't seem to find a good way to ask/find out either. I have never really had a girlfriend before her, although I was always very observant of others and feel I know most of what I need to about relationships. She was outgoing and I was shy so we kinda met in the middle. We fit each other very well, have a lot of the same beliefs, ect. But the fact that she is still 16 really bothers me. It's not like I want to have sex or anything, I do not agree with premarital sex, I just worry about legal things. I hate to say it but, I almost feel guilty for dating her. Like I don't deserve such a wonderful person. What is everyone's take on this?
if you really love her, then i dont think that there is anything wrong with that. but its only 3 age year defference too and thats not bad. i dated a guy that is 19 and im 14 so that is badd. (:
Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:
Sincerly
CueTheLights.
Well what i would do is..
when he is on msn, message him and talk to him and tell him that yall arent dating or that you need some time or whatever..
tell him that your not trying to hurt him or tryint to be mean its just that you need space or time to think or watever..
Or..
call him so he has to talk to you and tell him those things. or talk to him in real person or whatever..
but you gotta talk to him if you dont want to date him because you cant just let him tell everybody that yall are dating which yall arent..
i would just talk to him and tell him that your not wanting to be mean.
:))
All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!!
kay.. well it sounds like that she aint a real a real friend because a real friend would not do that.!!
what i would do is just talk to her and tell her that that is not okay with you and that your not going to be friends with her if she is going to do that..
and i would talk to your boyfriend too like tell him what is going on and that if your "best friend" says anything else to him to not to believe her because she is trying to breaek yall up because she likes him.
that is what i would do and if she was a real friend than atleast she would stop but if she dont then she aint..
and if your boyfriend really likes you then he would listen to you and believe you && not her.!
so i would talk..
I hope that i helped
:)
how do i get rid of my period for the weekened i just got it and i wanna no if there is any way 2 save my date ive been planing for a few days?
Mhmm..
there is nothing that you can do about it
but i would atleast get some midol because that helps for some or just use tampons so that it wont be badd.
(:
Ok so if I make a myspace is there anyway my parents would find out about it? They wouldn't use my computer so the little browser bar wouldn't be the problem. Its just do you think there is any other way? Thanks!
Yes..
If you just go to google.com and then type in myspace.com then there will be a link that says like myspace and then you just click on that and it wont appear in the bar thing..
But if you have the google address bar like when it shows up at the top of your internet then dont type it in there because if you type myspace.com in there it will automatically go to myspace.com and it will appear in the bar thing..
FeliciaYouHoe(: