All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!!
duckyfernanda answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 11:00 pm: Honey, this is obvious. She is NOT your friend. If she WAS your friend, she wouldnt be treating you like this. I have been in the situation where I had a crush on a friend's boyfriend; BUT i didnt want THAT to come in the middle of our friendship. I valued the friendship with HER than with some guy. She is willing to give up your friendship for a guy. Thats just the truth. Instead of feeling happy for you that you have a boyfriend that you really like, she is envious and determined to make you unhappy.
If I were you, I would make other friends. Im not saying to "ditch" her, but dont spend all your time with her. Go to the movies or invite other girls over. Its healthy to have other friends... and who knows? You might find a TRUE best friend that will be happy for instead of trying to take your joy (and boyfriend) away. It can be done, trust me. [ duckyfernanda's advice column | Ask duckyfernanda A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 9:55 pm: Tell her to back off. He's your boyfriend, and he's interested in you. If he wasn't, he wouldn't be with you, he'd be with her.
If she was a true friend, she wouldn't be doing this to you. Obviously she's really fake, so you shouldn't even be friends with her. Friends who care about you would never do what she's doing.
Mystique23 answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 9:54 pm: Well sorry to be so blunt but, Why is that girl your friend? That is NOT your friend because no friend would say something like that!
Anyone who would try to break her friend and her boyfriend up is not a good friend. I say that you should talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel about her calling him to tell him lies.
If you want you can even talk to her, and let her know that you do not appreciate what she is trying to do to you and your boyfriends relationship. If she does not understand then you might have to cut her off, because heaven forbid you and your man have problems she would try to do the same thing to you again with someone different.
It sounds to me that she is jealous of you. Bottom line, keep your distance!!!! Stay pretty, stay smart and most of all stay away from that girl!!!! Hope this help!!!! [ Mystique23's advice column | Ask Mystique23 A Question ]
JackieRose answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 6:04 pm: If you really value you her as a friend, tell her to back off. Tell her how much it hurts you and she needs to keep her thoughts to herself. If she refuses, distance yourself from her.
Oh, and talk with your boyfriend. Make sure he knows all of the craziness going down so he won't believe all of her lies :)
ShortyBug answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 4:47 pm: kay.. well it sounds like that she aint a real a real friend because a real friend would not do that.!!
what i would do is just talk to her and tell her that that is not okay with you and that your not going to be friends with her if she is going to do that..
and i would talk to your boyfriend too like tell him what is going on and that if your "best friend" says anything else to him to not to believe her because she is trying to breaek yall up because she likes him.
that is what i would do and if she was a real friend than atleast she would stop but if she dont then she aint..
and if your boyfriend really likes you then he would listen to you and believe you && not her.!
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