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Age: 18
Member Since: April 2, 2009
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Last Update: April 19, 2009
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So a couple a weeks ago my friend "M." and I had a project that we were working on together. We were working at school and I had forgotten my flashdrive so she let me borrow hers. I kept/transported the flashdrive to and from school for two days until my portion of the project was done. We finished on the third day, but I had forgotten to bring it back to school. M. said it was ok and I should just bring it the next day. Well, as it turns out I got really bad food poisoning the next day which put me out of school until the weekend. So, that weekend I called her and said I'd bring it on Monday. She was a little pissed, but I really couldn't do anything about it because I *was* throwing up all over the place. TMI, sorry. So, that weekend an uncle that I was really close to committed suicide. On Monday my mother made me stay home from school because she's the only other one in the house and didn't want to be alone at this very sensitive time. Then, the next day (Tuesday), M. left for California for Spring break. After Spring break was over, I came to school on Monday but M. was still in Cali. The next day she came back but I had to go to my uncle's funeral which was out of state.
Ok, so now I wrote a random note to Facebook about names for a pet and M. commented it in a very blunt and angry way, telling me to call her. One of my other friends was talking to me on chat (she happens to be very good friends with M.) so I asked her if M. had said anything to her about me. She said that while I was gone, M. had been telling everyone that I was deliberately holding her flashdrive hostage and that I was being bitchy about it. She also said that her mother was really mad at me too, and let me tell you, M.'s mom is NOT someone that you want to mess around with. I was so confused because I have been nothing but nice about this and have even offered to bring it to her house (an offer that she declined). All my other friends realize that I am having a really hard time right now and that I'm sort of scatter-brained. I'm also really confused because M. is also really light, bright, and happy. She's an amazing friend.
I have no idea how to handle this and I am wondering if I am at fault. What do you think I should do so M. doesn't start valuing her flashdrive at a higher level than our friendship?
Thanks for all the advice! (link)
lol wow this is funny.
"M" is stupid.

and im sorry for that stuff that happened :[


Hi. I have every Sims 2 CD for the computer except IKEA home stuff and Deluxe
Just recently, my sim kids and teenagers go to school
At 1:00pm when the teenagers come home. Around 1:05pm my game sends my sim kids in the middle of the house and fast forwards to 1:16pm everytime they go to school
Since it hasnt reatched 3pm yet, my game thinks my kids never got on the bus. So therefore they fail school and get taken by scocial workers
Its quite frusterating, since they DO get on the bus
It happeneds with EVERY new family I make
But just started about three weeks ago


How can I fix this?
Any questions you might have in order to help you determin and answer, please ask
Thankyou (link)
i would say uninstall and install :]


So, apparently our phone number belonged to quite a few people before we received it. We got this number three years ago and we still get AT LEAST 5 calls a day for various other names. We tell the telemarketers to take us off the list and they still call. For example, we opened an account at the local movie rental store and there is a list of six other people with this number! this has been going on for 3 years and still a steady amount of calls not for us are coming in. Please help me resolve this annoying problem! (link)
i have a very good solution..
CHANGE YOUR NUMBER! :]


I'm going to a club, and I've never been to one before. I was wondering, how many 1's do I take? I don't want to run out, but I also don't want to show up with a ridiculous amount of money lol. I was thinking 20-30 at most? (link)
i wouldnt waste my money on that! :]


Hey I have this Tommy Hilfiger long sleeved shirt (100% cotton) and I accidentally stretched it out because I kept pulling it when it was wet. Is there ANY way to unstretch it? THANKS! (link)
wet it again & put it in the dryer :]
for a while.. lol it will shrink!


All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!! (link)
tell her to F*CK OFF! and thats not a friend.
thats a W*ORE. I would so kick her A*s lol.
But yeah you need to let her know that what shes doing is super wrong and that she needs to respect not only you and your boyfriend but herself. Like seriously? What kind of friend is that? And tell him not to answer her calls so she can know that he doesnt want her !

shes desperate!


I really dont know how to tell my boyfriend I love him...honestly, I dont want to be the first one to say it, but i really want him to know i do. (link)
dont be nervous! love is a beautiful thing :]
just tell him how you feel! im sure he feels the same. me and my bf have been together for 8 months too :) i told him first.. so what!? :D


ok i'm 17/f and a virgin.
but every time my boyfriend comes over or i'm around him for long periods of time, it feels like my vagina sweats. and my underwear is wet when i go to the bathroom to check and see if my period came early or something. sometimes there's tons of clear discharge too. is this normal? it's always worse right after we've made out a whole lot, like i got kinda turned on or something. what causes this and is this normal for girls?
thanks! (link)
lol this happens to me all the time..
specially wen we make out and stuff
that just means ur turned on.. and u wanna do it! :]

see.. guys get hard.. and we get wet
yay! :]


I'm 15/F. And i'm dating a guy who is 17. We've been dating for 2 months now, and he's starting to talk about wanting to have sex. I'm still a virgin, and i'm scared to death. I told him I didn't think I was ready yet, and he got kind of aggravated, and said, "that's okay, that's not what i'm in this relationship for anyway" And he's been mentioning it more and more. Any Advice for if i do decide to have sex with him? Or anything else i should do?
I really don't want to lose him. (link)
Keep telling him that you are not ready.
If he keeps talking about it then obviously thats what he wants in the relationship. 2 months its wayy to soon for that anyway and you are only 15. Sex isnt the best thing in the world. I mean like yea come on it feels good and what not but think about the consequences.. You can get pregnant. And you can get hiv/aids herpes and all that nasty stuff. How do you know hes clean?
("oh he told me hes clean") Nope! do not trust him. Tell him to go get checked before anything.
Dont make a mistake.. Just to keep him by yourside. If he wants sex then tell him to go with another girl who doesnt care. :]
ANdd your parents would probably kill you && him. so think about being grounded for ever! lol


So has anyone else noticed that on all of the relationship questions on here everyone makes it sound like their relationship is perfect??? I do it to but i wonder if everyone feels the same or if they are just lying so everything sounds like its great when its really not if that makes any sense... (link)
lol mine isnt so perfect!
i dont even wanna write about it
:[


Hi. Im 13 And Yes You Could Say Thats Young Buh I Found Lovee. Me And This Guy Were Together For 9 Months. But One Of My Best Friends Liked/Loved Him. I Tried To Ignore Herr And Be Happy But On Friday 13th Feb. She Asked Mee To Dump Him And Yes The Next Day Was Valentines Dayy. I Cried Buckets! My Heart Was Broken. So Me And Him Told Eacother We Will Always Love Eachother. NNow 1 Month On And Him And My Best Mate Are Together. In School I See Them Happy Ectt...Not Long Agoo Me And Him Sat Down And Talked. He Sed That I Will Always Be iN His Heart. And As Im Leaving My School To Go To A New One He Said Hes Ganna Miss Mee. I Miss Himmm Sooo Muchh I Lovee Him... Help Mee Get Over Him. :( x (link)
you shouldnt have broken up with him just because she told you to. if you still love him and want to be with him go talk to him and tell him..Your friend was just jealous :[

And by the way; its probably not love.
You just like him alot... Its more like
an obsession. =/

You are only 13 you still have forever to find "THE ONE" :]




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