Can being fingered or oral sex delay my period?
I'm 16 and started last June so about 7-8 months ago. I have been fingered etc throughout February and march most weekends, I have not had sex. I haven't had a period since end of January and I'm getting a bit worried now. I've also recently had a kidney infection if this will impact me at all.
Please help
Well honey I am pretty sure that being fingered and having oral sex does not delay your period. On the other hand, having a kidney infection can. Due to the antibiotics and other forms meds. See, when the body is trying to fight and infection its hormones gets of balanced and that sort of disrupts the natural order of things. So how about letting your body fully recover and restore itself and everything should go back to the way it was. If it does not then you should consult your doctor. Also, please be careful with any sexual act that you do. If you have any more questions feel free to ask them. GOD Bless!!!
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my gf period has nt statrd yet, it was due on 27 sep and i fingered her after masturbating but i washed and cleaned my hands, on 27 sep and its 15 dys now her period hve nt started yet, can she become pregnent and why is the delay???
The chances of that being a possibility are very very slim. See sperm predominantly survives in bodily fluid. What you have described to me seems like there is the lowest of low possibility that your girlfriend is pregnant, especially if it was just masturbation and fingering. Not getting your period does not always mean pregnancy. Her hormones can be changing, as most women bodies do from time to time. If she is athletic that can play a part too. And finally, stress can be a huge factor in missed periods. Period cycles sometime change without warning. If you guys did not have actual sex then that most likely is the reason. If you feel strongly about maybe she should visit the doctor, it can be hormones or stress.
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can oral sex delay periods,ma gf n i indulge in oral sex on 14th feb bt she had nt got til 27 her date was till 25th plz rply vry fst
I am from India
No, oral sex does not delay your period. Worrying and stressing can. Sometimes a womans period changes cycles for many reasons. If she is stressed out or worrying that can definitely do it. Also exercising and being very athletic can do that too.
I hope that I answered your question!! : )
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I was fingered by my boyfriend in July. He fingered me through my pants though and I want to know if it affects a girl's body? I was 15 at the time I just turned 16 a few months ago. You can only lose your virginity if a boy's penis was in you ?
Well, your heyman (thing that makes a girl bleed when she looses her virginity) can be broken from so many normal activities. Such as riding a bike and exercising. A lot of girls have already broken their hymen by non-sexual contact.
Now that I have explained the scientific portion to you you, here is the rest. I am pretty sure that being fingered through your pants is not anything to be concerned about. Yes, loosing your virginity consists of having traditional sexual intercourse (penis to vagina penetration).
Now, sex is something that will always be there. Don't do anything that you are going to regret. It is o.k. to wait. It is o.k. to be a virgin. And if you are not a virgin, just because you had sex before, does not mean you need to do it again. I am sure that you are pretty and smart. Stay that way, GOD BLESS!!!!
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
Well honey, I understand what you are going through!! The truth is if you want him to be honest, you have to be honest too!! If this bothers you then you are going to have to talk to him about it wholeheartedly. Tell him about what you saw or read and tell him how it makes you feel. Let him know that although you love him, this is your relationship too and there are certain things that you think should be private about it.
I think that you should let him know that you did not mean to pry, but you saw what you saw and it bugged you.
Now, as for him hiding it from you after he found out that you saw it. i think that you are right to be suspicious. After you ask him about it, if he denies any wrong doing say " honey(or whatever pet name you call him), I understand that you say it was not a big deal but if you did nothing wrong then why are you hiding it from me all of a sudden? this make me feel really bad, you don't know how much you are hurting me"
Now what I am about to tell you is for you and only you. This section has nothing to do with him. If you can't handle the suspicion and the potential lies, GET OUT!!! Do not stay in a relationship with someone you cannot trust. You are too smart for that. Don't sit around waiting for any guy to change. I honestly feel that this is a sign to not waste your time. Tell him how you really feel, put it all out. And if he does not respect the boundaries of your relationship after that then LEAVE!!! Empower yourself!!
GOD Bless you!!!
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Hi, for starters I am a female of age 17. Over the past few months I think I have gone into depression. I am very unhappy with my life and I try to stay positive. I feel miserable, I was once such a strong girl. I am constantly brought down by another female, and I'm not the type of person to get involved in drama. I despise it, and the only reason why she brings me down is because she likes my ex boyfriend. Which kind of she was one of the reasons why I had to let go, because I can't deal with her flirting with him, etc. I have no one to talk to about feeling down because I don't want it to be just another guy story. I want to let go of all this baggage, but I can't because I am constantly talked about. My question here is what makes you happy? I need things to distract myself and not feel alone. I want genuine and positive people around me, a sense of support.
Well honey, I can see how that would make you unhappy. i say take all of those experiences and start a blog!!!! You can start one about fashion, about your favourite places to eat. Maybe even about what good book you read lately. Blog about upcoming events in your school and get your friends to subscribe. Soon you will have the whole school buzzing about your blog. Please, please do not make it a hate blog!!! be classy about it and all good things will come from your words!!!!
When people see that you are not paying any attention to those who talk about you, then they will realize that the ones who are mean to you are just jealous!!! Keep your head up my friend. If you need someone to subscribe to your blog just give me a shout, i will subscribe!!! GOD Bless you!!!!
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My bf fingered me 5 times this month. It was my first experience, I have never been fingered before. My period is due to in 1 day and I have no signs of it (i.e. sore breast).
My question is, can being fingered delay my period or miss it? I'm asking as I have never been fingered. Tell me pls.
Thanks
Sorry for taking so long to answer. No fingering yourself cannot delay your period. Sex can and so can being on the pill.
Some times your body go through some changes, and your period may not come exactly when you expect it to come. i am sure by now it came.
Also for future reference, if you decide to let your boyfriend finger you, do not be afraid to tell him that it is too rough if it is.
I hope that this helps, GOD bless!!!!
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well my friends are kinda weird.
i was bullied for 5 years and these 2 guys, which we will call, JA and AL.
well both of them are still mean.
but all my frineds still hang out with them and so im left to sit on my own.
everyday.
any suggestions will be acepted
Sweet heart if your friends leave you out when they are hanging around these guys then they are not great friends.
I mean you can't tell your friends who they can and cannot hang out with, but good friends would try to include you. I would not leave my friend out of the equation.
I think that you have a lot to offer and you should not settle for people who want to be your friend sometimes. If you have any friends besides the ones that leave you out I say give them a shot. And if you don't, I am sure that you will get some, just be patient.
I hope that this helps!!!
P.S. i will be your friend :)
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i like girls and she like girls too.but because i'm a girl my friends think i'm mad but i dont have feelings for boys.so what to do???
Thank you for being more specific. I think that this is your preference and your friends should accept you for who you are. They like boys and I am sure you don't call them crazy. i think that you should be yourself, if your friends don't like that then you need new friends.
If you ever feel a certain way then pray to GOD. God loves everyone, and I do mean everyone. I hope that this helps!!!
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We are expecting our first child and need baby name help. My husband and I have chosen not to find out the sex of our baby until he/she has been born. We have some names we like, but we aren't 100% sure on any of them. We thought maybe someone could suggest some that they really enjoy and let us know what they thought about some of ours.
Baby names we like so far...
Baby boy names:
Michael David
John Patrick
James Paul
David Austin
Baby girl names:
Grace Anne
Madison Faith
Anna-Claire
Elisa Grace
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
We like sweet, old-fashioned names, and traditional names mainly.
Thank you.
Congrats on your baby!!!! Hope that he/she is healthy, beautiful, smart and perfect!!!!!
For Girls
-Patricia-Rose
-Jenna-Leigh
-Olivia
-Morgan-Kennedy
For Boys
-Grason-Adam
-Joshua-Thomas
-Timothy-Leighton
-D'metry
-Maximillian
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hi i'm in love with a girl but my friends keep telling me to stop liking her cuz i'm a girl.so wa to do?
Well honey, if the girl is straight then I am afraid you may have yo leave her alone. You don't want to offend or put anyone in an awkward position.
Most people are not too happy when someone imposes their sexuality on them.
I hope that this helps!!!
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I am 13, and alot of people say I might be lesbian. I have nothing wrong with it I accept it completely, but, the thing is I do not really know if I am. How can I be sure?
I am attracted to my friends that are girls, but, maybe it is normal at this age.
(By the way: Thanks to the answer last time it helped!= the 13 year old girl from last time)
-Naiomi. N.
Honestly, if you are completely NOT attracted to men then you are a lesbian. If you say that you are o.k. with it, then feel secure with yourself.
Before you go accepting being a lesbian, think "is there any reason you don't like men" Did anything happen to you where you decided that you did not want to date them anymore? If not and you simply just like women then yes you are a lesbian.
If you feel a certain way about it then you can pray to GOD. Yes GOD, He helps with any and everything. All you have to do is believe. And just so you know GOD loves everyone!!!!!
Hope that this helps, If you have any other Questions you can contact me!!!
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Hello, I am a 13 year-old girl, and I do not like guys. The feelings I have are only for my friends that are girls.(They are not love feelings; the feelings are just I do not want a guy to hurt you in anyway so please date me instead.-sounds weird coming from a girl I know!-)When I was younger I would date them, to hide from all of my friends what my emotions, are.
I do not even have the slightest attraction to them, but, the same goes with Women.
Also, I do not want a crush or a "love".
I would rather die, am I immature?
I do not think they have cuties it is just I...I actually do not know why.
(By the way I am a young-lady)
Well honey, you are not immature. People go through different stages at different times in their lives. Sometimes you have a crush and you don't. Sounds to me that you are a bit confused.
The fact that you don't want guys to hurt your friends is a very noble, but wanting to date them might be an indication of something else. You also stated that you are not attracted guys or girls so that is also another indication of something.
In all honesty, saying that you don't want guys to hurt your friends sounds like you had a terrible experience with a guy(s) and since your friends (who are females) were kind to you, you are now gravitating towards them.
One thing is, you might be a lesbian. But since you say that you are not attracted to male and females then you might be what is called a-sexual. A-sexual people are people who are not attracted to the opposite and same sex. you might want to do more research on this and see for yourself. Another thing is you can have your hormone levels checked. If you are low on estrogen and other feminine hormones it can alter that way you feel about certain things and certain situation.
One thing that seemed to work is prayer (believe it or not). With GOD all things are possible!! Even sexual clarity. Trust in GOD,ask him for guidance and believe that he has worked it all out.
You are thirteen, you have your whole life ahead of you to have crushes and feelings. Give it sometime, with prayer and belief you might be surprised how things can turn around!!!!
I hope that this helps, if you have any other questions, just message me again. GOD Bless You!!!!
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When performing foreplay with the clothes on, can you get pregnant??
Well by foreplay what do you mean? It depends on what you call foreplay.
If there is absolutely no genital to genital intercourse then the rough answer is no. But you have to be more specific. You can choose to keep the questions you ask me private if you like.
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So, my bf and I were lying on the bed side by side facing each other and we were hugging etc. with our clothes on and he had an orgasm and I don't know if he had ejaculated. If he had so, could sperm go through clothes? He had boxers and a pair of jeans and I had underwear and shorts.
Then I went to the bathroom and I found that my underwear was wet with discharge. Could it be sperm or just discharge as I was sexually aroused?
Well, studies show that sperm traveling through clothes is highly unlikely. It is possible, but unlikely. The discharge most likely came from you because you were (i am assuming) turned on.
I don't think that your period missing has anything to with what you and your boyfriend did, thus far. As we grow up our bodies change, and so could our cycle. Maybe you are stressing out about certain things. Try to take it easy. Consult your doctor if you think that it is serious.
I will tell you, that the thinner material you are wearing the higher the risk of pregnancy. Sperm can live outside of the body for several hours, but it can't live for more than a day. It also can't live very long in climates that are not body temperature. If both of you had on clothes, meaning underwear and pants. Then the possibility of pregnancy is slim to none.
There are so many ways you can get pregnant easily, dry humping with clothes on (if that is what you mean by "etc")is not one of them.
Hope that this helps!!!! GOD Bless!!
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Hi, it's me again, the one I asked about my late period and you replied. I'm worrying about my period because still didn't come, is 3 days late now. When I touch my breast hurts me.
As I sad before, I didn't have sex, my bf just touched my vagina with my clothes on even he had clothes on. If he had an orgasm, sperm couldn't enter my vagina through clothes right? If I worry, it will delay more right? What can I do to not worry about it??
Sorry for asking the second time, but I'm worried. I would appreciate if you reply!!
Thanks.
Well this all depends, are you under a lot of stress lately? Are you taking birth control? Are you very athletic? Did you drastically change your diet?
All these things, along with age can affect the cycle of ones period. The longer you are with out your period, the greater the chance of being pregnant. Stress takes a huge toll on ones period.
Since you said that you and your boyfriend had clothes on, it is HIGHLY unlikely that you are pregnant. Studies show that sperm cannot travel threw clothes. You might have a high anxiety level, and that can definitely delay a menstrual cycle.
Take it easy, if you don't see it for more than a week then consult your doctor((s)he might tell you that you are stressed). I hope that this helps!!! GOD bless!!!
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Hey umm i have this problem...im not a bad looking guy not that that matters and im very well equipped sexualy..but for the whole of my life every time i have been in the position to have sex i always back out..i start thinking too much and questioning whither or not i love the girl and i just back out, im the only 18 year old i know that hasent had sex...my question to you is: What do you think i should do and why am i so afraid to go all the way?
"Awaiting your answer"=Mr.Fantastic=
There is nothing wrong with you, you are one of the few guys who think before sex. That is very noble. Many men believe that sex is something that should be done just to be done, but you actually think before you act. There is also nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18. If there were more men like you the world would be a better place. I think that is so amazing!!!!
P.S. you totally scored points with me!!!
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This whole year, I haven't liked one guy. (And I mean loved one) I've only had a series of crushes. I'd think a guy is cute or something, usually wouldn't talk to him, and then get over it. I'd barely know him, too. At the end of the year, I started talking to a guy that I had a little crush on, and I got to know him better. He was actually really nice and quircky. Then, school ended and I haven't talked to him since. I don't have his number and he doesn't have a facebook or anything. I don't get it, how come I don't love anyone? Am I weird for not liking anyone? I want to be in love and feel love Is it because I don't love myself, so then I have no love to give? What's wrong with me?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Not everyone have crushes on people the same way. Maybe you just feel like you know what limit to take your feelings for someone to. Maybe in your head you automatically assume that not much can come out of your feelings for that person so you try not to take the feelings to far.
There are other people who crush way to hard, even to an unhealthy point. Say thank GOD that you are not one of those people who gets attached to and obsessed with every guy you meet.
Ask yourself, "how much do I love me?" If you love yourself enough then you should have no problem liking anyone. I don't think you have anything to worry about, trust me on this a crush and love are two different things. Maybe you are not the crush type, maybe you are the LOVE type. Love beats a crush any day.
Feel better about yourself, love yourself. You are fabulous!!!! Hope that this helps!!!
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I am a 20 year old History undergraduate and I feel like my life is falling apart. The past two months have been very difficult from being filled with my stupidity. I found out I was pregnant mid-March and had an abortion two weeks ago and the guilt is eating me up. I keep reliving the experience in my dreams, or, worse, I dream that I am still pregnant and wake up hopelessly disappointed (I am regretting this decision so much). I was supposed to take a pregnancy test on Friday to confirm that I am no longer pregnant and I can't bring myself to do it because I'm scared of seeing the negative result. My boyfriend resents me heavily for the choice and so refuses to talk about it with me, but I completely understand I can't say I would react any differently now. My parents were so strongly for the abortion that I don't want to tell them how I'm feeling now that it's been done.
I initially felt I made the right choice: I'm too young; I have no family who could help me because my only relatives (my parents) moved (as already planned) to Saudi Arabia a week after my abortion; I have no money; and my boyfriend is leaving to study in California at the end of this semester. Now, though, I feel it was a selfish thing to do. I took another life for my convince, really, when I could have just given the baby up if I couldn't actually care for it. I know people who had children younger than I am now and who coped marvelously. I murdered and it is haunting me.
Not only this, but around the time I discovered I was pregnant, I had a flare up of Ulcerative Colitis (I was diagnosed age 16 and had been previously without symptoms for 2 years). The illness greatly affects my general feeling of well-being and I am too embarrassed to tell my friends so they just don't understand. I feel entirely alone and isolated with this entire thing, especially now that I have two "secrets" to hide from my friends (I am so embarrassed for having the abortion). I'm in a total rut that I can't seem to drag myself out of. I have a history of self-harm and I refuse to resort to that but it's getting so much harder to resist. I feel like I have no one to talk to who can understand that what I did was horrible and not hate me for it.
I have exams starting tomorrow that, as a result of the events of the past few weeks, I am ill prepared for and I just don't know how to cope with any of this. I want to stay in bed forever and never get up. I wish it never happened. Please, please help me...
Well, I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a hard time. My fist words to you is FORGIVE YOURSELF. I know that it was a big decision for you and a hard one, but you have to understand that there are so many people who make such tough choices.
The first step is to take the pregnancy test. The second is to talk to your boyfriend, let him know how hard it was for you to do what you did and how it is affecting you now ( really talk to him don't be afraid to cry. show your true emotions).
Forgive yourself honey, at least try to. GOD forgives us for our sins and transgressions. There is no big and small sin in his eyes. Ask GOD to forgive you (if you haven't already), and once you do, and mean it sincerely HE will forgive you. And you can begin the process of forgiving yourself.
I hope that this helps you out. Stay strong!!!!
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For my 17th birthday my best friend made a scrap book of our lives and she had a custom picture frame made that was engraved with our names and nick names for each other and they are the two most treasured things I own.
Now in June it'll be her 17th birthday and I am clueless as to what to get her. Last year I had her present planned out by January. And she's been through a lot this year and I really want to get her something special and at the end of the year I'll be moving out of state and might not be here for her next birthday.
A little about her:
she's the strongest person i've ever met
loves lacrosse
ben&jerry's ice cream
marine biology
eco-friendly things
books about classic romances (like the notebook)
she likes elephants
sour patch kids
lillies
the beach
Thanks a bunch!
If your friend likes charm bracelets you can get her one. You can put charms of her favourite things.
For example you can get her:
a icecream cone charm for the ben&jerry's
a dolphin for the marine biology
a recycle symbol for the eco-friendly things
a book charm for the books she likes
a elephant
a flip flop for the beach
The good things about charm bracelets is that you can add things as you go along through life.
Don't forget to get a best friends for ever charm!!
Hope that this helped!!!!!
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