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feeling alone
Hi, for starters I am a female of age 17. Over the past few months I think I have gone into depression. I am very unhappy with my life and I try to stay positive. I feel miserable, I was once such a strong girl. I am constantly brought down by another female, and I'm not the type of person to get involved in drama. I despise it, and the only reason why she brings me down is because she likes my ex boyfriend. Which kind of she was one of the reasons why I had to let go, because I can't deal with her flirting with him, etc. I have no one to talk to about feeling down because I don't want it to be just another guy story. I want to let go of all this baggage, but I can't because I am constantly talked about. My question here is what makes you happy? I need things to distract myself and not feel alone. I want genuine and positive people around me, a sense of support.
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First of all, don't listen to what anyone has to say about you. Push all that negative talk aside, and as for the flirty girl, let her flirt all she wants. After all, that's all she can do. Don't take her as a threat. She can only hurt you as much as you let her.
To bring your mood up, I suggest hanging out with your friends, just have fun and act out crazy (in a healthy way :P ) And consider talking about your current problems to someone you consider close to you. This can really help you by letting out any harsh feelings you're building up inside. You'll feel their support and they might give you some helpful advice as well.
Take Care and I Hope My Advice Helps :)
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ok i will probbly sound rude on this one but i dont want to appear that way... first off why do you put up with that other girls CRAP??? tell her to f*ck off... go and get your man back! he was yours and if he reallly cared about you he wouldnt even talk to her. you probbly broke up for a stupid reason anyway right? go make up tell him to stay away from that chick by any means nesseccery. and you also shouldnt care what other people thin kthe only reason they talk about you is because they have no life and thats all they have to do. they are pathetic.hey yif yyou need help with anything involving other people, and i didnt just tick you off ask me for more help with this... i can tell you how to do this.
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Well honey, I can see how that would make you unhappy. i say take all of those experiences and start a blog!!!! You can start one about fashion, about your favourite places to eat. Maybe even about what good book you read lately. Blog about upcoming events in your school and get your friends to subscribe. Soon you will have the whole school buzzing about your blog. Please, please do not make it a hate blog!!! be classy about it and all good things will come from your words!!!!
When people see that you are not paying any attention to those who talk about you, then they will realize that the ones who are mean to you are just jealous!!! Keep your head up my friend. If you need someone to subscribe to your blog just give me a shout, i will subscribe!!! GOD Bless you!!!!
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