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Dating the "help". Is that appropriate?
So I went shopping at bloomingdales the other day and I got a new bloomingdales personal shopper. My old one got transfered off to a different store and as sad as I was, my new one is TOTALLY freaking gorgeous, delicious, and BLAH. I was actually taken aback by his handsomeness. Oh god, I sound like a such a creeper! But anyways, so he was totally helpful and super friendly with me and I ended up picking out a great dress! He made lots of small talk with me (asking me questions, etc) and smiling at me... so as he's checking out my dress... he gives me his PERSONAL phone number! As in his CELL PHONE number!!! He said that if I needed anything, I should call him. I don't know if he was suggesting that he likes me but I'm definitely into him! I'm tempted to call him and ask him to this party I'm going to but the thing is... he's fresh out of college and I'm just starting college. What do you think I should do? Is he too old for me?
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he is doing a job...if the plumber was hot would you want him too? he could report you for sexual harrassment and that not good at all..let it go...
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he could have just been trying to be really helpful! you might also want to keep in mind that he might be gay.. (not to stereotype but a lot of men who work in the fashion industry are). i would wait until you've talked to him in person again to decide if you should make a move or not.
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It's only inappropriate if you keep calling him ‘the help’.
Also, you might want to consider the possibility that he was in fact just doing his job very well, and might even loose that job if it was discovered he tried to pick you up at work.
Just things to keep in mind.
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he's not to old for you but dont seem to pushy or needy. give him a call but make it casual then after you've talked for a while simply ask him if he would like to go to the party with you
hope this helps
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