Member Since: July 26, 2010
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im afraid to ask my love ones if im depressed... but i guess i am becuase well three years ago my mom died when i was 13...and i feel sad all the time and i miss her badly...my dad remarried four months after my mom died and omg! she is the worst step mother ever! she always trying to muniputlate me its terrible but i guess i learned to live with it...but shes not the problem i think...the last days of school my friends got mad at me becuase i couldnt go hang out with them one day so they treated me badly on the last days of school and now i feel alone and hurt...all summer i was dredding to go back to school becuase i think i would have to make new friends so my step mother was giving me a hard time about it and my dad is planning to divorce her after i graduate so that helps...but now i dont want to deal with anything anymore...at these times i wish my mom was here to comfort me and give me advice...so i have been missing her terribly and pretty sad about it all summer and now i dont wanna deal with highschool anymore and i feel like the only way out of all this is dieing...but i dont have the guts to do it thank god!but is all these things signs of depression? im 16 and a girl so maybe its emotional problems...but im pretty stressed out about all this.. (link)
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i agree with Trauma(the other answer)
dont end your life and it would be the very best option to talk to someone you trust completely
you will always have some special friend somewhere you just have to find him/her
and dont forget that even though your mom is gone she will always be in your heart and your mind so dont give up on life maybe sign up for a sport to let your emotions out
i hope this really helps
p.s.
you always have people who love you and even though your dad remarried he can still be your very best friend :)
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so me and my friend are having a bonfire. we go to different colleges so we have different friends. one of her friends i think is soo attractive and i really want to get to know him. he's coming but how can i flirt and let him know i'm interested but without coming on too strong? i've been told i'm really laidback and chill but i do get really nervous when i really like someone. i know obviously to be myself, i'm not fake. but can anyone just give me a few pointers? it would help alot and make me feel less nervous:) (link)
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ok first before he gets there take deep breaths and try to relax do that even after he is there but make sure he doesnt notice (its a well known fact that if you drink a tiny bit of alcoholic drink you can relax) i myself havent tested that but it might work anyway
use the sexiest voice you can when your talking to him but dont sound ridiculous.
eye contact is very important but dont stare
deep breathes of course
wear something hot but not too revealing
ask him about himself unless he asks you about you
be modest
if you think he likes you back after talking and you think he would kiss you back then while he's talking look at his lips. if he's smart he will know what you want if he looks at you but he is not talking then lean in very very slowly but make sure he is leaning in to before you actually kiss him
hope this helps
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i've been with my boyfriend for awhile now. our relationship hasnt always been easy but we always talk and work things out.i love him more than anything and id take a bullet for him any day of the week.people always say that theres no way we can be together through high school and college because people change which i get.is it possible that we could actually last through college and get married? (link)
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Now of course people change for better or worse but if you love him as much as you say you do then you will still love him when he changes so YES your relationship can last that long good luck
hope this helps :)
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Lets call him Austin. Austin and I were in the same homeroom this past year and have gotten really close. I really like him, and he told me I was "at the top of his list" of girls he likes. Hes been flirting a mad lot with me the past few days and we're hanging out tomorrow! I'm super nervous but excited too. We aren't going out yet, but I have a feeling he will ask me out some point tomorrow. I do want to kiss him tomorrow, but how will I be able to lead up to that point?
Help me! Please!!! (link)
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ok listen very carefully!
when you are talking if he is looking at your face alot and then looks at your lips he wants to kiss you
so if you see him doing that and neither one of you is talking lean in slowly but move so slowly that you will be able to see if he is going to lean in for a kiss. if he does then BAM!!!!!!!!!!!!! kissing time lol
hope this helps
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I am having my sweet sixteen in my back yard. I didn't like the idea at first but it made me think about all of the fun things I can put in my back yard, from saving the money of renting a place out. I want a chocolate fountain, with strawberries, pretzels, marshmallows, all that jazz. I think I want like virgin pina colada's and strawberry daiquiris made, anything else you can think of that's fun? Some smoothies? Uh, with music, I'll just bring my ipod and speakers out. I think my friend and I are going to make a poster board of me through out the years. I want this is to be very inexpensive but SOOO much fun! This is where you guys come in. For food? What should I use? Finger foods, little sandwiches? Um, for tables, what should I put on the tables? I don't even know the theme. Help me think of a theme to name this, as well. HELPPPP! Thanks! (link)
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ok so you might not them idk but here are some themes and ideas
1.Sweet Life Sweet 16 (you could have alot of sweets)
2.Masquerade Ball (thats when everybody wheres a mask)
3.Sweet Memories (you could have alot of stuff from your childhhood maybe make a slideshow)
4.Black and White(the name says it all)
Instead of doing an actual theme you could just tell everybody to wear certain colors maybe your favorite colors?
hope this helps
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i went to the beach monday and tuesday and a water park wednesday so i was exposed to the sun quite a lot and i got sunburnt badly on my nose. so i was wondering how to reduce the redness because i hate a concert saturday and i really don't want to look like rudolf the red nose reindeer. thanks! (link)
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well when i got sunburn my mom put cocoa butter on it so just put some on the spot and leave it there if it comes on keep replacing it do that until the sunburn goes away KEEP REPLACING IT EVEN AT NIGHT
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16/F so this might be a dumb question, i dont know, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and we had had sex earlier but he didn't go inside me or anything but than later i gave him a hand job and it went every where and i was on top of him and some could have gone in me... so i don't know if that could be bad. but i am on birth control. so could you help? (link)
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i dont think your pregnant but if you want to make sure buy a pregnancy test
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I'm a 21 year-old mother of a three year-old and a one year-old. My 3 year old has a problem following orders and as much as we punish her and hit her, I'm ashamed to say, she still won't listen. She has no hearing problems she's just disobedient. I don't want her to feel left out cause of her brother and I defenately don want to continue hitting her but I will not allow her to have her way with everything. My husband and I fight about this so much and I need to know what can I do to solve this problem. Please help???!!! (link)
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i absolutely agree with beepeetee however i also think that maybe a time-out or keeping them in during fun activities would be very effective
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what are some songs about getting hurt again.
I finally started to open up to my friend after a bad break up..8 months later. this new guy made me feel good again..now's he ignoring me and i can't believe i even opened up to someone. i hate talking about feelings..so i need a song (link)
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it kinda depends on what kind of feelings your talking about if your talking about good nice sweet feelings then you should try Crazier by Taylor Swift but if you mean angry feelings i cant help you with that
hope this helps alittle
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I usually don't buy any articles of clothing over $20 (I bought a $25 pair of shorts before though). This is for everyday clothes and not dresses for wedding and stuff.
Well I went to Ricki's today (such an expensive store!) and bought a beautiful pair of black pants (I always wanted a nice pair of black pants because when I go to a formal event and I'm always venting out to my friends on what to wear, they always tell me black pants and a nice top but I only have black jeans that could be considered black pants. And Suzy Shier has lots but I don't like the material of any; too itchy). I hate shopping but today I went insane and if I didn't bring $70, I would have bought all three pairs!
I bought my favourite one of the three, each was the same price, $49.50 but with tax the total was $55.94 (yikes!) but I got it anyway because I thought it was an essential piece.
From what I've mentioned above, this is more than I spent. Do you think I made a good decision? I didn't even think about that until my friend questioned me! (link)
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maybe next time you should save money for a while then when you have at least 100 bucks you should go on a shopping spree (thats what i do) if you truely needed those pants then it was ok
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past week. I let him cum inside me every time because of something he told me before. I mentioned this to my friend and she told me that he lied.
If you pee right after you have sex can you still get pregnant? My boyfriend told me that a girl who pees directly after intercourse can NOT get pregnant no matter what because everything is released into the toilet then and is like washed away. It sounded very convincing when he said it but when I was telling my friend it kind of sounded like he was just using me and that I'm stupid. What's the truth? (link)
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you arent stupid but i think maybe your boyfriend isnt the smartest person you've been with (no offense) and peeing after you have sex has absolutly nothing to do with getting pregnant your friend was right and your boyfriend well... you should sign him up for sex education class lol
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13/f
Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
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im sorry to say you had sex with all those boys and that man that was your dad's friend but having sex DOES NOT make your boobs grow you just have to be patient and all those guys who say they want to help you are using you to have sex sorry
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ok so my dads bday is in november and my friends being in october. so i dont know what to get them help
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since their bdays arent for a few months try to find out what they like then if you find it in a store or if you can make it then it will be the most perfect gift for that person
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Okay, so I'm desperate for someone's opinion right now. I recently, on July 12, had sexual contact with someone who I really shouldn't have. If I were to get pregnant, the world might explode and my partner and I would be exiled from our families.
So, here's what happened: we did everything, except we did not have sex. However, there was a point where he was on top of me and (I was wearing yoga pants and underwear,) but he pushed himself right into my vagina. I mean, he didn't go inside me, but he was pretty close to it. He might have a little bit, but not much at all. He was attempting to grind into me since we couldn't actually have sex. (He had no condom with him.) And when this happened, it freaked me out a little, so after like thirty seconds or so, I changed positions with him so that he was not doing that. To be honest, I didn't think much of it at all, until now, July 23. About two nights ago, I got a major head ache and some side cramps. The next day, today, I had intense side pains and just a little bit of a head ache when I woke up in the morning. My back hurt really bad, so I took an Aleve. It seemed to somewhat work. Later tonight, I had very minor side pains and lower abdomenal cramps. However, about two or three hours ago, I noticed my body temperature felt hot, but I was cold. I took my temp and got a response of 100. So I definitely had a fever. I haven't taken anything for it. I typed my symptoms into google and got "early pregnancy symptoms." So, of course, I began freaking out and remembered that night where I had sexual contact.
Basically, what I am asking is, do you think I am pregnant. Remember, I was wearing yoga pants.
Should I buy a pregnancy test, or am I freaking out for nothing. Please, please help me. Because if I am pregnant, some serious shit could go down and everyone's lives will be fucked up.
I'm sorry if I sound stupid. I just need someone to calm me down. Just don't lie to me. I'm hoping I am just catching a virus or something.
Thank you in advance! (link)
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first you really dont sound stupid you sound worried... since your scared to tell your parents go to a store and get 3 pregnancy tests just to be sure after that if you are you have to tell somebody
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I have this light brown cum looking stuff coming out of my vagina. i just finished my period 2 days ago and ever since then, every once in a while it comes out. i haven't had sex for over a week because of my period so i dont know what it is, before i got my period that same day i had sex and one week before that and another time a week before that. with the same person of course. we have unprotected sex and when i mean unprotected i mean really unprotected we dont use condoms, i dont use birth control and he doesn't pull out. weve been doing it like this for way over a year now and i still haven't got pregnant. i used to cry about it well im glad im not because i'm still a teenager but i get sad because people that use protection can still get pregnant. do you know my problem for both things? please help. (link)
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well im not a doctor but what i can say is that aybe you should tell your mom or just ask her to take you to the doctor
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16/f
for a few years now all i keep thinking about is receiving oral sex. whenever i see a guy with big full lips and a big, wide tongue it really turns me on. sometimes the urge is so strong that it makes me want to find a guy to eat me because i want to feel a tongue down there that bad. is this normal for me to be feeling this way?
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at that age your hormones and urges are completely normal lol its very natural to feel that way
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My best friend just told me something really bad tonight that I am not supposed to tell anyone. But its really bothering me and i need someones help on what i should do. & i dont wanna hear that I am a bad friend for saying this online when i wasnt supposed to tell anybody.
My friend went to her 20 year old sisters house to hang out with her. She met this kid while being there and took him back to meet her sister. One thing led to another and the two started making out in another room. Her sister and her boyfriend walked in and her boyfriend ripped my best friend off of the other guy and started taking off her clothes and feeling her up. the kid she met who she was making out with started joining in while her older sister watched and encouraged this to keep going in order to have a foursome. She doesnt want to tell her mom because she says it will ruin the family. Should i keep it a secret like i promised or say something to her mom? I don't want her to be mad at me but no matter what i need to do whats right. (link)
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you need to tell her mom as soon as possible this is bigger than just keeping a secret by telling her mom you will be the greatest friend even if you dont think so
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I drink alcohol occasionally when I go out with my friends. Everyone seems to be having a great time when we're drinking except me. I always feel really, really sad. It's weird because I could be having the best day of my life but when I start to drink I really get down and low about everything. I end up crying and really ruining the mood for everyone. I have decided not to really drink any more because of this but I'm curious why it happens. Does anyone know why alcohol changes my mood? (link)
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maybe its just the result of drinking so much try not drinking more than 2 cups and see how you feel if you dont feel better just stop drinking completely
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what are some stupid things to do when you are bored? im a girl 14 so don't say anything like drinking etc. i don't care how stupid or dangerous it is, as long as it's fun haha :) something to do with a friend and/or by myself. i live in florida so there's not much to do :/
anything inside or outside. i don't want anything like prank calling, dance to music, go to the movies, put on a puppet show etc. those things are boring! lol, something exciting! just a list of stuff :) thanx (link)
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i think you should get a friend and steal a car lol but if you get caught you didnt hear it from me ;)
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What's your opinion and why? (link)
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i would say yes but only if you're ready dont let that person pressure you or anything try not to have sex with to many different people because then that would be sort of slutty
hope this helps
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