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Had sexual contact with someone who I shouldn't have, Pregnancy scare? Help
Okay, so I'm desperate for someone's opinion right now. I recently, on July 12, had sexual contact with someone who I really shouldn't have. If I were to get pregnant, the world might explode and my partner and I would be exiled from our families.
So, here's what happened: we did everything, except we did not have sex. However, there was a point where he was on top of me and (I was wearing yoga pants and underwear,) but he pushed himself right into my vagina. I mean, he didn't go inside me, but he was pretty close to it. He might have a little bit, but not much at all. He was attempting to grind into me since we couldn't actually have sex. (He had no condom with him.) And when this happened, it freaked me out a little, so after like thirty seconds or so, I changed positions with him so that he was not doing that. To be honest, I didn't think much of it at all, until now, July 23. About two nights ago, I got a major head ache and some side cramps. The next day, today, I had intense side pains and just a little bit of a head ache when I woke up in the morning. My back hurt really bad, so I took an Aleve. It seemed to somewhat work. Later tonight, I had very minor side pains and lower abdomenal cramps. However, about two or three hours ago, I noticed my body temperature felt hot, but I was cold. I took my temp and got a response of 100. So I definitely had a fever. I haven't taken anything for it. I typed my symptoms into google and got "early pregnancy symptoms." So, of course, I began freaking out and remembered that night where I had sexual contact.
Basically, what I am asking is, do you think I am pregnant. Remember, I was wearing yoga pants.
Should I buy a pregnancy test, or am I freaking out for nothing. Please, please help me. Because if I am pregnant, some serious shit could go down and everyone's lives will be fucked up.
I'm sorry if I sound stupid. I just need someone to calm me down. Just don't lie to me. I'm hoping I am just catching a virus or something.
Thank you in advance!
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first you really dont sound stupid you sound worried... since your scared to tell your parents go to a store and get 3 pregnancy tests just to be sure after that if you are you have to tell somebody
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well i dont think you are pregnant because his penis needs to go right into your vagina but get a pregnancy test just in case.
Good Luck x
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Hey,
I highly doubt you're pregnant, but it's perfectly natural to be concerned. If your period is a bit later than normal, you might want to pick up a pregnancy test for clarity, but more than likely you're no where near pregnant, and all of your symptoms say you're catching a cold, flu etc.... Hope I helped =)
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Because you were wearing pants you should be just fine, Sperm doesn't go through clothing. :)
Were you expecting your period to come soon? It could of been that, Those are all signs. You could of just had a virus also but pregnancy is unlikely.
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It's about as close to impossible as anything can be to have gotten pregnant that way. Even if there was sperm (which is sounds like there wasn't) it's not smart. It's can't actively search through layers of clothing like little guerrilla warfare soldiers. It just moves vaguely forward in any liquid it can move vague forward in.
You are just freaking out.
Only buy a pregnancy test if your period is more than three days late, but also remember that freaking out can delay your period as well. So try to relax.
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You're almost DEFINITELY just scaring yourself but don't sweat it, it happens to everyone when they're at 'that age.' The cramps and headache can be from the stress of worrying.
Chances that you got pregnant from even the most passionate dry humping are slim to none, emphasis on the 'none.' This could be a sign for you, though.
From your question I understand if he'd had a condom you might have had sex? There is a much larger chance of getting pregnant when using a condom than there is of simple dry humping. From the way you described things, this is not a chance you need to take.
An additional word of advice: never make important decisions while sexually aroused. Chemicals in your brain released during stimulation impair your judgement in exactly the same way many drugs do. So don't do it.
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Personally I dont think your pregnant. Your probably fine, but to calm yourself down you can always go ahead and buy a pregnancy test. It cant hurt.
Just remember, you didnt have sex. For you to be pregnant, your partner would have had to leaked through whatever he was wearing, and then through your 2 layers of clothing.
Your probably fine hun. Just relax, you might be getting period symptoms or actually getting a summer cold.
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