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can high school sweethearts last
i've been with my boyfriend for awhile now. our relationship hasnt always been easy but we always talk and work things out.i love him more than anything and id take a bullet for him any day of the week.people always say that theres no way we can be together through high school and college because people change which i get.is it possible that we could actually last through college and get married?
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yes they can last! My parents have been together since their junior year of high school (they were 17)! They got married when they were 23 and have been married for 20 years now! Take it from me, if it is meant to be, it will work! :)
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Actually , i'm in the same position I know how you feel i really want me and him to work out too , but you just have to be patient, I think that if you guys really like eachother and have a connection , I don't see why not , it takes the two of you to commit to the relationship and get serious , and both of you guys play your cards right , it should work out just fine , but that's too early to say , i'm sure if you guys really love eachother and you do and he does to as much as you guys say you do , i'm sure you guys will make it. But , for now just see where it goes , and be aware of what may and may not happen. Goodluck!
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My daughter married her high school sweetheart two years ago, and they were 1500 miles apart for most of their college years. Not only was there mutual attracton, they had a lot of shared values.
So, yes, it can happen, but it doesn't happen for most people. More than changing we grow a great deal in our early adult years, and we don't always grow in the same directions.
For now, play it as it lays. You don't need to be making future plans just now.
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Being realistic, normally it doesn't happen. But can it? Yes.
I am still with my high school sweetheart, mind you I am only a sophomore in college. It's a pretty good start though, right? In fact, we met in middle school, dated all throughout high school, and have been together two years after senior year so far. Of course, no one can say what the future will hold, but we still love each other as much as we ever have, and have plans on staying together, period.
I am not the same person I was when I was fourteen, and he is not the same person he was when he was sixteen. We have both changed a lot, but have accepted those changes in each other because we knew it was going to happen. That doesn't mean every relationship will be able to handle those changes, but we were lucky.
So don't be discouraged and automatically assume it won't happen. It can. You should just know if it doesn't, that you don't have to be disappointed. It's a normal thing.
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Now of course people change for better or worse but if you love him as much as you say you do then you will still love him when he changes so YES your relationship can last that long good luck
hope this helps :)
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