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Ok here's. The question does size matter do women like a man to be well endowed or average and is it thickness or width iv herd that if a mans penis is small without an erection then when he has one its quite big verses a man with a big penis with no erection doesn't get that big .the question is what do women prefer ? That satisfy a womens pleasure . (link)
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As a female myself, I have to say size doesn't matter. If a guy is sweet to me and I truly love him, the last thing I am gonna think about is his "size". But I guess women are different. I honestly wouldn't want a guy to be super big down there because then I wouldn't enjoy it. Hope this helped :)
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15 female
I dont really get dating. I get hit occasionally, and I never act on it because i think going out is basically friends with benifits. I never had a real boyfriend. I just don't get why do people want them other than the obvious.I do see people that I would surely like. but what do I say " hi I'm blah blah in you were looking really cute so I just wanted to say hi". That just sounds like a pick up line. If anyone can just explain to me what it is, it will surely help. Thanks (link)
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I think people look at dating as being able to spend time with someone and spill your heart to them. I haven't dated anyone yet and don't plan on it anytime soon, just because my life is so crazy and busy, and I don't have the time to put into a relationship. But I guess you can say dating is the step before getting engaged to someone. You date someone to test out compatibility, see if you can work out any problems together, then when you both feel it's right, you get engaged. As for dating in high school, I think it's a way of warming up for when you date in your adult life, so that you don't go on a date when you're 21 and don't know what to expect. Hope this helped and made sense, lol :)
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14/female
Heeeyyahh, okay, as soon as my dad goes owt, i watch porn, and start mastrubating, i cant help myself, i am addicted, i wanna have sex so badly, i always try an imagin my dream man walking in and having sex with me, but it wont happen, wat shall i do! (link)
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don't worry, it's totally normal! you're not the only person who watches porn! (If you were there wouldn't be hundreds of websites!) I agree, masturbate as much as you want. Wait for sex, save it for your adult life, no matter how bad your urges get. Don't worry, we all have had those urges before :)
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i've been with my boyfriend for awhile now. our relationship hasnt always been easy but we always talk and work things out.i love him more than anything and id take a bullet for him any day of the week.people always say that theres no way we can be together through high school and college because people change which i get.is it possible that we could actually last through college and get married? (link)
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yes they can last! My parents have been together since their junior year of high school (they were 17)! They got married when they were 23 and have been married for 20 years now! Take it from me, if it is meant to be, it will work! :)
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You can love in a lot of ways. you can be with someone so amazing and say you love them; the next, and scariest step, if youre serious enough, can be saying youre in love with them.
(lets make sure we know the difference between loving someone & being in love with someone. i always believed you can only be in love so many times.)
For example, my story.. i met this guy in the beginning of sophomore year. we began to talk but we didnt get close until early 2010. we were best friends for months & then he admitted to liking me. I began to like him back and weve been together officially for nearly two months.
when someone's your best friend, is it faster to fall in love? how do you know? what's the differnece between loving someone & being in love with them?
i know they say youll know when you know. but maybe there are some little factors that everybody catches on.
thank you!
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To me, the difference between loving someone and being in love is drastically different. If you love someone, that means you love them unconditionally. If you are in love with someone, that means that you love them, but they are loving you back as well. I know for a fact I love the guy I have my eye on, but I'm not in love because he doesn't feel that way back. And yes, it is WAYYY easier to fall in love with your best friend, trust me, I know how you feel! :)
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i was with a boy for a year, and then we broke up. we never told each other we were in love, knowing that's a huge step.
when we broke up, we admitted to it. he said he was in love with me & i said it back. we dont even talk anymore, but i know he was my first real love. i just dont know if i was IN love, you know?
is there a difference between your first real relationship, that person being your first love, but not being in love with them? when it came to him, being my longest relationship, i never felt this way about anybody else. i was only 15 at the time. i lost my virginity to him and although we're broken up i do not regret it because i know i loved him; he was my first love, i just dont know if i was in love.
im not sure what im asking. but any input would be nice.:) (link)
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Love is such a complicated emotion. I wish I could tell some magic way to tell if you were in love, but there isn't. I am in a similar situation as you and feelings are sooo complicated to figure out. Here is my advice: no one can tell you if it was love or not. Only your heart can tell you and give you the answers you are looking for. I hope that was clear to you :)
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I would like to know why men have such crazy sexual fantasies. I mean i can understand some but lately i have been talking to my boyfriend and some of his friends about it (awkward) and things they said they'd like to do were either pretty extreme or just really weird and out there. I mean i understand it to a point but why are men so into the role playing? Is it for more excitement or do they think it's normal? haha I'd just like to hear some other peoples point of veiws on this. Thanks :) (link)
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Both men and women can have some crazy sexual fantasies actually! I guess it depends on each person as an individual. A lot of times the fantasies people have never really play out into their real sex life, it is just a mental stimulation people use to get their sex drive going. You can't judge a guy on his sexual fantasies, I know many very sweet respectful guys who have the CRAZIEST ideas in the bedroom, haha.
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My am a female and im 15.I was wondering,is it possible for you get loose before actually having sex?If you finger yourself right,is it possible for your hymen to bleed? (link)
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It all depends on how rough you are being with yourself down there. If you are using your fingers, more than likely you will not tear your hymen. If you are using any object bigger than your finger, then you possibly can tear yourself down there of you are rough with it. If you don't want to tear down there, maybe be gentle right now until you lose your virginity. :)
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Is it bad or umhealthy to wear your bra in bed? Is it a bad habit to get into, or is it okay? (link)
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bras with under wire are definitely bad to sleep in because the under wire pushes on you. If you really want the support when you sleep then I suggest a built in (wire free) bra cami. That way you get the support with no health risks :)
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16/f
for a few years now all i keep thinking about is receiving oral sex. whenever i see a guy with big full lips and a big, wide tongue it really turns me on. sometimes the urge is so strong that it makes me want to find a guy to eat me because i want to feel a tongue down there that bad. is this normal for me to be feeling this way?
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you shouldn't feel ashamed at all! You're in puberty and these urges are totally normal. Different girls have different urges, and yours just happens to be receiving oral sex. No worries, you're normal :)
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i am 13 and i have not got my period yet and i realy want it how can i get it and how will i know if i am going to get it (link)
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well ,there really is no way of planning when you will get your period. It happens when your body starts producing sex hormones. Once you start getting body hair, breasts, and body changes, your period is sure to follow. You may also start feeling emotional and have mood swings as well.
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15/f. (non-virgin)
So, for a few months now.. every month after my period, I have VERY smelly discharge. I can't even wear jogging pants or comfy pants because it seeps through and everyone can smell it. Sometimes the smell even goes through my jeans. It can last anywhere from a few days to like 2 weeks. It drives me nuts! What could be causing this? And how can I stop it? (link)
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This does not mean at all that you practice poor hygiene! What that smell is is the discharge coming from your body. As long as the discharge does not turn a certain color like greenish, then it is healthy. The discharge is bacteria that naturally cleans your body and protects it from other germs entering your body. As of ways to stop it, I have heard that birth control pills can reduce the production of discharge. As awkward as it may sound, your personal physician can offer other ways to get rid of it if birth control pills are not a way you want to get rid of it.
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Ok so basically I have liked this guy for a couple of years now we have always got on well but haven't seen each other for a VERY long time.. We used to hang at partys or clubs and just talk for hours i never really noticed any signs of him being interested though i mean a little flirting maybe but we never even kissed or anything.. So he recently started chatting to me again randomly on msn and the 2nd day he talked to me again and asked me out!? So i said yes thinking he meant it as friends but before he logged out said its a date.. This was about 3 days ago now and we have talked once since but he never mentioned it.. I know he's waiting for me to suggest where we go and when but I have another problem.. I've recently been trying to lose some weight and don't feel confident enough yet to go out i mean he knows i'm not skinny because he's seen me before and hes complimented me alot on my looks but i would like to lose another stone and like impress him.. I don't know what to do really? Any help? (link)
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Well, if he asked out on a date, then that already is a sign that he is interested in you. It sounds to me like you are being self conscious about your body. Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way. Society makes you think that you need to be skinny in order to be accepted, but in reality, at the end of the day, the guy for you is going to love you for who you are, not what you look like. I think if you look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself all the things that you love about yourself, then you'll realize that he likes you for you, and is already impressed by you. :)
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I know this older guy and he's hit on me before but he also treats me like as if i'm his little sister or something. At first I thought he was a gentleman (he would walk me back to my place even if it was far away just because he wanted to make sure I was safe) but then it started to get kinda crazy. I live downtown in a big city, and now he wants me not to go out unless I'm with somebody. I understand his worry, but it was noon in bright daylight on one of the busiest streets in the city. He also lectures me if i lie to my parents or anything like that and i kinda get the feeling that he thinks it would be better if i just stayed home and never go out because when I do stay home he tells me that he thinks it's good for me not to go out. He says that he thinks I shouldn't go out unless I'm with a group of friends cuz there will probably be more guys like him (much older) hitting on me other than him, and i understand where he's coming from on that one, and I'm flattered that he cares about my safety but I wish he would relax just a little bit. I don't even know him that well yet even. I do know that he's attracted to me but when we hung out when he was talking it was like a half lecture/half flirt. He was talking about how i should dress younger (i don't dress revealing.. i know when some people say "she dresses older" they immediately think low cut tops) and at the same time will tell me how sexy/pretty he thinks i am and look. Oh and even though he doesn't like me going out, he still does ask me to meet up with him. Anyways how do I get him to realize that for the most part I can take care of myself? He actually worries about me more than my parents do. He chases after me when I wanna do something by without him I kinda have a small crush on him even though that's probably really wrong and I want to continue our friendship (he doesn't know) but today I got a bit mad at him for treating me like I'm 10. W are both 16 and Im not immature either. I think i'm more mature than the kids in my school they don't take education serious, I don't goof off, I make good grades and Im in the top 10 % of my class. I tell him to stop treating me like a baby and he doesnt listen.How do I get him to stop treating me like a kid?
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If I were you I'd let him know immediately that you are more brighter and mature than he is treating you to be. I see how the majority of girls around your age act and I understand why he is lecturing you. You need to let him know that he is making you feel like a child and that you don't appreciate it. If he is a true friend he will cut back and starting treating you the way you want to be treated.
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