so me and my friend are having a bonfire. we go to different colleges so we have different friends. one of her friends i think is soo attractive and i really want to get to know him. he's coming but how can i flirt and let him know i'm interested but without coming on too strong? i've been told i'm really laidback and chill but i do get really nervous when i really like someone. i know obviously to be myself, i'm not fake. but can anyone just give me a few pointers? it would help alot and make me feel less nervous:)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SuperAlice098 answered Thursday July 29 2010, 9:48 am: ok first before he gets there take deep breaths and try to relax do that even after he is there but make sure he doesnt notice (its a well known fact that if you drink a tiny bit of alcoholic drink you can relax) i myself havent tested that but it might work anyway
use the sexiest voice you can when your talking to him but dont sound ridiculous.
eye contact is very important but dont stare
deep breathes of course
wear something hot but not too revealing
ask him about himself unless he asks you about you
be modest
if you think he likes you back after talking and you think he would kiss you back then while he's talking look at his lips. if he's smart he will know what you want if he looks at you but he is not talking then lean in very very slowly but make sure he is leaning in to before you actually kiss him
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