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is sex ok if you arent dating?
What's your opinion and why?
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huh, it depends.
as long as you keep a visible line of how you want the relationship to be, you're fine.
like friends with benefits, it works and sometimes is fun.
but sex without dating, most of the time, leads to one person (or if lucky, both) falling in love, which could be painful if the other could not reciprocate. and then it basically turns crappy.
it's like bungee jumping with a very thin rope. exciting, risky, dangerous when you jump, but once the rope tears apart, it's a really long painful fall.
so just make sure, if you wanna do it, that you know the risk.
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My opinion is each to their own. If someone wants to have sex with another person when they aren't dating then that's fine, as long as both people are on the same wavelength and they're understanding that they're just friends or friends w/ benefits then it's OK. Obviously it's not if one person thinks they're dating and the other doesn't.
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it's ok as long as you know what you are doing or about to do. if it is with just with one guy or girl, and you believe both of you will get some fun out of it, then why not? as long as you are not making a habit out of this, and have sex with a different guy each day, then it's not a big deal.
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Of course everyone has their own opinions, but I don't think that you should. You really shouldn't do it, because say you just had like a one night stand with them, then find someone you really like a week or two later, your gonna wish you had never done that with the person before. You need to find someone that you could see yourself with, or possibly even marry, then share that special bond with them.
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i think it depends on how old you are. if you're in high school- no. if you aren't looking for anything from the person you are doing it with and it's just for fun and you're both mature adults then i guess it's ok but personally i still wouldn't do it.
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If you are an adult, you practice safe sex, and you're not expecting anything more than sex (such as a relationship), then I think its okay.
But this is only if you she has no feelings for him, and vise versa, because otherwise inevitably someone will get hurt.
And although there isn't anything wrong with a sexually liberated woman, a woman who sleeps with all her guy friends, and then their friends, is not a woman with a good reputation.
I find that just pure sexual relationships work best when you have little to no friends in common with them.
MAK, 19
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i would say yes but only if you're ready dont let that person pressure you or anything try not to have sex with to many different people because then that would be sort of slutty
hope this helps
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