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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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you can start with your family. but the thing i believe about religion is that, you should never force it on people. your religious faith should govern only your own thoughts, behavior and moral ethics, not the people around you.
i think its wonderful to see a youth with good intentions spreading the word of the Lord. but be prepared for rejections or hostility.
i suggest starting low key. just tell people your own testimonials and tell them why you love God and what makes you passionate about christianity. Let them be awed and inspired first by your reasons. Most importantly, dont forcefully push them to be closer to God and listen to His words.
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Hi,
I'm usually pretty good at giving advice, but this I can't help myself with. I'm 13 and I just got transferred to a new place. I've been here for two months now. As many people here are teens they love to act all grown up and I'm not comfortable with the kind of things they do and the language they use, so I'm not friends with anyone, I tried to adjust and get used to them but without a friend I just can't manage. I'm kind of shy but I can make friends easily, but no one is like me (a little kiddish and crazy) everyone loves to act all grown up. I'm having a tough time making friends, please give me some advice on how I can adjust or I'll end up a lonely girl who talks to herself (link)
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hi! dont worry about a thing. there are 7 billion people all jumbled up in this melting pot called earth. there's bound to be people who will get along with you just fine. i have a story of my own to tell you.
i dropped out of uni and transferred to a community college closer to home. i had trouble in uni in the first place due to depression and subsequently, had low self esteem, so i wasn't really looking forward to meeting new friends. furthermore, everyone in class is younger than me, so obviously i wasn't keen on getting to know some "brats". i wasn't the friendliest person, is what im trying to say. eventually, though, i smiled at this one girl and we ended up talking and apparently had a lot in common. she introduced me to her bunch of misfit friends who are geeks who love games, animes, comics, and it's weird but i love their company. i didnt feel judged or felt the need to be similar to them, it was just fun hanging out with them. slowly i got more confident to apply as a waitress in an on-campus cafe and got to know more of my college mates around. now, i cant walk to my class without seeing a familiar face and greeting them.
so my advice is, if you want to make friends, you just have to take the first step and make yourself noticeable. say hi to the girl next to you, if you dont have good chemistry, then we can just move along. one of these days, you're gonna meet people you get along with, i know it for sure. alternatively, you can join some clubs in school, like drama or music club, basically anything you want. make yourself noticeable, participate in alot of school events, just smile a lot at people, sometimes ask people for help or ask questions about class. i promise you, if you are willing to put yourself out there, people will come to you and ask to be your friend. hope this helps! it sucks being lonely, i know, so good luck to you!!!
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My wife recently told me that her feelings for me aren’t there anymore, and while she loves me, she doesn’t love me like she used to. In a follow-up conversation, she let me know that she has feelings for a much older coworker of hers (16 year age difference). She says nothing has happened with him, but she’s confused with her feelings at the moment and doesn’t know what to do.
While heartbroken, I feel like this could have been much worse. And I’m struggling with what I can do or say to her to make her keep her commitment to me. She has said that none of this was my fault, but I’m sure he’s giving her more attention and communication than I was (we had gotten to the “comfortable” stage).
Obviously I can’t force her to love me, but I’m struggling to come up with rational ways to verbalize why she should stay. Can anybody give me advice on what I could say? What I’m trying to get at is yes, I understand that a new person can be exciting and fun, but we have already built the foundation to make a marriage go the distance.
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im sorry that you are in this situation.
but she has married you for a reason, didn't she? sometimes people can get bored after a while, and yes, new things are exciting, but doesn't mean that you should give up.
sway her again, do the whole dating routine again, woo her like how you were when you were still young lovebirds. the fact that your wife is honest to you means that she still loves you very much, and deep down, still believes in keeping your relationship alive.
http://www.livelifehappy.com/stories/30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/
ignore the sad ending. but it can act as a guide for you to start gaining your wife's love again.
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Lately I've been feeling really gloomy. I've asked lots of people online for advice, and they suggest I might be depressed. I'm kinda swapping back and forth with the idea, and I've taken test online and they say Im depressed. The thing is, even when I feel well, I just about always prefer depressing stories, movies, songs, anything depressing. I' even seem to enjoy it after I experience pain. My mom was even speaking to me a few months ago how that wasn't normal. I know I've had depression in the past for personal reasons, and I know it was severe then, and I know what I'm feeling now isn't nothing like what is was then. I haven't experienced any kind of tragic event, and this has been going on all week. Is there some way I could find out for sure if I have depression without some multiple test or going off to see a professional? I try too keep this kind of thing from my parents too. Anything I can do besides that? (link)
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The thing i noticed was that you had depression in the past. if im wrong, then i hope you dont take it personally. i dont know you so i wont know what you are actually experiencing.
but, from my personal experience, depression can be ... addicting? like, depression is not something that can be cured in a day. it's a process that can take months, years. i suffered depression for a while and had a crippling fear of rejection. bt finally, i decided to face it and realized my fear was unfounded. slowly i felt my sadness subsided and i no longer had any reason to stay depressed.
but the funny thing was a little part of me didn't want to let it go. i had been depressed for so long that i felt the sadness was the only thing i had left of me. it was my identity, my blanket, my emotions, my idea of how my life should be, perpetually sad. if im not sad, then what is left of me? even though i was free of my stressors and problems, i still had days when i worried for no reason, cried for no reason, looking for reasons to be stressed or worried or sad. i know, it's weird, but i had been sad for so long, i was uncomfortable with the loss of sadness.
eventually, though, i went out a lot more, became more focused in my goals, became more familiar with being happy and content. i replaced that sadness with a different feeling, that's it.
maybe it's not your story, but if it is, i want you to know you're not the only one. if it's not, i hope you find comfort in life. good luck!
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Female, 18.
I'm under the suspiscion that I might be suffering from depression - or something close to it. I have already been diagnosed about three years ago with hypothyroidsm, so perhaps this adds to the factor. I haven't been taking care of myself - more than usual - I procrastinate too much and then I have tiny breakdowns where I cry alone about how stupid and worthless I mean. Because I know in fact that I am the one doing things wrong, yet can't bring myself to fix things. I have extreme low self-esteem issues and I think I have many phobias that need taking care of - I can't stand being locked up, I hate large crowds because I feel uncomfortable, I fear loads of responsability, I have stage-fright even just to speak at times and I have a completely irrational fear of reptiles, amphibians and throwing up/vomit in general. I feel like I'm letting myself go and instead of pushing forward I'm being dragged back by my low spirits. I have been loathing going into Facebook simply because I see my friends being so happy and since I don't find anything happening to be happy, I get angry at them. Its horrible on my part. I'm a nice girl, but sometimes its hard to be so and I come to moments like these where I just don't want to do/be/think anything and just... dissappear. To magically have all my problems erased somehow... which only gets people angry at me or something and makes me feel worse. I just realized that my thoughts are being perhaps a bit toooo negative and I might actually need help here. (link)
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hey ya! i dont know if i'll be helping you but hopefully it makes you feel better. i was once really depressed too. i suddenly found myself with a lot of responsibilities i felt like drowning, that people around me seem to cope with swimmingly and im the only one struggling with it. i felt like a complete loser, how can i survive in this world if i can't even cope with little responsibilities. it's like i can't even walk. my self-esteem was so low and then slowly, even small problems felt big. i was an international student and i couldn't even cope with getting my passport status renewed, even though it only takes me a trip to the office to let the staff know. i was neck-deep in problems that kept piling on, and i myself knew it was all my fault. i didn't wanna deal with the problems, let it fester til i get into real trouble. at one point, i totally gave up and became a recluse. i couldn't even get up off my bed, many times i woke up screaming in my head "why am i still alive?! why can't i die in my sleep?! what's the use of me living in this world?!". it was just... dark.
but finally i had enough and realized that i had hit rock bottom, i should just crash. i ran away from all my problems and left everything. i went back home to escape from all the fears and the responsibilities and the problem and i just didnt care. but you know what? it took a while, but i felt better. i too was the nice girl and being selfish was just unthinkable to me, but you know what? being selfish made me happier. maybe my solution is not an encouraging one, instead of fight, i chose flight. but what im trying to say is, i think like how i was, you also know what your real fear or main source of stress is. i think you know what is the thing that will make you happy, but maybe you lack the courage to do it. most people think it's bad or a crime to be selfish and so they keep their sadness to keep others happy. it doesn't have to be that way. if you're feeling depressed and you know what it is, change something. you have to change something, no matter how absurd or selfish it is. change to make yourself happy, be selfish and think of yourself first. anyway it's long but i really wanted to share my story.
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Tonight, my girlfriend of 4 months has told me that she doesn't deserve to date me. She has had some rather rough relationships where abuse (not physical but mental abuse) was involved. She also has the genital herpes STD, and she's not a virgin either and I'm still one. We are both 26 years old as well. But anyways, when she told me this, I did feel hurt and even angry that she would say this to me. Now usually like every month, she talks about her past. However, its getting to a point where her complaining about her past is beginning to frustrate me. Now I haven't gone through the things in my life that my girlfriend has gone through. Often it can be hard for me to help her too. We did date for a while back in 2010 for about 4 months, but we broke up because at the time she was very clingy to me which I hated and I had issues going on with my life back then too. We got back together in the spring of this year and said we would try to have a better relationship. I want to keep that going, but the fact that she often complains about her past is something that bothers me and I won't tolerate it much longer. What should I do? Also, she lost her grandfather in September of last year and her grandmother recently passed away too. Any help would be appreciated.
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if just by reading this post, i assume that what she really wants from you is reassurance. we girls always have a very complicated way of being in a relationship. by telling you about her flaws etc, it sounds like she wants to break up. instead she probably wants to hear you say something like 'despite all that i still want to be with you'. we're all suckers for romance. seeing how she was clingy towards you before, that means she likes/needs you very much and she still wants to be with you. however, at this point you seem to be tired with her whole drama by now (if im wrong, then im very sorry with the misunderstanding). so it's up to you. you can stay with her and let her know that you'll be there for her, or you can just be like 'you are absolutely right' and walk out the door. because i absolutely do not fancy girls who go into relationships just to feel better about themselves.
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I'm eighteen years old, and I'm basically a follower. If real life were a video game, I'd totally be a support character. I'm very good at being backup, being there for people and sacrificing my own wants or needs for theirs. I'm also very good at following orders and respecting seniority. I have been my entire life. I always think about other people first. I follow people the majority of the time. If my friends and I, say, go to the mall or something, I prefer following behind them. I don't know why, it's just how I am!
It's not to say I can't lead. I guess I'm sort of a lazy leader, in a way. If a situation arises where there are all followers amongst us, I'll take the lead if I have to. But if anyone else wants to lead I'll follow them.
A follower is always described negatively... Is it really all that bad to be a follower? I mean, without us, leaders would have no one to LEAD, right? Thanks for your time. :D (link)
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I understand perfectly where you come from. I was (or am) still like that too. 'i prefer becoming the vice president instead of the president' itself kind of thing. however instead of thinking, once a follower always a follower, its more like a follower slowly learning to be a leader. it all comes to self confidence and experience.
i am very bad at making decisions, i often thinks things in shades of grey instead of black and white and doubt my choices when i make them. so i always leave my friends to make the decisions, hence i often becomes the follower. however as your self confidence grows, your trust in the decisions you make also increase and you become less willing to follow other people's directions instead (on to becoming a leader). for example, at first i wanna go to shop A but my friends want to go to B. im too lazy to decide against or im not even sure that A is even a good shop, so we all go to B. however the next time, my friends wanna go to shop A but i am confident that B is better, so i become more confident in letting my friends know that we should go to B.
sorry if the example seems complicated.
anyway i think it should be half and half. sometimes it's great to be a follower; it's relaxing, there's no stress, you dont get ego trips and tantrums when things dont go your way. however, sometimes there are things where you have to take the lead and be assertive, otherwise people will look down and trample all over you.
be balanced.
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I have this friend and its been two years since we met of course at school he's actually a good guy with a humor personality which i love about him. and in the pass months i been feeling something special for him like more than friends and i dont know if he feels the same way for me? we always hanging together going to parties , chilling at the movies but should i tell him how i feel for him? i dont want to mess up our friendship too aw what should i do? (link)
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i dunno. i say get more confirmation that he at least feels the same way as you. try subtle flirting or hints that you may feel a little spark between you both. just flirting goes a long way, even if he wasn't interested in the first place, he'll do a double take when you treat him a little differently. maybe start commenting on how smart he dresses, brush against him arm slightly when you guys are in the cinema. he'll take the hint. true, now there are more men who prefers the girls making the first moves. but it's still better to make sure first than to rashly confess and be sorely embarrassed. been there, done that.
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I made out with one of my best friends one weekend. We didn't talk about it the following week.
Then the next weekend we both went to a party and I ended up staying at another friend's house and drunkenly had sex for the first time. The asshole didn't even use anything.
I told my best friend straight away and he stopped talking and looking at me altogether.
I then completely killed everything by drunk texting him 'I hate you'. I then went on to apologise and called myself a 'disgusting whore', to which he replied 'stop guilt tripping me', 'I can't even look at him (the guy I did it with) the same' before he said to 'never text or call' again and to 'go to hell'.
So I deleted his number to do just as he said. About a week later I get told by a mutual friend that he wasn't mad at me, so I tried to talk to him but he always says he's busy. I've tried for about 3 weeks. It's not an excuse but I'm so shy I kinda die when someone asks me to repeat something cause I think I said it wrong. I'm thinking of just giving up altogether on any type of relationship, friendship or otherwise. Opinions? (link)
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i hope that you won't give up on the guy.
I think that he was/is mad at you, because what happened at the other friend's house was a really silly, careless thing for you to do. even if he wasn't mad at you. anyway, he probably thought that you were playing with his feelings since you kissed him, so you like him, and then you suddenly told him you had sex with another friend. he probbly got really confused and that confusion just leads to anger and embarrassment.
however, his anger is a good sign. that means he still cares about you and angry that you put yourself in a reckless situation. after all, the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
just keep trying and saying you miss having him around and reminding him of how great your friendship/relationship was. give him a reason to come back to being your bestfriend/whatever. he has to get over this some day.
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My childhood best friend wants nothing to do with me, and I can't stand caring for her and she doesn't even care if I'm alive. For example, the other day I emailed her congrats on her graduation and received not even a thank you, however she was quick to reply and reunite with the old group of friends we use to share, I even feel left out of that group now...I just don't know what is wrong with me. (side note: people often tell me I am kind and fun to be around so I'm even more confused! I am completely open to suggestions on how to improve as an individual.) (link)
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chill ~
always there's two sides to a story. maybe you did something that offended her and she couldn't get over it. or maybe she's just picky now. i dont know, there could be tons of reasons.
but don't give up over her not replying. if you still wanna be friends with her, just continue caring. email her asking whats up once in a while. and when she's in town or you guys happen to cross path, say hi and invite her for coffee or lunch or something.
you guys may not be Best Friends, but it's nice to still have a childhood friend.
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Hi, I am 16 years old and a female. I have a quirky style, I guess. I like bohomenian type things and vintage, lacey type things. I just got my 17 magazine yesterday and started reading it and the seco0nd I flipped too the picture (linked below) of Lucy Hale, I fell in love with this feather in her ear. So, I went to my local craft store, bought quirky looking feathers and then plain feathers and I put them on clasps and attatched them to a hoop earring. I apologize I do not have a picture of the one I made but it looks quite similar to Lucy's except different colors. I made the string dangly's like on hers. Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I love it. I wore it to church today and alot of people loved it as well. So, my question is: Do you like the feather earring look? If I sold them, would you buy them? If I would like to sell them, how would I go about doing that on the internet (such as: are tehre websites that I can go to put pictures of mine on and have people purchase them on the internet)?
Be honest if you like them or not! Thanks!
http://www.disneydreaming.com/2011/05/17/lucy-hale-is-a-fan-of-country-music-and-taylor-swift/ (link)
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i think it's chic. but my roommate is also like you, she really wants one of those after looking at lucy hale. and it's hard to find, coz she's been going to charlotte russe, forever 21 etc trying to look for it.
i suggest the website etsy.com. it's like the ebay version of handcrafted items. i myself bough a zipper earrings from etsy and i totally adore it. :D
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info:I'm 17 years old, a senior and go to an all boys high school and the girl I like is a Junior at the all girls school (our schools are practically right next to each other and there are co-ed classes) but I don't have any classes with her, I only see her at creative writing club (CCC for short) (we meet once maybe 2 times a month she enjoyed some of my stories)
Situation: There is this girl that I like and I think I've seen 2 signs that she may like me but before I try to make any move I want to be at least 80% sure that she actually likes me back
1st sign: On my second CCC meeting she kept slowly changing seats around the room until she asked the club mod if she could switch seats with him he said sure then she rolled the seat until she was right in front of me she said "I heard that you gave jenny(fake name for privacy) a really sweet valentines day gift So do you like her? I hesitated for a second (because the only reason I gave jenny the gift was so that I could have an easier time asking her out to the prom I don't think i really liked her)but I didn't look her in the eyes and said yea then she rolled back to the front of the room and acted like nothing happened
2nd sign: I asked her out to the prom and she agreed to go despite falsely thinking that I liked jenny
So does she like me or am I over thinking it?
BTW I realized I liked her the second I said I liked Jenny (I can't stop kicking myself for that) (link)
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yeahhhh she definitely likes you. asking you was her being jealous and when she says yes, that means she likes you.
unless, she's like enemies with jenny, then she might be just trying to make jenny jealous.
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ok so me and my best friend are really close. were so close that people actually call us lesbians. we talk on the phone everyday for 2 hours. we see each other a lot and hang out. but lately ever since she got the job she is now working with me. we like to get the same shifts so we can work together. but we keep fighting now. and for some reason im just getting so mad at her for being so stupid at times for other reasons not at work. i dont know why im acting like this towards her. but i guess it's because im sick of her. I dont know. but we havent been talking a lot lately and we keep talking rudely to each other. i just want to fix it. and tomorrow we have different shifts and she wants me to change mine so i can work her shift. im just so stressed out with her it's making me be mean to her. what should i do? is it because i need some space from her or what? (link)
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sorry if the answer's late! i just stumbled upon this randomly. it's hard when this happens in friendships. i have lots of close friends and sometimes when i spend too much time with them i get so irritated it's crazy. it's not that im sick of my friends, i just need my own space sometimes. fortunately my friends understand when i just lock myself up in the room and blame it on hormones (haha).
i say, just quietly spend less time with her. when she asks to hang out just say you're tired or something. when you have different shifts, just say you cant change it coz your mum needs you to be at home (when it's the time of her shift) etc etc. it just takes a few days (or weeks) for you to miss your friend again, so then you can spend time with her again. but Beware, dont ever tell her that you're avoiding her because you're sick or bored of her, that'll hurt her feelings even though it's true. (from experience, dont do it). it's common to be bored of your friends after a while. but dont let it ruin a good friendship :D
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okay so i like this guy and were really not that close but we do talk some. but when we talk its get alittle akward like its always the same thing hey, whats up,...etc. like theres nothing to talk about. any advice on how to make it less akward? (link)
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some ppl just have chemistry when they talk and some... not yet. find out what his hobbies are or fave music, movie, or what is he passionate about, or maybe talk about any of your mutual friends. if you've got something in common with him, then conversations can last for hours. if you dont have anything in common with him, then maybe think back why you like him in the first place.
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I'm a 32/female. I work as a server and worked til midnight on Thursday. I drank alot of caffeine while working so I thought I would stop on the way home and get a drink and order some food for my boyfriend who i live with. I ended up drinking 3 beers and got some wings for him and talked to this girl who said she had just moved here from LA and had no girl friends here. When i got home it was almost 2:00 in the morning and when I walked in the cushions were gone off the couch, the tv was gone, computer was gone, mattress gone. My phone had been dead so i put it on the charger and called my boyfriend. When he answered he called me a whore and said i had been out whoring around. I said first of all dont ever call me a whore, and that i had gotten him some food and had money for him as he had said he was broke before. He called me a liar and this made me very angry. I have never cheated on him. I have since been able to get him to bring back the tv and computer but have been sleeping on the box spring with no mattress and thinking what should I do? I do love him very much so this has really hurt me. None of my friends or family like him which makes me feel even more sorry for him. I guess I will move out the first of May. He will not take my calls except once to tell me he loved me and hated this sitution yesterday morning. What should I do? ANY ADVICE?!!! (link)
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that is kinda psycho. from what i get here, he stole furnitures from you and accused you of being a whore the moment he cant find you. and you had to buy him food and give him money? girl, leave, just leave.
you seem like a great girl, hardworking and really tolerant. if your friends and family dont like him, it's for a reason. he seems to just be using you. im glad you got your tv and stuff back, but he has to give your bed too. are you sure he's not cheating on you and thats why the bed is the only thing that he's not giving back. and when he left with the furnitures, to whose house did he bring all those stuff to?
im sorry if im too harsh. it's just my opinion. good luck with your decisions.
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My family is very stern about meeting the guys I date. I usually wait to see how the relationship goes before I introduce them to each other. In the past my boyfriends have gotten along good with my family, but I am nervous about this one. My boyfriend has red orange hair and I am afraid my parents will judge me. They've always made jokes about people with orange colored hair and I don't want to be teased. I want my boyfriend to feel comfortable, more so. He's very sweet and I want my parents to see how happy he makes me. But I am scared they'll be so mean. Any advice? (link)
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If your family can go along with the other boyfriends. They can deal with this one. Just call your parents and inform them that he has red orange hair but he's really nice and sweet, and not to give him a hard time. then sweetly inform your bf that your family can be quite critical and he should be prepared. your parents only want whats best for you and when they see how happy the bf makes you, they should be able to overlook the hair color.
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so i have been dating this guy almost four months. and i found out about the time we started dating that i can never have children. i feel like im keeping this big secret from him but also we are still early in our relationship. but then again i dont want him to find out later and think i have been lying to him this whole time and being dishonest. im one of those people who are very big on honesty. i hate liars. and thats why this is so heavy on my heart. i just don't know what to do. this guy is great. he is the best guy i have ever gone out with. he's sweet romantic. amazing. help please? (link)
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You should tell him and risk the relationship. be honest with him. especially if he's a great guy and you do see a future with him. these things should not be kept a secret in a relationship.
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Hi my boyfriend wants to have sex but i keep telling him no we are to young and he says if i dont he will break up with me and i love him what do i do? (link)
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DUMP HIM! he's just with you to have sex with you. guys like that are not worth it. and it is better to be the dumper and the dumpee. believe me, it will be so much better to cry over the break up (i know you love him) than to cry when he dumped you after he's succeeded at taking your virginity.
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So i posted a few questions about my friend who is self righteous with her religion and now my friend who posted the stuff about me on facebook calls herself a christian. And ever since she's become one she bugs me about it. Since she couldn't change my religion she tried changing the way i look, she couldn't do that so now when we hangout she seems distant because she can't change me. not only that uses me and makes me come to her house all the time, and made it public on facebook about how my bad my driving is, so i finally took action and deleted her and the other girl from my facebook. Well anyways she called me and asked me if i wanted to hangout with her. I said i couldn't and she asked me why and i told her i was at a friend's house. She said oh cool well maybe we can just hang out later. I said no, and she goes why? I told her this: Because you post embarrassing things about me on facebook after i drove you around. And she of course acts like she did nothing wrong and says are you being serious right now? and i said yeah and she said okay i'll talk to you later, and i said okay bye. Then i got on facebook and she added me again, but i denied her friend request and clicked on the thing that said she wouldn't be able to send me anymore friend requests. So what i want to know is am i doing the right thing, because she obviously thinks she can act like a brat and get a way with it, and that just doesn't fly with me. And i don't get where this whole thing about me being a bad driver is coming from. When i was driving i wasn't speeding, even though i said that because they thought i was. They were distracting me, and my friend who was sitting at the front freaked out when i didn't brake, was talking really loud, and rolled down the windows and started yelling when she saw someone she knew. and then the other one was opening the door while i was driving. So yeah what should i do if the friend who called me to hangout starts asking me why i am mad at her, and why i am making a big deal out of this. I know i am not the greatest driver ever but i don't need her telling everyone that on facebook, especially after i drove their ungrateful selves around town. (link)
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she's not the greatest friend but i think you're overreacting. so what if you're friends on facebook? doesnt mean that you see her every day. plus, it's better cos who knows what she posts about you on facebook when you cant see it (because you're not friends). and what do you worry so much about what she wrote? if you dont take it seriously, it wont hurt you. or you can actually acknowledge it and be like 'uuurgh, im a bad driver so i better not give you rides anymore'. save you the trouble of being used by her and making her know that you guys are just acquaintances, but no hard feelings.
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I have many girls as friends, and some of them are really close like siblings. When they get a new boyfriend, I act hostile and give off a pissed off vibe. All I wanna do is protect my friend from getting hurt, but am I getting in their way? (link)
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yeah, i think it's not really your business to be mad. you may be close like siblings, but it doesnt give you the right to diss the guy that she believes can make her happy. if not, you'll look like the jealous best friend (which is not good). i understand your intention is great, i would love to have a friend like you. if i were to introduce my bf to my own brother, i expect him to treat the bf nicely. and when the bf breaks my heart, i know my brother is there to make me feel better. and thats what you should do.
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