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So me and my boyfriend had sex for our second time and the first time was just a week before. The first time didn't go to well cause it wouldn't "stay in." The second time was much better but I am so paranoid about getting pregnant now. Even though he didn't even pre cum, he didn't cum, and the condom was fullly on and didn't break, I just always get nervous. Lately I have always wanted to eat. And it's not from nervousness, I just am hungry. i am active with school and volleyball but I wanted know if you guys think I could be pregnant? My periods suppose to start in a week and a half. How long on average does it take for the penis have to be inside the vagina to cause a pregnancy? (link)
there could always be a possible answer that you could be pregnant..., but to be quite honest i really dont believe that you are pregnant...did you know that when you are stressed out your period can come later.. so dont stress yourself... sperm lives not more than about 1 hour outside your body and inside you it could live up to 3 -7 days...next time if you are really worried you should take the plan b its good for 2 days after you have sex not more... its normal you are feeling hungry bloated and fat you are due for your period soon .. so dont worry about a thing just wait another week or so.. nd than go see your doctor if you still havnt gotten your period and get yourself a pregnency test but i wouldnt worry if i where you.. ur just going to get more stress ..


ok so one of my friends thought of a good idea to get a guy to like me. he likes "bad girls" so the plan is to get a rumor started about me that i gave someone a bj and idk if i should do it or not. help me plllleeeeaaasssssssseeeee! (link)
honestly.. you shouldnt just make a rumour about yourself to try to make a guy like you....first of all starting a rumour about you giving head is just gonna make you have a bad name after and guys dont like that.... the only ones who do are the ones who just want to do shit with you... hes not going to like you because you give head...a guy should like you for you now i say its a stupid idead but its up to you i cant make ur desicions for you but i say you deffenetly shouldnt your just putting yourself down... sure hes gonna like you for that moment when your giving him oral aafter that dont think he wont tell his friends or anyone... cause he will...


i was at a party and got slightly tipsy. there was this guy, whom i met for the 1st time at the party, who clung on to me during the whole time i was at the party, practically looking after me *like not allowing me to drink anymore, and kept talking to me the whole night*. then after that he hung out at my living room the whole night til morning while my roommates were around. the whole night he kept teasing me, and frequently forwarding his head towards me when i got bemused, and hugging me softly. he even put me to sit on his lap while we were watching movie. *i know, it is weird because we've really just met* well, i've never even been kissed so i ddnt know if he was trying to kiss me. he never made a move on me or something. and when morning came, he silently went bk home so my roommates wont think it weird of us spending all night on the couch.
question 1) does he sound like he's interested in me? because it has been 2 days since that night and he never called. *i ddnt call him too*
question 2) well, we're in the same university. so if i happen to stumble into him, how am i supposed to react?
i kinda like him and would like to spend time with him again.
im an 18-yr old asian studying in the states. and the guy's american.
-sorry for such a long question- (link)
you know how he was teasing you..you just do the same thing listen i cant say he isnt into you a guy whos clunges on to you all night deffenetly means he is intrested in somne way but its hard to tell you if hes intrested in you or he just wanted a one night thing... seing that you werent making a move probably gaved him the empression im not a whore.. you cant just have fun with me witch is a great thing guys like girls who are hard to get but ... some unfortenetly dont so my opinion is that he probably just wasnt into you in a relationship type of way but intrested in doing shit with you and he notished that he couldnt get you in one night so hes not calling you back my advice to you dont call him back untill he call yyou. and about the whole university thing when you pass by him dont say nothing pretend nothing ever happend.. its good to act like you dont care sometimes hes going to want you even more... sorry for such a long answer xoxox!!! best of luck and let me know what happend


i'm 19 years old, female.

i've never had sex before, never been fingered, havent done anything really! only made out, and i havent done that in like three years, ohhhh god embarassing! i've been really really horny lately and i really just want to be sexual. now i'm not saying i just want to go have sex with random guys but i would like to get pleasured:)

i'm not into the whole dildo/vibrator thing either...not for me! i just dont know how to go about doing something, and letting my hormones go crazy. i dont even know why i'm like this! i'm on birth control, but probably because i havent really done anything sexal before right??

i hear about my friends having alot of fun and getting frisky haha and no i wouldnt do it because my friends are! i'd do it for ME. i'm 19, i know how to make wise choices, and i think i have so far! but would it be bad to have a guy finger me or to just have some fun with a guy? (link)
well, honestly i believe everyone should get tthere pleasure now... its up to you if your ready or not getting fingerd isnt a bad thing as long as you know the kid.. you dont want to get your pleasure and get a bad reputation cause thats not fun.. but chosse the right guy and go for it...


My boyfriend and I used to have no problems with fingering, etc.. However, everytime he fingers me now (I'd say it's been occuring for a month).. I start to bleed. Sometimes there will be slight irritation afterwords, but while he does it - it doesn't hurt at all. The blood is sometimes bright red, sometimes brown. We're both virgins.

We've discussed it and we think it might just be that his fingernails have caused little cuts and abrasions - and we aren't allowing enough time for them to heal.

While he says that my health is more important to him then messing around, it's still really embarrassing for me and a downer for both of us ( we can't really finish).

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Dont worry about a thing, im 20 years old and well i started having sex at 16 i had neever bleed during sex ,fingering or anything but a couple of weeks ago i was having sex with my long term boyfriend and as soon as we stooped he decided to finger me.. now my boyfriend has pretty big fingers and he has put 4 fingers in me and started going super hard and stuff but as soon as i turned my head his hand was full of blood everywhere i was so embarresed i started crying but he made it feel very natural he was understanding i thought it was because i was getting my period but reallly it was because he had broken my hymen ...The hymen is a piece of tissue that, during development, blocks some or all of the entrance to the vagina. It exists in many species, and scientists have no real understanding of its purpose in humans. in short term its basically your virginity... and some of you might say.. but ive already had sex how could it bleed... well it could very be so that your hymen was never reeally broken but he had torn it even mmore witch causses the vagina to bleed heavil or even lightly... breaking your hymen is fine... it wont hurt you when you have sex anymore its not a big deal so dont worry about it




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