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what to do with a guy i had a nice night with? *long question*
i was at a party and got slightly tipsy. there was this guy, whom i met for the 1st time at the party, who clung on to me during the whole time i was at the party, practically looking after me *like not allowing me to drink anymore, and kept talking to me the whole night*. then after that he hung out at my living room the whole night til morning while my roommates were around. the whole night he kept teasing me, and frequently forwarding his head towards me when i got bemused, and hugging me softly. he even put me to sit on his lap while we were watching movie. *i know, it is weird because we've really just met* well, i've never even been kissed so i ddnt know if he was trying to kiss me. he never made a move on me or something. and when morning came, he silently went bk home so my roommates wont think it weird of us spending all night on the couch.
question 1) does he sound like he's interested in me? because it has been 2 days since that night and he never called. *i ddnt call him too*
question 2) well, we're in the same university. so if i happen to stumble into him, how am i supposed to react?
i kinda like him and would like to spend time with him again.
im an 18-yr old asian studying in the states. and the guy's american.
-sorry for such a long question-
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If this happened to me, I'd totally think the guy was interested in me. But as I tell myself very often- "you should never jump to conclusions". Being realistic, its only been two days... when females get a guy's number they usually have this "day countdown" before they call them. Maybe he doesn't wanna seem too desperate? If you happen to stumble over him.. act normal! There's nothing weirder than a girl acting all jittery around a guy. However you were before with him, act the same way. To be honest, if you were one of my girlfriends I'd practically push the phone towards your ear and tell you to call him =] It doesn't have to be an "I like you" typa call. You should definitely call him and say something to lighten up the mood between you two.. Something funny like "Ummm, thanks for taking care of me when I was wasted". Just to get a laugh out of the whole situation and see where it goes from there.
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Well my saying that I go by is your only a loser if you don't try. The worst possible anwser you are going to get is " No I am not into you" Which from the sounds of it doesnt seem like its gonna happen. He may even be waiting for you to make a move. So just do and it and take a risk if you really like him. If he gave you his number then it was for a reason. Well god luck hun and I wish you the best
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This happened to me, EXACTLY this summer.
All I can say is think with your head and just ask him. Straight up honest.
Because for me, this summer, it was the first boy who took an interest me and stuff, and he kissed me, held me etc etc - turns out to him, he just wasn't as interested as I was.
So ask him - Do you like me? I got the feeling you did, but I'm not sure. Don't be nervous asking him - it's not like your telling him what you feel, your just asking him how he feels.
Think with your head not your heart. You'll only get hurt. I was infactuated with this guy, but he just didnt feel the same - and that rejection is pretty painful. So ask him how he feels, decide between the two of you what's going to happen, and DON'T take it any of it TOO seriously - chances are, he isn't. So if he does like you, see eachother often etc etc, just don't take it serious, have fun, get to know eachother, just don't get hung up on him :)
Sadie, 16yrs :)
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you know how he was teasing you..you just do the same thing listen i cant say he isnt into you a guy whos clunges on to you all night deffenetly means he is intrested in somne way but its hard to tell you if hes intrested in you or he just wanted a one night thing... seing that you werent making a move probably gaved him the empression im not a whore.. you cant just have fun with me witch is a great thing guys like girls who are hard to get but ... some unfortenetly dont so my opinion is that he probably just wasnt into you in a relationship type of way but intrested in doing shit with you and he notished that he couldnt get you in one night so hes not calling you back my advice to you dont call him back untill he call yyou. and about the whole university thing when you pass by him dont say nothing pretend nothing ever happend.. its good to act like you dont care sometimes hes going to want you even more... sorry for such a long answer xoxox!!! best of luck and let me know what happend
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