ok so one of my friends thought of a good idea to get a guy to like me. he likes "bad girls" so the plan is to get a rumor started about me that i gave someone a bj and idk if i should do it or not. help me plllleeeeaaasssssssseeeee!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Niinakins answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 7:44 pm: hey,please dont do that, i dont know whos idea that was but really, dont mess up your reputation for a guy, especially a bad boy, i know it sounds cool and harmless like ohh its ok its just a rumor but really just for makeing up a lie like that even if everyone finds out its a lie your reputation in school will drop.. think it over, im just an advicenator but i think instead of makeing up a lie like that you should be yourself around him :) just go strait up to him and tell him hes hot hahaha and go from their, if he doesnt like you then his loss. good luck [ Niinakins's advice column | Ask Niinakins A Question ]
loveable17 answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 3:42 pm: NO NO NO. bad idea if you cannot be yourself and you have to spread a rumor about you being sexual to get a guy to like you than he's not the one. Plus that is not going to get him to like you its gonna get him to think.. o if I ever want a bj then there is the girl to go to and you will just be a piece of meat to him. I really hope you don't do that It will only cause drama and problems for you!!! [ loveable17's advice column | Ask loveable17 A Question ]
Daliaa answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 11:51 am: honestly.. you shouldnt just make a rumour about yourself to try to make a guy like you....first of all starting a rumour about you giving head is just gonna make you have a bad name after and guys dont like that.... the only ones who do are the ones who just want to do shit with you... hes not going to like you because you give head...a guy should like you for you now i say its a stupid idead but its up to you i cant make ur desicions for you but i say you deffenetly shouldnt your just putting yourself down... sure hes gonna like you for that moment when your giving him oral aafter that dont think he wont tell his friends or anyone... cause he will... [ Daliaa's advice column | Ask Daliaa A Question ]
christina answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 11:51 am: No. It could ruin your reputation & make everyone think you're a slut.
Be a nice girl. If you get that type of rep, guys will only want you because they'll think you're easy. They won't have any real interest in you.
And other girls will talk bad about you. It'll just bring trouble. If he wants a bad girl, he can go find one who already has a bad rep. No need to spoil a good girl. Reputations are easy to make and hard to break. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
jaybahamut answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 11:38 am: no that is not a good idea at all. cause if you spread a rumor liek that around peple are going to start thinking differently of you. thinking that oh she easy, or oh she gives good head or whatever, plus if you have a reputation well if u spread a rumor like that you might as well throw your reputation out the window cause you will lose your reputation. idk if thats a big thing to you or not but you will lose it if you spread something like that around. so in my opinion i dont think that it's a good idea to spread a rumor around like that. [ jaybahamut's advice column | Ask jaybahamut A Question ]
Alin75 answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 10:17 am: I agree with Razhie's answer. Its a bad idea.
It is also something that could stay with you for a very long time. Once a label is placed on someone, it is very hard to remove it. Think about the long term.
Apart from all this, I would also like to add that, in general, its not a great idea to hook up with someone by pretending to be too different than you are. The relationship is almost certainly doomed from the start. Eventually either he will figure out that you are a different person, or you will get sick and tired of playing the part. Though granted this is not as important as everything else that was mentioned thus far.
tearilee answered Tuesday September 8 2009, 2:25 am: if he heres you gave someone a bj that makes you slut say you beat up some chick in the mall that was talkin shit about on of your friends [ tearilee's advice column | Ask tearilee A Question ]
Razhie answered Monday September 7 2009, 10:40 pm: Sure. Not only will you get his attention, you'll get the attention of EVERY OTHER CREEPY, SEX OBESSESD GUY AROUND!
Even better the first time you do give a bj, instead of it being a fun thing you try out with some guy you really like, you'll be a total nervous wreak as you try to 'fake' knowing what you are doing!
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