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i finally let go of the fake friend
So i posted a few questions about my friend who is self righteous with her religion and now my friend who posted the stuff about me on facebook calls herself a christian. And ever since she's become one she bugs me about it. Since she couldn't change my religion she tried changing the way i look, she couldn't do that so now when we hangout she seems distant because she can't change me. not only that uses me and makes me come to her house all the time, and made it public on facebook about how my bad my driving is, so i finally took action and deleted her and the other girl from my facebook. Well anyways she called me and asked me if i wanted to hangout with her. I said i couldn't and she asked me why and i told her i was at a friend's house. She said oh cool well maybe we can just hang out later. I said no, and she goes why? I told her this: Because you post embarrassing things about me on facebook after i drove you around. And she of course acts like she did nothing wrong and says are you being serious right now? and i said yeah and she said okay i'll talk to you later, and i said okay bye. Then i got on facebook and she added me again, but i denied her friend request and clicked on the thing that said she wouldn't be able to send me anymore friend requests. So what i want to know is am i doing the right thing, because she obviously thinks she can act like a brat and get a way with it, and that just doesn't fly with me. And i don't get where this whole thing about me being a bad driver is coming from. When i was driving i wasn't speeding, even though i said that because they thought i was. They were distracting me, and my friend who was sitting at the front freaked out when i didn't brake, was talking really loud, and rolled down the windows and started yelling when she saw someone she knew. and then the other one was opening the door while i was driving. So yeah what should i do if the friend who called me to hangout starts asking me why i am mad at her, and why i am making a big deal out of this. I know i am not the greatest driver ever but i don't need her telling everyone that on facebook, especially after i drove their ungrateful selves around town.
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she's not the greatest friend but i think you're overreacting. so what if you're friends on facebook? doesnt mean that you see her every day. plus, it's better cos who knows what she posts about you on facebook when you cant see it (because you're not friends). and what do you worry so much about what she wrote? if you dont take it seriously, it wont hurt you. or you can actually acknowledge it and be like 'uuurgh, im a bad driver so i better not give you rides anymore'. save you the trouble of being used by her and making her know that you guys are just acquaintances, but no hard feelings.
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it sounds to me like this girl is using you. I'm sorry to say it that way, but she's just not very nice. First off, just because she's a Christian doesn't mean that she can only be friends with you if you are. Personally, I am and I don't go around trying to convert all my friends if they don't want to. And I don't go having dinners with pastors. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with that, but it's just strange. Not too many people do that and bring friends along. I had a friend like that also. She wouldn't post things on facebook, but she would talk to people who badtalked me behind my back and then she claimed she was my best friend, like a sister! My sister has my back! lol. The advice I can offer you is the following: keep your friends close but your enemies closer. I may be wrong, but it doesn't seem like this girl is going to plot anything against you. It's just that she's a brat, and you deserve to have better friends. You have the right to keep her off of facebook. But, just because you de-friended her from fb doesn't mean u defriended her from your life. You may still have to see her around. So just keep that in mind. Make sure that you stand your ground. If you want to be friends with her, set things straight. And if you don't, then don't speak to her. Don't be flaky about it. Just stand your ground. Just be careful. You have the right to look for better friends. You don't have to settle for this type of treatment
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