I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it.
nikz answered Sunday April 24 2011, 2:42 pm: well the truth is that 55% of men change after a long period of time in a relationship because they tend to get bored this doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you anymore, he probably just wants to spend more time with his friends but the only person that can answer your question is your boyfriend himself, you should speak to him about this tell him that you know he needs his space but it doesn't give him the right to treat you like he doesn't care anymore, if he doesn't see reason and doesn't believe what he is doing is wrong then it's time to start questioning if this is really the guy that you want to be with [ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question ]
AskAliceMadisson answered Sunday April 24 2011, 1:17 pm: Like I told another person that asked something similar: Guys change! They change for these reasons:
1) They are hanging out with other friends and are being influenced by them and start behaving like that.
2) (Sorry, might be a bit harsh but true) He might do it on purpose so you would dump him so he would not have to put you through the pain of him dumping you.
3) It is simply his hormones. Teenage guys all the way up to 20 have a change in mood all the time. Sometimes they are nice, some times they are bad ass.
I think that it is really up to you what you do. You should dump him if you feel like you don't need him. If you still feel for him, tell him that you love him and tell him how you feel and that you think he has changed. If he truly loves you he will understand.
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