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Last Update: September 27, 2011
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i am a 17 year old girl who has feelings for my 21 year old step-brother and is it normal. i really need your help i dont know how i am going to tell him
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It could be normal, but I don't think it is. I think you might have your feelings a little mixed up! You might be feeling closer to him because he is now family, so don't worry. Just try to move on, it shouldn't be that hard. Don't tell your step-brother, because he is FAMILY, and you can not have that awkwardness.
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im 16 years old girl. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 2 months. we used to be the best boyfriend ever! but here lately, it feels like things are changing. hes just been so rude to me. when he asks were i am, hes like were the fu*k are you and stuff. i love him so much and dont want to end it. i just dont know if being with him is worth it anymore. i dont know what to do if i should just end it or not (link)
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tell him how you feel and if anything happens then try to get over him. it's tough, but it's life. email rhiannon@the-neales.com for confidentaility xx
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Hi im 13 theres this guy who ia drop dead gorgeous hes kind of. A player but. Hes soo cute and nice to me my friends say thay i shouldnt likr him wat should i do (link)
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it isn't up to your friends is it? if he really loves you then he won't act like a player for you. just give it a go.
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Okay i am almost 15 and i am now just getting into public school. (I was home schooled for most of my life) And my boyfriend of a couple months really wants me to go pretty far. I am ready. But i don't if i should shave down there or not? Or how to? Or risks? etc, etc.
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To be honest, I think you should. Your boyfriend might be interested in serious foreplay. If you shave it would be a good idea, because there isn't many risks. Just be careful if using a manual. xx
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Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long) (link)
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nothing is wrong with this.... xxx
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please tell me how can i end my life in 5 minutes and make it sure to die...please help me, please help me. I left 2 jobs , now not getting a single and i was hurted so much by two girls, one hates me i forgot her but 2nd one likes me but her family does not want her to talk with me, so i wana die,,,help me please...
please send me email at: rabfriends2008@rediffmail.com
i would be greatful to you (link)
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Emailed. xx
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I rate high... So I am at this new school and i have told my parents and they won't let me move cuz i hate it thereee :(
answer, 'cuz i rate fives.. xxx (link)
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okayy so my boyfriend of 4 months is in the hospital and i'm wondering if i should go see him. he wouldn't talk to me earlier or answer my questions about how he was feeling. i haven't seen him in a month so i'm afraid that he doesn't want to see me. should i go see him anyway and let him know i care? (link)
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If you think you should see him then go. But, he might be feeling embarrassed so don't mention about him being actually IN a hospital.
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my mom wont let me get my belly botton peircered so i did it my self now i can't find a belly ring any where and i dont have any money (link)
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You should have not pierced your belly button with out your mother's permission. It can get seriously infected. You need to let her know what has happened, and she might be angry with you now but you know that it could save you from about four operations on your stomach.
If you are too scared to tell your mum, contact a local GP (doctor) and make sure that you give them ALL the details.
If you would like more advice, drop me a message on here. Or for total confidentiality; message me on rhiannon@the-neales.com.
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I am dealing with anarexia. Everyone says tell your school nurse....i go to a school with over 3,000 students in it. She doesnt like me either. I am new to the school and i am known for causeing drama so i am afraid that if i tell people about m problem they wont believe me. So now i am on the erge of begging...please sombody tell me how to tell an adult but not my mother or a teacher rather a principal just please tell me how too....thank you (link)
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Tell a trusted teacher, or even your parents. Anorexia is a terrible disorder, and your life is at risk right now. It doesn't matter if you are known for causing drama, just keep it quiet from your peers and make sure somebody older finds out. If you don't want to deal with it at your school, tell a friends mum, or your local doctor. You must tell somebody who is able to help you. They can't not believe you, because this is such a serious issue.
For more advice, message me here, or if you want it super private on rhiannon@the-neales.com or rhiaannon@live.co.uk
Good luck sweetie... get well soon. xxx
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Heyy! So I have a question. How do you tag where you are at on Facebook? For example..it might say Denise is at 'Walmart' and it'll be highlighted. I hope somebody knows what I'm talking about. I know how to tag people but not places. Also I mostly use Facebook mobile so that might help..Please help! Thanks (: (link)
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I dunno, but put up as a status
'how do ya tag places guys? inbox!
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OK.... three months ago my bestie snapped and threw me against a wall in a park bathroom.... I havnt talked to her since then and mom thinks ive punished her enough.... I still dnt want to talk to her.... But i feel really bad..... What do i do? btw im 12 nd female.
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To be honest, she sounds nothing like a decenct friend. You are only twelve, and if your mum thinks that, then she might not know what you have ACTUALLY been through. Tell her what she did isn't acceptable and you can't forgive her. Move on and make new friends, and if you become close again then maybe it will all work out.
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ok so i have had my period and i humped my bed and im rly rly rly rly rly scared can i be pregnant????plz help u dont understand!? (link)
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you aren't pregnant. your bed hasn't got sperm on it, and you have had your period so don't worry.
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Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for two months now and are both seventeen years old and are in a long distance relationship. the other day i popped my cherry when i was thinkin about him and we were sexting. I told my god-sister what happened and she said well at least yall can have phone sex now. Me and him really want to have it but just dont know how to start off. we are madly in love with eachother and want to do it. i really need some advice on how to start it or even how to do it. I think it will help our relationship because of the fact we will so far away. We both really wanna have phone sex. Please Help (link)
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just ask him how he feels.... it's gonn abe obvious from there x
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Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long) (link)
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Don't worry about this at all. Girls always do this kind of 'touching' eachother. You are totally normal. Everybody is a little bisexual, anyway. Girls experiment with this stuff all the time, and I am sure half the girls at your school are worried about this. Don't worry xxxx
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Hi, I just wanted to ask a question about my bf's brandma whom I'm going to meet very soon. We both love eachother very much so he is going to be in town and asked me if I wanted to go to his grandmas with him. I said I would love to this Friday (its Tuesday ) so he is hoing to ride my bus home and we are going to walk there (which is about 5 miles away from my house) so I wanted to know if I should bring anything with me for his grandma plus my mom said I he was going to spend the night that I could too. So should I bring anything special?? (link)
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Well, Just be yourself. Everthing will be okay, and don't worry because it isn't up to his Grandmother whether or not he can see you. Just be polite and dress well
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I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it. (link)
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To be honest, as sad as it might be, he might have another girl. It's hard to hear, but I think he could be cheating on you. Fair enough that you will get upset, he is being harsh on you, but I would end things with him. But if you think that there could be a future... Confront him. He needs to be told that he is upsetting you.
Good luck xx
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Ok....so im a 13 year old girl, and i went over my friends house a few days ago(she's a girl). Anway while we were on the floor watching tv about to go to sleep she reaches over and puts herhands down my shorts and starts fingering me... i sort of liked it, then she takes my hand and tells me to do it to her, so i did and the nxt day she said that she wants to do it again... what should i do?
ps:im not bi-sexual or lesbian (link)
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Well, your only thirteen so it seems difficult to tell whether you actually bi or lesbian. If your friend fingered you and you liked it thats fine. You can carry on easy, because everybody goes through this stage anyway.
If you want to do it again, do it again. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. xx
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My friend, a 15 year old girl, is sometimes like a bratty little kid. She gets upset if she can't have her way and if someone asks her to stop something.
For example, my other friend has a notebook which we all write stories in. I'll call her Lydia. The childish friend, let's say Jen, gets it more than anyone else and throws a little tantrum if Lydia won't give it to her or asks for it back. She also ripped out several pages which nobody can use now.
She also thinks it's ok to write on other people's things without asking. She writes all over the notebook in Sharpie just because she felt like it (which she said) and on Lydia's shoes (WTF?!) and when we tell her it needs to stop, she gets angry and ignores us. She came over to my house yesterday and had the nerve to write on my brother's Legos in Sharpie. Her excuse? He 'always' hits her on the head. He's a little kid!
What do I do? She's being a baby and a brat and lives in her own little world, complaining about everyone else. It needs to stop. Any advice? Thank you! (link)
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This girl is an outrageous bitch! She does not sound much like a friend if I am honest. You and your friend Lydia deserve better friends that her. To be honest, if she does it again you need to tell her it is pissing you off. Maybe she has a reason for all of this though, so explain to her (as nicely as possible) that she is being quite immature when she doesn't like what she hears or gets, and suggest she talks to a trusted friend and/or adult about it.
Always here if you need me (: xx
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well me and my boyfriend love each other! and we slep together alot of times. but whenever we have sex i always get worried and afraid that im pregnant! but it always turns out to be false. well last time we slept together was in beginning of april. i took a plan B pill right after and got my period a week later when my regular period is supposed to be like... today? i took a pregnancy test 17 days after having sex and it came out to be negative. but i didnt get my period yet. i got a huge fever yesterday and so im really dizzy and headaches and cramps... i dont know im really worried. cause im really young and my parents would kill me! please help :/ (link)
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Sometimes periods are just quite irregular. Maybe the dizzy headaches and cramps are signs they will be coming soon, or it could be stress that you are worried about it.
Don't thinka about it too much, because seventeen days after ex is a long time, and it should give an accurate answer. However, if you remain ill and are still not getting your period, I suggest you consult your local doctor for further advice. xx
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