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idont know if i should give up on my man or not. i need someone elses advic
im 16 years old girl. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 2 months. we used to be the best boyfriend ever! but here lately, it feels like things are changing. hes just been so rude to me. when he asks were i am, hes like were the fu*k are you and stuff. i love him so much and dont want to end it. i just dont know if being with him is worth it anymore. i dont know what to do if i should just end it or not
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He is probably being insecure if he talks to you like that. If he keeps being rude to you then you should tell him straight up that he cant be treating you that way. If he keeps treating you that way then just ignore him and make him see that you wont tolerate his act and bs.
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tell him how you feel and if anything happens then try to get over him. it's tough, but it's life. email rhiannon@the-neales.com for confidentaility xx
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You're only 16 years old. You don't need the grief. If he's being an asshole to you (and an earlier commenter is right, maybe there are external factors that are causing him to be irritable) then tell him to hit the road. There are tons of other guys who will want to be with you. Plus you are not going to marry this guy.
Date around, explore life and don't get so tied down so early. Your brain will keep developing until you are about 25, so your feelings on everything are going to evolve a lot over that span. Keep your options open and focus on finishing high school and then college rather than high school relationships that ultimately won't amount to much in the grand scheme of things.
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the next time hes rude to you either walk away from him and go home and dont talk to him or when he calls u or texts u that ignore him and when he keeps asking be like i wont asnwer you when you talk to me that way if you want to know something you can ask nicely and probally be nice about it other wise we are through.
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Hmm, you should ask him why he's treating you that way and just tell him straight forward that its hurting youu. Just think it through, think about the greatest memories you guys had together and compare it to you ending up without him. But if you really love him, just be there for him and find out why he's being like that. Show him how you really love him and maybe he'll start being nice to you again. If none of these work, take a lil break and make him miss you, make him realize that what he's done to you isn't the best and if he really loves you he'll come back for you (:
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He sounds like he has issues at home or at school that he needs to deal with. Unfortunately, he's taking his frustrations out on you because you're close to him and an easy target. If he doesn't want to talk to you about his problems, he should find some professional advice to get things worked out. If he's not willing to get help, it may be time for you to break things off, because no one deserves to be treated badly. I hope this helps and good luck.
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