Hi ,i want to ask that , do gals masturbate like boys do nd do they cum ?nd wats the color of the cum. Nd do u masturbate?
Girls will rub their clit and use a finger to achive orgasm. Typically there is no color and very little liquid when a girl orgasms. Very few girls "squirt" when they cum like boys do. I do masturbate as do most everyone on the planet...lol.
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So usually I'm the dominant one in the bedroom but last night my boy caught me off guard and well I decided to allow him to take charge for a change. I've never had anything up/in my butt, only out so yes I was very nervous first we used a toy and surprisingly enough, I really liked it. Well we later moved on to actually having him enter my backdoor, it was all well. But today it's now 12 midnight and I haven't pooped in 26 hrs, since we had anal. Is it normal? I've ate normally, there wasn't any aching or soreness at all in the morning. This is new to me, so yes I'm a bit nervous and probably over reacting. He said it was normal but I'm sketchy, so if anyone can tell me before I decide to face my doctor embarrassingly about it, much appreciated!
19/f
You are not alone with liking a little anal. I have my biggest orgasms from anal (when it's done right...lol). The constipation will happen occasionally in the beggining and the best thing you can do is go to the drug store and buy an enema kit. It's very cheap and you can pretend it's for your sick mother..lol. It will be hard to keep it in but do it for as long as possible. This should help clean things out for now. If you're planning on having more anal sex, I would recommend doing a warm water enema before you think you'll have sex. This will keep him from getting dirty and you from getting constipated. My only other suggestion would be to use a strong vibrator on your clit when he goes in the backdoor. You'll be surprised how good it feels. If you need any other help, please feel free to write me. julie19751975@yahoo.com
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17/F
I'm not a virgin first off. But I am always so so so horny. I have no way of relief considering I don't have a boyfriend and I'm not into one nighters. I want to get a Jack Rabbit Vibrator but I don't anyone to know that I'm getting one. I can't send it anywhere and I cant walk into a store and get one. any advice. using my fingers doesnt help. I get to the point where I'm throbbing. Any advice is welcomed.
You can order some very nice toys from amazon. Go to any place that sells visa gift cards and use it to place your order. It will arrive in a plain brown box with no markings to indicate a sex toy. If you still don't feel comfortable going that route, I would use a round brush handle or a nice smooth candle as a dildo. If you're getting to the point where you're throbbing, maybe your orgasms aren't as big as they could be. Try working yourself up a little by teasing your body and holding off from an orgasm as long as possible. If you need any other help, please feel free to write me. Julie19751975@yahoo.com
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I am a lesbian and have a huge crush on this butch lesbian. She dont do the flowers and chocolates kinda thing and we are not a couple but I would like to be. What is some small sweet things I could do to show her she deserves to be treated good?
Invite her out for coffee or lunch sometime. Make up some excuse you need some advice or help with something. When you're out, find out what things she likes and go from there. I hope this helps and good luck.
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hi,
i was wondering if it is alright to ask someone who you are acquainted with their sexual orientation because you are interested in them, and are not sure if they 'swing that way'. cause i'm a bisexual and want to know about a girl in my classes orientation but do not want to offend her in any way or cause her unnecessary trouble. Should i wait until we hang out more or? thanks! 16/f
I was bisexual from about the age of 14 and had some of the same problems. I found that if we went out on some friend dates, like the mall, lunch or hot chocolate, I would find out how they felt about me. Then to make sure, I would invite a girl over to spend the night, play some truth or dare and if things were going well, I would make the dares risky ones. If she said no, I wouldn't push it any further and move on to the next girl. If you need any other help, please e-mail me. julie19751975@yahoo.com. I hope this helps and good luck.
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17/female
I have absolutely no privacy. I don't have a bedroom. My parents are home most of the time. So I don't get much if any time to masturbate. I also don't have a bathtub, as that has been suggested before: just a stand up shower with a very small bathroom so that doesn't give me much of an option either. Idk what to do.
It's hard to imagine that someone doesn't have a bedroom but you do have somewhere to sleep. Pretend to fall asleep some night and wait for everyone to go to bed and have your fun under the blanket. Make sure the lights are off and you're very quiet about it. Wear loose clothing or even a dress to have easier access. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So i've learned, love sucks. it seems i always fall for someone that is nearly impossible for me to ever be with. (oh, btw i'm bi, and only my family and three close friends know.) anyway I have a major crush on a girl in one of my classes. i don't know her sexual orientation and am not close enough to ask her. Two years ago we used to play frisbee every week, but since we've only shared classes. I'm trying to become closer to her again as a friend, but as winter draws near her hockey season is starting to pick up and she is quite busy. How do i approach her as a friend to hang out? (Also, i hope no one is against my orientation, but if you are, please refrain from commenting, thank you!) 16/f
I'm a female and also bi, so I can totally understand your problem. When I was in school and I wanted to see how a girl felt about me, I would go out on some friend dates. Ask her to go for hot chocolate after hockey. Tell her you'd like some help picking out some clothes at the mall and you'll treat for lunch. Then after a few dates ask her to spend the night to watch her favorite movie. After she comes over, you can play some truth or dare and find out how she really feels about you. If you need any other help, please feel free to write me. julie19751975@yahoo.com
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As children we experimented my older sister introduced me to full sexual intercourse. Later I did the same with my younger sister. After many years of living apart my younger sister and I were brought together again, both of us were now in our mid 50's, we rekindled our youthful relationship and it continues on a regular basis, the pleasure of our sexual union is extremely arousing and we are discreet since we both have spouses and children. Similar questions leads me to ask what harm is there if consenting siblings enjoy each other this way?
I don't know much about insest but I think if you're both adults, you can do whatever makes you happy.
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It started about a week ago in school. (I'm only fifteen, if that helps any). I had to go to the bathroom. So I signed out, look the lavatory pass, etc. I was walking down the hallway and I felt like there was someone behind me. I turned around and there was no one there. so I was like 'okay i'm just crazy. whatever. no big deal' in a joking kind of thinking way. so I continued walking down the hallway and to the bathroom. and I felt like there was someone in there with me. I knew I was the only one in there but I felt like I wasn't. I didn't think much of it but it's been happening more lately.
last night at like 11 I was ready to go to sleep after a long night of writing a song. so I turned off my light and went into my bed, covered up cause I was freezing, etc. I was facing the wall. and I had to get comfortable so I wanted to turn around. but I couldn't. like for some reason I was scared to. i couldn't relax I was all tense. I knew nothing would happen because I was the only one there. but still I felt like there was someone watching me. I started talking to myself (which is normal for me) and said "gosh. i'm crazy. what's my problem? why can't I just turn around?" so I did and saw that I left my keyboard on. The red light on it was on. so I mean maybe I just felt like something wasn't right, and I was right because i didn't turn my keyboard off?
But still, I couldn't get out of bed to turn it off. I was scared. I was freaking out for no reason. and it was only like 8 or 9 feet away, not too far. I didn't turn it off until I woke up this morning. so I don't know what my problem is. but I feel like there's someone watching me. like right now, for instance, I feel like someone's reading this over my shoulder. but they're not. my mom's in the kitchen and so is my cat.
How crazy am I?
P.S. I have this sort of panic disorder, with agoraphobia. I've tried talking to my mom about it and she doesn't believe any of it. So I can't talk to her about medication or anything, and there's no one else I can talk to.
Also I wrote this in a hurry so I hope whoever reads this is able to understand most of it.
I can totally understand the panic attacks because there was a time where I couldn't even walk into walmart or a grocery store without my heart beating fast and just leaving. I just wonder if you were having these strange feelings because someone in your family or someone from your past that passed away, may be coming to tell you something. They may be watching over you, so that no harm will come to you. Has there been anything else that's changed in your life recently with your mom or dad that may be giving you these feelings too. You can write me back at my e-mail if you need anything else sweetie. Julie
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I recently just got out of a bad relationship and I no longer want to keep my ring that my ex gave me.. Its real diamonds and bought from Zales Diamond store. Where do you think is the best way to sell this for cash? there's a pawn shop down the road I could go there. Or should I try selling it online at craigslist? what about going to Zales and asking them to buy it from me since he bought it there (I don't have receipt though).
What do you think would be the best option for me? thanks!
Take it to a reputable jeweler in town that buys gold and see what they'll give you for it. You'll be able to get the penny weight too. Then try to have a friend sell it on e-bay and you'll get double the price of a pawn shop. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i do not know how to start this but appology for this long statement. i couldn't analyze these things anymore... let me start it this way, i am married for almost two years now and i love my husband. recently, i work with this lady and i find her very attractive. the thing is i don't know if she's gay or not and sending me mixed signals. i find her going on her way just to be around me or something, used to flirt with me before (i've seen her before i worked with her), stares at me when am not looking, used to stare at me when i was talking (before) and seems to be jealous when i talk to another men (like in a friendly way, not flirty). MOST IMPORTANTLY, i wonder so much why does our coworkers watches us whenever we are around together. they look at us, literally! it seems to me that they are listening to our body language or something. i don't understand... i really don't. since i started working with her i don't remember doing any flirtatious act on her. i never have. the only thing that happened was before i worked with her. like i say 2-3 times. well anyways, all of these happened before until last night... she worked with me directly and asked me bunches of personal questions like how is my husband, where did we met, etc and etc... do i have plans going back home to my country. i said yes i do. but am looking for someone to fly with me so i won't be by myself. she said she would go, she'd love to. then later when i asked her to go out with me and my friends because my other friend is bringing another person ( i don't wanna be out of place) she said yes if i wanted her to go (said yeah i do) and asked if we go to a bar and i said nope we don't do that. we just go out shopping. she said that's cool. i just thought you want me to WORK FOR YOU (what in the world does that mean???). that really got me. i laughed it out though. i asked her number and she gave it to me. later i asked her if she wanna go out watch movie, she said it's up to us. i can see she seemed to be starting in doubt, so when i got off from work i told her she don't have to go if she don't want to and that if something would come up. i even said i really like her and she said oh really? (she said it in a deep low voice) but i didn't told her that in a romantic way. she said she'll let us know and that she's saving her money because she's going to college soon. well anyways the fact is nobody knows am bisexual but i can see that she can sense that (that am bi). well, an hour after i texted her and she seems to be not interested or something...? i asked her questions and she answers it but she's not reciprocating my point on texting her and asking her out. i just wanna know her and be friends. she's very nice in every way. gracious i must say. am attracted to her, i admit that. however, i know where i stand on my ground and i cannot act on it. did she found everything weird? is she losing interest on me or did she even have an interest with me at all?
i honestly don't know what is going on so please please please i need everybody's help here analyzing these situation. am not even understanding my own self. i wanna know what is going on with her and what does she want from me.
I think she's turned off by the fact that you're still married. She may think you want to have a threesome with your hubby. If you were single, I'm sure you would be able to hook up with her. You need to be honest with her and let her know that if you get in a relationship with her, it's strictly between you and her. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me. Julie19751975@yahoo.com
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Is it bad if I'm giving my boyfriend head and I can't make him "finish" because I get too tired?
I feel like I'm better at giving head than giving a hand job. So I will start giving my boyfriend a quick hj and then start giving him head. The thing is, I'll be giving him head and he just won't finish. I know he likes it because he breathes heavy and by what he says, but why does it take him so long to finish! I feel bad, because doesn't it hurt him if i stop and he doesn't cum? I know he doesn't have a problem cumming, so is it my fault -am i not doing it good enough? :( He doesn't get mad at me when I stop, but I personally feel bad or like I'm doing something wrong.
I don't know what else I can do!
It's good that you're using your hand first because it helps for the finish. I think that he's masturbating a little to much and probably does it right before you get together. A lot of guys do that before they go out on dates when they plan on having sex, so they will last longer. If he tells you it feels good, you shouldn't feel bad about not making him cum. I hope this helps and good luck.
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ok so I'm going to a party tomorrow and I have no IDEA what to wear! I wanna look sexy, but not slutty. Please, I really need help! I'm a 13 year pld female.
Deb is a good place to find semi-sexy stuff. You don't want to be sexy at your age but attractive is good. Tight jeans and an attractive blouse is good. If this a little more formal party, you can go with a dress or skirt/blouse option. The dress shouldn't be to short or you'll cross into the slutty phase. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My teacher is 27 and Im 17 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front of teachers and students and they just laugh at him because they think hes joking. I don't know if hes playing or what. He'll be in class teaching and put his arm around me. I don't think he'll try to do anything but sometimes he gets close to me and its really uncomfortable, even when I back away. He just stares and smiles at me a lot. Or he'll walk over to my desk and stand there for a while. I'm a pretty strait forward person, so after a while I turn around and ask him what he wants. He'll ask if I need help or something. One time he looked up my schedule and took me out of PE class because I was mad at him and someone told him that I didnt like him, he took me out of class just to ask me if I didnt like him and he looked seriously hurt.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I just wanted to know what somebody else's opinion was about the situation. Sometimes I just can't tell if hes joking because he knows I have a crush on him or if hes being serious. Please answer, thanks
If you can't find anyone to believe you, transfer out of his class. Tell him you respect him as a teacher but you can't do your class work properly with him around. I hope this helps and good luck.
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23/f, my partner is the same age. I don't usually ask questions in this category...this is a little odd for me...>.>
Tell me something - why is it that guys like "dirty talk" so much?
I'm not inexperienced, here. I've had a few partners, and in the past I just kind of got around it or refused to do the "dirty talk" thing. My new guy's into it, and I want to give it a shot. The problem is it's just so...cliche. It makes me laugh, which totally ruins the moment. I'm an actress - maybe it would help if I thought of it as a kind of role playing?
Even so, though, I never know what to say. "I love the way your **** feels in my *****"? "I love when you do that"? "I'm so wet"? I've seen porn; I get the general idea. I just feel like there's something I'm missing.
What's ridiculous is - as I said - I'm an actress. I can play any role. I'm also a writer. I have a myriad of characters and personalities under my belt and floating around my head, but none of them are comfortable with talking dirty.
What's even worse is that if I start doing that when I'm close, even just saying "I'm coming," or anything like that, my orgasm stops, and then I'm not coming, and he thinks I am, and I don't want that. I'm a lot less shy than I used to be in bed, but this still pushes me a little.
So how do I do this dirty talk thing without making myself laugh, or uncomfortable, while still turning him on?
Tips, tricks, advice? Help a girl out!
Thanks!
Most guys don't want it every time but once in a while should suffice. Try being a little dominate toward him and order him to do things. Smack his ass and tell him to go faster. You don't have to tell him when you're cumming and make sure you get your orgasm before you continue with getting him off. You can try telling him some fantasies you have during sex. If none of these things work, tell him you're thinking about some cute guy you saw at the mall and he'll probably want you to stop. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I was watching the movie Casper and two times he says "Can I keep you?" what does that mean?
It's like finding a lost puppy and you say to it "can I keep you?".
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I'm 13 and this is my friends account she's 18
I always watch lesbian porn and I wanna masturbate but I don't, and idk if I'm a les because I still love guys
You don't really need to label yourself but if you need to, right now you're only bi-curious. I had sex with a girl when I was 14 and then a boy at 16. It's perfectly normal to think about being with another girl and there may come a time when you stay with a close friend and you start experimenting. It's totally up to you whether you decide to explore your bi side. I hope this helps and good luck.
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so i like this guy. he was in my school and passed out this year. i am a year junior to him so i'll pass out next year!
i have been talking to him for quite a while now.. and i really like him. he likes me too. he asked me out recently.(though we both are confused on what to do because.. the problem is he is going to another country :/ for his college! and yeah well he would come back to where i live cause his family is here, but still i mean i dont know what i should do?)
I would go out on a few casual friend dates. Nothing romantic for now because he will definitely want sex after and if he's leaving for a long time, there's a good chance he may find someone else. If you keep things as friends and keep writing while he's gone, you can see how things will be when he moves back home. A long distance relationship is hard on both parts. He's going to meet lots of new girls and possible want to date them because you're so far away. I hope this helps and good luck.
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OK so Im 15 and female. Im still a virgin but when I masterbate I end up squirting, as people put it. But its only like every other time. So my first question is:
1)What does it mean?
2)What am I squirting? Am i peeing? How do i tell if i am peeing or squirting?
3)Does this turn guys on? What about girls?
4) How do I stop doing it?
Thx for all advice
If you smell your hand after you squirt, it's probably not pee. I believe the majority of girls don't squirt but it's not out of the ordinary. I've slept with a few girls that would squirt and it didn't bother me. I think some guys enjoy it because it lets them know when you've had an orgasm. I wouldn't worry about stopping because it's just going to happen. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am 42 and been married three years to a 57 year old man!My concern is this i gound a jump drive laying on floor put it into my computer and it had 57,000 pics of naked women and porn clips!Is this normal behavior or is he obssessed?Most were young girls about 20,he is very conservitive with me so this really surprised and hurt me at the same time!He also goes on this nude hikes!I dint really have a problem with some porn but i am hurt that this is what he does when im not around!As he has been married three times before and discusses sexual past at times also!Im having a hard time even looking at him,he doesnt know i even have jump drive as i havnt decided what to do!
This means he still has a healthy sex drive. If he's not turning you down for sex or going away for long periods of time, you probably don't have anything to worry about. If you have carnations growing in your garden, do you not look at the roses because the carnations might get jealous? Every man likes to look but as long as he's not touching, let him have hs fun. I hope this helps and good luck.
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