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I'm 13 and I want my bellybutton pierced. I talked to my mom and she said it was illegal and that you have to be 18. I don't want to wait until I'm 18. My bf thinks it would be really sexy if I got it done and I want to get it pierced now. I told my mom to lie for me and that I promise I'll take care of it. she wont listen! What do I do? Can I pierce it at home myself or something? (link)
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Yes, pierce your belly button by yourself at home, that is a great idea. NOT!!! You are a little kid, you shouldn't have a boyfriend, and if he thinks you're sexy he's a pedophile-- look it up. If you pierce your belly button yourself you will get an infection and have permanent scarring. Stop being a little slut and focus on being a kid-- you only have one childhood and you have the rest of your life to be a boring adult.
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I love writing, it's my biggest passion and I do it from the time I get home till I go to bed, so my life basically revolves around it. Well, I also recently joined Drama Club as I've NEVER been in a club before. I am also being forced to take drivers' ed since my dad is leaving us soon and we need a way to get to school. No, I don't like taking drivers' ed as it interferes with my writing and club time as well as getting a life by TRYING to be social. I don't want my license at all, big waste of time. I don't really wanna go on with that bit, but I'm also getting annoyed that I have to try harder in school. I actually have an A this trimester and worked really hard for it, but of course, leave it to my parents to push me for a HIGHER A, which makes no sense. I'm also having problems with communication with my boyfriend.
I also wrote a paper for a class and I mentioned suicide, you know, since it's been all over the news. The teacher took it to the office and told my parents that I might be considering it, but I actually laughed when the counselor mentioned it because I had never once thought of suicide... Well, until today. All this stuff is stressing me out and I hate it and seriously, the thought crossed my mind when I passed the medicine cabinet. I really don't want to do it and I'm a big coward, so I probably won't, but I really don't like the thoughts of giving up running through my head and making me flat out depressed. I'm sixteen, by the way, if that helps any... But, can anyone tell me what to do? (link)
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How about cut the drama? "Thinking" about suicide and "thinking about actually committing suicide" are two completely different things. Everyone THINKS about it-- but few people are stupid and selfish enough to actually go through with it. You're obviously a teenager, and all teenagers go through phases where they think they're alone and worthless and life is too hard. Focus on the fun stuff-- LIKE DRIVING-- do you have any idea the freedom of being alone in a car with the windows down and the music up? You'll be able to drive yourself to the park or the beach and write your heart out, independent and on your own. You're having trouble communicating with your boyfriend because he is probably a 16 or 17 year old boy-- and 16 or 17 year old boys have no interest in communicating-- they want to play video games and touch as many boobs as they can. Focus on school, get your license, write when you can-- but don't miss out on highschool or stunt your social skills to the point where you will be lonely when school is done. College seems far away, but you're going to have the time of your life and you'll regret not going if your grades aren't good enough or if you're too much of a loner to go. Next time you pass the medicine cabinet and think, "I could take a ton of pills right now," just laugh it off and realize no one's life is every that bad-- especially not yours. Suicide is the most selfish act a person can do. Put a smile on your face and look forward to the future.
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So, this Christmas I'm going to be with my boyfriend. I've always been single on Christmas so I'm not use to this really. What are some good gifts to buy your boyfriend? It'll be our first Christmas together and we're both 16 right now. Around Christmas we will have been together 7 months. I love him a lot. What do I get him? (link)
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You're only 16 and its been 7 months. 16-year-olds don't know what love is. Write him a nice card and save your money for something that matters.
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About a week ago, I had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke. And last night I was using the restroom and when i peed, there was legit little blood on the toilet paper.. and i whiped again and there was nothing? But when the condom broke I was on the back end of my period so I wasn't ovulating or anything i don't think :/ (link)
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Take a ton of vitamin C! But don't exceed 6,000mg
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18/f
(itll be a year this october)
k so me and my boyfriend broke up because he LOVES me but is not IN LOVE with me, but im so completely head over heels in love.. wtf do i do. we recently hung out and now like everytime we hang out we have sex. i dont want that.... i want LOVEEE . everytime i ask if he has feelings for me like that again he says i can't rush him back into love n i wish i could but i know i cant . WHAT DO I DO. do i just hang out with him and not kiss him anymore? i sware to god this hurts so bad. maybe the more we hang out and not do anything..... he'll fall back in lovee :-( :-( (link)
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Boys want what they can't have... he knows you're into him, so there's no motivation for him to give anything back to you. Cut him out completely and move on, and he'll come crawling back. Stop answering his calls, stop texting him, stop seeing him. Hopefully by the time he realizes what he's missing, you'll realize you don't want to be with a guy who doesn't want to be with you.
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what can u do to lose a lot of wieght
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Do the Special K diet! Eat nothing but Special K cereal with fruit cut up in it and drink only water or 100% fruit juice. That's what I did and it worked great. Make it a game... see how long you can go without soda or snacks. Try different kinds of Special K-- it's fortified with vitamins and minerals so you don't have to worry about getting the right amount of vitamins.
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